All Alone

[jomama]

My bestest friend in the whole wide world is moving away to Dallas soon. :( Insomnia is gunna be our last party together and then he's going to be gone shortly after that. He's going down there cause that's where his dad lives and he's like a bagillion-aire (well maybe just mulit-mill) and he has to go to school and start his life...BAH. I guess it not a horrible thing cause I'm going there for Christmas...but it still majorly sucks. What if we dont keep in touch? And he forgets me forever and ever? ahhhhhhhhhh

[hardstylin]

one of my best friends is always moving away for months/years at a time, one thing ive learnd is its a small world and if ur really good friends ull always keep in touch and see each other good friends are forever :)

peace

[jomama]

I hope so :)... no no no wait.... i KNOW so. hmm yes very true and the plan is for me to move down there next summer. But then I leave all my other friends up here..its a dilly of a pickle..but its OK
cause me and my bestest friend are gunna live happily ever after...and i get to meet a real cowboy..

[Miss T]

two of my best friends are in australia right now. so i hear ya!

[robyn]

Tell me about it. Almost all my girlfriends are gone. One of them moved to New York 3 years ago, another's in Cambodia, and a third is leaving for New Zealand next week. I've got nothing left but boys, who treat me like one of their own.

[G-Style]

Ladies if you need a shoulder to cry on "I'm listening". LL G-Style

[Aki]

my best friend lives in Toronto, yet i talk to him pretty much every day. In a way we've gotten closer almost...i don't know its wierd! We always know what is going on in each other's lives, and he's the one i tell everything too and trust, eventhough I physically see him twice a year for summer and christmas.
I obviously miss him, but I know he's always there for me and whenever we do see eachother nothing has changed. He's the bestest

[galaxie]

*sigh*

I know how you feel.
My man moved to the Turks and Caicos Islands on Sunday to work at Club Med for a year =( It fucking sucks shit right now but I know that as I adjust my days to him not being around things will get easier...I just can't wait until I get to see him next, and until he comes home FOR GOOD. I would have gone with him in a heartbeat if I could, and I know he would have wanted me to go as well, but there's a whole stupid application process, etc. to go through, and there's no guarantee that I would get sent to the same resort as him!

My advice is to try to talk (over phone, msn/icq, e-mail, etc) as often as possible, and write each other snail mail letters.

My boyfriend and I had the great idea of each of us having a little 30-something page notebook that is specifically for writing to each other in. The 30+ page idea is that there are just enough pages to write every day for a month, then we send the books to each other. For me it's made things a lot easier because when I talk to him over the phone the last thing I want to feel is sadness and start crying (wasting our precious talk time) so instead I try to keep it together when we're talking and then I write to him about my feelings and my day right before I go to bed. Not only is it a great way to get all of my feelings out, but it's also often a lot easier for me to express myself on paper than with spoken words.

Anyway, good luck with everything...I hope I helped!
*hug*

[jomama]

^ that notebook thing is an excellent idea! thanks!
aww we're all alone gurls...ahha

[galaxie]

^ no worries

the notebook has really helped me a lot
I just got off the phone with my man, he said he was having a really really hard day because he met an older couple that reminded him of us...he wrote me four pages =) So I guess it's definitely helping him a lot, too. I can't wait to read it at the end of the month!

[bob]

i'd rather be all alone than to have someone next to me and feel all alone.