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Old Mar 09, 04
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what do i do?...
one of my best guy friends just told me that he really likes me to my face and hes like ur special and etc. but i only see him as a friend and hes a nice guy and would make a great boyfriend but there isnt anything sort of those kinda feelings for him. im kinda seeing this other guy that im reli into but i hate how im hurting my friend. im happy with who im with but i know it hurts him that im not with him and with the other guy. what am i going to do. hurting somone is the last thing i want to do....but i cant help how i feel fuk..this is stressing...wat do u guys think i should do
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Old Mar 09, 04
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you need to let him know
dont lead him on to believe there could be somin when there couldnt
if hes a true friend hell understand and be glad you guys are still closeas friends and that your still there rather then not having u at all
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Old Mar 09, 04
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give him $100 and tell him you never want to see him ever again
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Old Mar 09, 04
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or u can tell him u like girls? lol that would seriously fuck his shit up.
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Old Mar 09, 04
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boo liking girls would be so easy wouldnt be hurting guys but boo im not BAH he knows i like this other guy it hurts for me to be hurting him all he wants me to be happy....but i want him to be happy too!...arg lifes so difficult
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Old Mar 09, 04
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Tell him what you just wrote above... if hes a good friend and hell get it and understand. If hes hurt, then so is life... hes the one who put you between a rock and hard place so its his own damn fault.
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Old Mar 09, 04
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^ seriously, you're 15, you don't even know the meaning of difficult.

anyways, my advice: tell your friend you're sorry, but you really care for him as a friend, but nothing more. Tell him that you're happy with the guy you're seeing and you hope that he can be happy for you.

If he can't be happy for you, he's not really your friend.
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Old Mar 09, 04
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I think that this situation happens to every person throughout highschool, whether they are they friend who likes the unattainable other friend or the person being liked.
It is a sucky situation for sure but sumthing that will just have to kinda blow over.
Be honest with him and tell him how much he means to you as a friend.
If you stop seeing the guy yer with now just to make him happy- it won't work he'll still be miserable that you aren't with him and you'll be miserable too. He will get over it eventually.
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Old Mar 10, 04
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You have to be completely honest with him.... anything else would be just leading him on.

Break it to him gently, and explain that you don't want this to ruin the friendship. (it might not work out that way, but you DO want to stay friends, right?)
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Old Mar 10, 04
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thanks you guys :p great advice
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Old Mar 10, 04
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try honesty!
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do what every other girl does... tell him you love him, date him for a month, then tell him you've changed your mind and leave him there for dead...
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SHOOT THE HOSTAGE!
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Old Mar 10, 04
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play hard to get and make him buy you stuff!
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Old Mar 10, 04
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grab him now! you might never get another man like him ever again...EVER!
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Oh, and take off your socks when you make whoppee or whatever, he hates that.
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^brodie? Is that you?
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Old Mar 10, 04
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yeah tell him what you feel....im sure hes had experiences where girls have liked him and he just isnt feelin in ....he will understand
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Old Mar 11, 04
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^brodie? Is that you?
No, I'm his cousin. Walter.
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Old Mar 11, 04
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anyways, my advice: tell your friend you're sorry, but you really care for him as a friend, but nothing more. Tell him that you're happy with the guy you're seeing and you hope that he can be happy for you.

If he can't be happy for you, he's not really your friend.
exactly!....
sure he may be a lil upset.. but if he really is your friend he'll get over it and accept it.... if he gets all anal and mad about it and give u a hard time... then he's not worth your time.. as harsh as it may sound...

trust me.. been there done that many times before and lost many "friends" over it... (or what i thought were freinds)
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Old Mar 11, 04
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do what every other girl does... tell him you love him, date him for a month, then tell him you've changed your mind and leave him there for dead...
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
*golf clap* right on the money!!!!
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Old Mar 11, 04
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^^ HEY!!! were not all that evil.........




well... some of us :kam: mwhahaha....*cough* umm ya.
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Old Mar 11, 04
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do what every other girl does... tell him you love him, date him for a month, then tell him you've changed your mind and leave him there for dead...
ive never hurt anyone i never will! thats so mean...
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play hard to get and make him buy you stuff!
golddiggin is NOT my style...i pay for everything basicallly a pushover...

mhm its fine now guys...talked it over were still friends! yea happy ending! :kimmie:
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Old Mar 11, 04
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I've been in this situation except the girl who liked me and the girl who i liked instead were best friends. The situation sucks but its really an easy one for you. in relationships the best thing is honesty. truth hurts when its comes to relationships and feelings. plain and simple just tell him you think hes a great guy but you just see him as a friend and you dont have any feelings for him and that you hope that you guys can just be good friends and not let this ruin anything. Well if the guy lets this ruin your friendship its stupid on his part but im sure hes not dumb. hopefully this has helped you
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