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Nov 12, 03
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accepting things
this morning i finally accepeted everything thats happened to me in life,in love,in friendship. Now i smile about these things and am thankful for the learning experiences, im no longer bitter and jaded, i see the big picture now,instead of only fragments of what I wanted to see. This feels good, i feel like hugging a tree or something haha.
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Nov 13, 03
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i figured out that just a while ago, that cant change shit ... so you might as well accept it. it does feel good ... as long as the tree you are hugging isnt prickly or make you itch a lot.
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Nov 13, 03
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werd.. lately ive been half assing everything...and not reaching what i like to call "perfection", but ive come to acceptance that perfection takes too much effort and i really dont need things to be perfect as well. ive come to accept that i dont get along with my family due to culture clash, my ex is a weird weird man, and that school is not easy, but i should just get my stuff finished. i dont care..life is great.. im happy for what i have. now i have to have others accept that im just me and that will not change.
yesh every bad thing that happens is a LEARNING EXPERIENCE. still trying to accept that... i hate failure. i DONT fail.
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Nov 13, 03
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^see thats when u should look at failures as learning experiences then u wont feel so shiesty!
just like realizing this stuff this morning makes me feel humble and makes me appreciate things more.I was on a harsh agro whoa is me trip for the longest time,and im happy that ive done a complete 180,if only my parents could look at things the same way then thatd make life alot more easier but hey yah cant win em all over, and ive accepeted that. hehe it feels like im gonna burst im just so :284: crazy with happiness right now.
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Nov 14, 03
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i try and try to accept stuff, but at this point in my life the things that i have accepted are enough for now. i know i have more, and i will deal with them soon, but i am too damned happy about what i am accomplishing at this moment. i am explodin with creativity, the kind that littlerally makes me jump up and down, i call people and tell them how excited i am and what i have just done, i almost cried. i even emailed my brother about all this craziness, telling him things i never thought i would.
godessa... props and happy times to you.
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Nov 14, 03
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^:Du too eh!!! Ive been having writers block lately so im kinda upset about that but hey im ACCEPTING IT and not getting overly anxious or anything like i used too. Before when i used to get writers block id just look at my blank pad of paper and my pen and cry:(but not no more,i learned to not go all drama queen over such trivial shit.
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Nov 15, 03
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sometimes the easiest way out of a writers block is to literally just start writing.. random words, phrases, whatever pops into your head at that split second when the pen hits the paper.
(and good going, godessa.. the world would be a much better place if more people could have the kind of epiphany you had)
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Nov 16, 03
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^:)thanx dood man!Yeah when i try to just start writing when i am blocked i just get really frusterated and end up balling my eyes out anf flailing about my house like im a having a seizure.I prefer for things to come naturally and not force the hand.
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Nov 19, 03
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^yeah im still having a rough time accepting the fact that someone who meant alot to me... i didnt mean shit to, and i really thought i did. But i accepeted the fact that Im a fucking moron for beleiving otherwise:)
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Nov 19, 03
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Its interesting when you consider what the average american has and compare it to someone living in a third world country, that it really doesn't make any sense why we freak out if we don't get a good deal on our monthly cellphone minutes or how gas prices rised yet again because all of us are getting 10 m.p.g. on our Lexus SUV.
When you consider how much people have and how much a majority of people in the world don't have. Its very ironic that we our one of the wealthiest countrie's in the world. Yet in a study that was done it showed American's were one of the least happiest people in the world. More disturbing then that is we don't have the worries of most of the people in the world, such as famine, genocide, disease, no education, REAL poverty, contaminated water, opression (That is if Bush doesn't count ;), war, war and more war. So to cut my rant short I will get right to the point. When I feel like life is getting me down with some insignificant drama bullshit. I just remember how much I have to thankful for, an awesome family, dope as hell friends, kicking pad, killer roommates, tight future and fast as fuck car :D Cheers, Dave
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Nov 19, 03
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everything has toi be accepeted,amy take awhile but they have to be accepeted.Theres alot of things i thought id never ccept... but i did. You can only dwell on so many things for so long, no matter how trivial or how vital and or life changing they may be. You cannot dwell on everything for evere, when you dwell on things they set you back from developing yourself as a person, they set you back from bettering yourself and the lives of others. Wether you get stuck on silly shit or the opposite you MUST learn and grow from it and share your knowledge with otheres, in hopes to detour them form making the same decisions as you... or make them think twice.
Just make an impact,it can change someone for ever,or bring someone whos in need of solace just that, and those who were once in need could pass it on to those in need. Its pintless to dwell on things,trivial or not. Spmething thats trivial to one person may be not so trivial to another, keep this in mind.Accepting "things" is to know you are healed, if you do not accept "things" you are not healed. To dwell on "things" is to revictimize yourself again and again, to let go and say okay is to be at peace...and to flourish. yep dont mind te typos drunk n shit or junk k thanx bye and something.
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