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to my girls who know this pain..
when you really feel strongly about someone, yet your afraid that if they knew, it would ruin your relationship forever, and you would never want to be away from them.
to know someone that makes your insides feel warm and your skin of fire, when they look at you and smile, you just melt. the way they talk hypnotises you into a blissful state and you cant look away........ and to finally find the courage, and to place the words with such care, to try to make the person understand the depth, and the sincerity of your emotions...of your being.... to tell them how you feel and sit in the next silent moments hoping they will forgive you. i have this person, and yet i still can not find the proper words, even though i have tried. *crosses fingers* |
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It usually boils down to three simple words, and oddly enough, they are among the hardest things you'll ever utter in your life.
If you are really connected with this person, if you are a part of them, and they you, then it shouldn't be difficult to say- it should already be understood. And nobody should have to forgive you for loving them. :) It's difficult, but wait until you know you're truly ready. Don't keep in inside because all it's going to do is burst out at the worst possible time (tried that once, I blurted it out in the middle of a heated argument and it was just weird.heh) (and I don't think it's pain at all!) |
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if you are afraid to tell someone you love them because they will Criticize you for it, then your partner is not worthy of your love.
no one should be afraid to tell their lover they LOVE them because the relationship will go awry. i dunno. just tell him. see what happens from there. :kimmie: good luck! |
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They ...this person ?
Sounds like your playing the un-gender name game...my gf's do this usally when they have a crush on a girl. Never say the gender like"him or her". I say just be strong and tell them how you feel. If it is a guy or a girl. |
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I'm in that area... good friend that I really love/like.. well have liked for a stupidly long time. I'm one to wait to tell.. cause thats putting everything on the line right? So I'm waiting till I know I'm ready to give it a trying and commit to it. But thats me.
but who kows.. perhaps he's one of those guys that can get passed that and yer friendship will still be bloody dope@ if he dont feel the same. |
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you know,its sad because this is true. i am the jelous one. *you bitch* [anger jelousy] |