difference b/w seein ppl an goin out w/ them

[neets]

is seein ppl juss a nice way to say -ya we can do it all but hey that doesnt mean i cant do it with neone else 2? its like a justification for messin around on tha person ur with juss because they don't have the label as ur "girl/boyfriend". an if either tha gurl or guy is trippin out ova sumthin shady they can juss say u cant get mad at me...not like we're goin out or nething...then y see ppl? juss 2 get to know them b4 u go out with them? well i guess it eliminates messy break ups if things dont work out

[Flip]

The main difference between seeing someone and going out with someone is:

Blind people can go out with people, but they can't see people. Poor blind people :(

[Pussy_Kat]

hahaha ^ funny shit
ummm i dunno it makes things easier in some cases......
like if distance is involved
u cant see eachother everyday but beeing together when u have a chance to be with one another is way easier then being bf gf and never seeing eachother

[Ryan Ross]

Originally posted by Flip
The main difference between seeing someone and going out with someone is:

Blind people can go out with people, but they can't see people. Poor blind people :(

hahahahahaha!!!

[junglequeen]

seeing is for pussy people who want an easy way out if it gets too intense


grab some balls and label yourselves already - unless you wanna be labeling your std

[omega_image]

the title mainly

also seeing someone to me is less of a commitment

[say_whut]

when ya go out with someone it's exclusive whereas seeing someone isn't.

[WPG]

^^^ u got it dude!

[MC Hammered]

The frequency of how many times you have sex.

[ebbomega]

If the final digit of the md5 checksum of the number of seconds that you have been locking lips (square the number of second genitalia has been in contact with each other, add on number of seconds it's been in contact with any other body part of the other person) is greater than or equal to 5 (0 is low) then you've been seeing them. Otherwise you need to get a life.

What the fuck? There's a difference between that? Next thing you kids are going to have codewords for "stuff" verses "things"!

I guess I'm getting fogeyish but this is ridiculous. Relationships aren't that difficult but people have this serious intent on building up as much flappers as possible between two people that by the time that the time actually comes for intimacy nobody realizes that that's what's happening!

Tell you what. Talk to them. Set out rules. Say "you can fuck whoever you want" or "I don't want you to fuck anybody else" or "I'm keeping your jar in a vise because I want you to say you love me" or whatever you're most comfortable with, and if they don't like it, find someone else's genitalia to come in proximity with yours and move on with life. Stop wasting so much energy sweating truly insignificant stuff such as the difference between "Seeing someone" and "going out with them".

[Mr.Dave]

Originally posted by Attila:



there are some girls who i think are definatly shagable, but i know none of my friends or my family would accept as my gf... most common reason is "not classy enough" so hence i resort to just 'seeing' them.

How noble of you.

[stringbeans]

Originally posted by ebbomega
If the final digit of the md5 checksum of the number of seconds that you have been locking lips (square the number of second genitalia has been in contact with each other, add on number of seconds it's been in contact with any other body part of the other person) is greater than or equal to 5 (0 is low) then you've been seeing them. Otherwise you need to get a life.

hahaha

[Mr.Dave]

Originally posted by Attila:


You think eh, wow.. thank you :keebler:

Well I suppose it is courageous of you to admit to the fact that you care more about what other people think than the feelings of some lowly girl.

Good on ya.

[Ryan Ross]

Originally posted by Attila


It doesn't exactly have to do with what "other people think", I too care for a classy girl...

but thanks again for your comment.

Originally posted by Attila


there are some girls who i think are definatly shagable, but i know none of my friends or my family would accept as my gf... most common reason is "not classy enough" so hence i resort to just 'seeing' them.

?

[Mr.Dave]

It's almost painful.

[Mr.Dave]

I thought you were all about the clean lifestyle?

Don't even try to start scapegoating now. Too bad you can't just delete this thread like the other ones eh?

[Mr.Dave]

P.S. Try a little modesty for once. It's a wonderful thing. I know you're trying to build up this cool guy image but it really doesn't fly. You work hard at the things that you do which is awesome. I respect that. Drop the other shit and I bet we would get along great.

[charly]

haha dave.. <3


i've always thought of seeing each other as just.. the first few sorta dates to see if you even get along and like each other. never a long term thing, and i don't fuck on the first date so it doesn't involve sex for me. not like i've had a first date in over two years anyways, but that's besides the point.

if you really want to know what it means, ask the person you're seeing/dating because their opinion of it will matter more than everyone elses..

[Mr.Dave]

^ I agree. Although I think the whole naming the status thing in general is kinda whacked. Like do you get some sort of diploma when you graduate from seeing someone to going out with them? And do they both qualify as dating?

Personally, I can't remember the last time I actually asked a girl out. We've always just sort of gravitated towards each other and made up some date later on when people start asking how long we've been together. The seeing other people thing has never become an issue.

[miss.myra]

LOL

[galaxie]

Originally posted by say_whut:
when ya go out with someone it's exclusive whereas seeing someone isn't.

not true
I've 'seen' guys exclusively before

I think seeing someone is just a good way to get to know them better without the pressure of having the boyfriend/girlfriend title.

[neets]

Originally posted by Mr.Dave
Although I think the whole naming the status thing in general is kinda whacked. Like do you get some sort of diploma when you graduate from seeing someone to going out with them?

exactlyyy... i know when ur with sumone u let things flow an c wat happens ..juss let it ryde rite? but ya atilla i think ur rite with tha sex comment thats wat almost everything cums down 2 neways huh

Originally posted by ebbomega
Stop wasting so much energy sweating truly insignificant stuff such as the difference between "Seeing someone" and "going out with them".

personally im not overly concerned..juss curious wat others thought

[lace]

i think its all about time like when you are first getting to know someone weither it invoves sex or not.. you dont just want to jump into a relatioship.. what if you thought you liked someone a lot then you learn that you dont.. also the rules of seeing someone should be set at the beginning up to the two people weither or not they r 'seeing' other people.. when you go out it is more of a commitment i suppose when u decide, yes this is a person i do actually want to be with.. then again i havent been seeing anyone in a while.. what do i know?

[jawa]

hmmmm, i personally think labels are bullshit. You are what you are. I even hate "boyfriend + girlfriend" labels. You dont need a label to define who or what you are to each other.

[charly]

Originally posted by Mr.Dave
^ I agree. Although I think the whole naming the status thing in general is kinda whacked. Like do you get some sort of diploma when you graduate from seeing someone to going out with them? And do they both qualify as dating?

it is whacked. i don't much see the point to it, but if someone wants a difference that's my view. diploma's makes it sound more and more like school. haha.. i guess to some people though, it does make a difference.