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romantic feelings are a new thing for me...
romantic feelings are a new thing for me. I was always up for play but never up for dating. I'd never been attracted to some one that way before. but now i have a crush on some one and it's scary. especailly because i know he likes me to.
I've never dated before. I don't know what i'm doing. what do you do when your going out with some one? this must sound really stupid. ok so the point is I've been hiding my feelings because i'm scared. But i'm tired of being scared and i want to do something about it. what do i do? anyone? |
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i guess it wasn't really hard cause i'm not that interested in the guy, but really, it's just like hanging out with one of your guy friends just look purdy, wear something comfortable, make the plans of what you're doing a head of time and maybe even make reservations, and don't drink away your jitters...cause that can get ugly! if you both like each other i'm sure it'll flow, just relax....the worse is when you don't know each other but hten realize you hate each other later on in the night don't be scared...you won't get anywhere if you keep hiding your feelings i'm not saying to blurt it out in the middle of dinner, but show him you care...i think going out on a date with him is an excellent first step, then maybe a kiss at the end of the night! kisses at the end of the night are weird tho...i didn't anticipate/want one, but the guy had his face in my face so i kinda had too but it was really akward...just make sure feelings are flwoing both ways oh yea, and i wouldn't go to a movie or club..you can't really talk i'd say go for dinner, somewhere they don't have music blaring |
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Be sincere and tell this person how you feel. even though it takes alot of courage and sets you up for rejection or to be used, honesty is always the best way to handle a situation like this. yet at the same time make sure you take it slow so you have a chance to realize wether these feelings are ginuwine before you get too heavily involved with the person.
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