Undergoing changes in tastes and personality?

[SEAN!]

over the course of the past few months ive realized that ive undergone changes in what i enjoy doing and i'm beginning to wonder why. Essentially instead of being the party hardy "ravemaster" that i used to be i realized that ive actually developed a distaste for going out to to raves/clubs but specifically raves. For the last six months at every rave ive been too ive had this growing feeling that i didn't belong at a rave and hence i guess i seemed a bit distant from alot of the people who tried to socialize with me. Its not that i dont like certain people anymore its just im tired of the social interaction as i find it tires me out alot quicker then it used to. Now im feel completely content to just spend time one on one with someone i feel really close with. or if not that then spend time with a close group of friends doing fairly sedate things...i feel like a geriatric! haha.

[matéo]

b/c you don't do drugs anymore and on top of that you're 6 years older then the average raver. I wouldnt say im going through the same realization phase but Im not enjoying parties neary as much as I did before.

[axion]

i completely relate to this, on saturday i went to godspeed which was my first rave in over a year. i had fun for a while but i didnt relate to most people there and felt a little out of place. probably due to the fact that i wasnt out of my mind on drugs. at any rate, i found that most people i talked to i thought i was being stuck up but i just couldnt find the energy or motivation to be overly social.

[MistressSpankME]

You're growing up and out seany! I think alot of us aren't so impressed by raves, I've never been big on clubs, but I'm certainly losing my taste for being out aaalll fucking night. And I think the fact that alot of us are, or have realized that popping and snorting shit to keep yourself going all night isn't the smartest thing to do probably does have something to do with the loss of excitement and of course, stanima.

There's certainly nothing wrong with it, especially considering your'e letting people know you haven't lost intrest in THEM. No matter what you chose to do as your social activities just make sure the people you care about and vice versa know your intentions, and keep hanging out with them in the social situations you chose to go to.

[SEAN!]

Originally posted by MATEO
b/c you don't do drugs anymore and on top of that you're 6 years older then the average raver. I wouldnt say im going through the same realization phase but Im not enjoying parties neary as much as I did before.

pretty much...

when i was snorting/popping shit and fucked out of my mind all the time i loved raves

[matéo]

and you loved talking to people no matter who they were. But now you get to see first hand what you probably looked/acted/felt like when you were on drugs by watching these losers.

[Erica]

i still love clubbing cause i love dancing a lot, but raves just don't do it for me anymore. hell, my first stage of raving when i started about 4 years ago only lasted four months hard, and then after that, it just dwindled out to less than 10 times after that. i definitely love chilling out a lot more than i did before. just having lazy video/tv nights on my lazy boy at home and having a friend to go out for coffee with.

[inkster]

try going to the raves populated with adults. it'll probably rekindle your love, or make you hate them even more.

[yoko*]

you're turning into me!:185:
huhuhu.

sometimes it's a good thing to experience life from a different angle. It helps you appreciate life as a whole.

glad that you're content:)

[mojo]

i agree

i still love the music, but i can do without the frequent raving a brain cell killing

[MC Hammered]

Coakley... u r a rookie.

[SEAN!]

Originally posted by MC Hammered
Coakley... u r a rookie.

hahah theres no way id be ab;le to keep up with the chinese energizer bunny

[Bobby_T]

people that start hard fizzle fast....its like a bath tub, if you ease into it you be there for a while.

[Clayton.]

I feel the same way, i never go to raves any more i don't like staying up that long any more. If i do go to a party i leave before 4am.

[Mr.Dave]

Originally posted by BoBBy_T:
people that start hard fizzle fast....its like a bath tub, if you ease into it you be there for a while.

Haha great analogy!

[Bitchin]

yeh.. I noticed you havent been around much guy! but if WE tire you out.. maybe its YOU.. no offence.. but if you werent always flailing around and being crazy like.. maybe you wouldnt tire out so fast!

just a thought..

like chill and watch a movie with us or something.. you'll nioticed you wont be tired out by the time you get home!;)

[middle mike]

i eased into it
thats why i can probally keep goign to raves for a long time thanks to bobby t I appreciated the rave for the music and a fun ngiht out.

Sean soon we will chill in the park like old times.
or lets go hikking

Mike

[Bobby_T]

^^Fuck dood,

I'm so down fer going hiking this year. I can't wait to get out into the wilderness and camp. Geoff and I are planning multiple fishing/hiking/camping trips too!! W00T.....wanna come?

[jaydream]

your taste and personality is always going change dude

its life!

just take it all in stride
its what makes life so enjoyable
the unpredicability