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Dec 16, 03
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Who would walk with you?
Okay - blame this post on the fact that somehow I spent the day yesterday in my PJs watching various wedding programs......
and in made me think - when I eventually (hopefully???) meet a man who wants to hang out for the rest of our lives and we do the marrying thing ---- Who will walk me down the isle? I have 2 dads but my Mom is my superhero - so I think that I would ask her to escort me What about you? will it be your Dad? Your Scout leader?? Will you do it alone? 
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Dec 16, 03
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But my step Dad played a huge role in my life and I am much closer to him then my "real" dad. But if I walked down with both of them - that'd imply they'd played equal roles in my life -- and they have not. Yet if I chose one over the other I'd hurt someone's feelings......but my Mom she raised me on her own for years and she's always been my 'rock' - she is the greastest - plus she could kick either of my Dad's asses...so Mom wins out :hehe:
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Dec 16, 03
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I haven't a dad to walk me down...
Ultimately I'd have wished for my grandfather to do so because he would have probably been the most positive male/fatherly influence on my life and I'd have loved to share a moment like that w/ him. (unfortunately he passed on three years ago.) If I ever get married, family tradition will have me cutting the cake with his antique sword that he has from his days in the army. But honestly, thinking about these kinds of things right now in my life kind of scares me...
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Dec 16, 03
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definately my dad. its been a rough year for him, and when i thought i was going to loose him all i could think about was the things i wasnt going to be able to share with him in the future. at one point i pictured myself with my big rother walking me down cause i was all in the middle of teenage angst and my parents were "terrible" ... but i grew past that. my dad was always the one who supported me and cheered me on. even when i was fighting in the pool during a game my dad was standing up in the bleechers tellin me to hook her good. and hes always been the first one to hang up my art\take it to the office to hang up. i always wanted to grow up and be like my dad... jingles i say walk down with your mom, every lady should walk down the isle with their hero.
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Dec 16, 03
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my dad would be the one to walk me down the isle [hoping he's still around when that day comes]
we're much closer than my mom and i, so he would definately be the one to do it. i know how much he would love to see that as well.. if he's not around when that day comes, well then i really don't know. [edit] traditional wedding or not (and most likely the not) i'd still want my dad to walk me down the isle.. [/edit] Last edited by c.tard; Dec 16, 03 at 10:26 AM.
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Dec 16, 03
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uhm like my dad or something but if he kicks the bucket b4 i get hitched HYUCK HYUCK i think itd be my bruva!
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Dec 17, 03
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and a sham... i won't get married even if it meant giving up a guy, i don't care. marriage ends in divorce so if you don't get married there shouldn't be a problem!!
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Dec 18, 03
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Always ends in divorce. No matter what. I suppose you'll never get married ever? God knows how many times I've seen people go back on those words.
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Dec 18, 03
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sorry off topic but..
aki, your sig: holy shit did they make paris' tits look huge
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Dec 18, 03
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When I get married I think I would either have my mom or my bf's paretns to walk me down the isle. My dad isnt really much in my life so yea.
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