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Oct 25, 01
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Re: Guys & Committment Issues
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So boys, start discussing!! -J'nette..err...Jovi..Whatever.. 89112991 
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Oct 25, 01
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Oct 26, 01
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Oct 26, 01
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Re: Re: Guys & Committment Issues
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wonderful smarty pants, any other genius comments you'd like to throw my way? Keebler...I donno? I've found personally that guys have commitment issues, so yeah, I guess it would be the guys I've been with...humm...
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Oct 26, 01
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i'm not one of those guys...
i think you girls need to realize that if you want a guy who wants committment, then u can't have that cool, hardcore, hot stuff pimped out mitsubishi eclipse every girl wants to get with him, guy... guys are stupid. and thanks to mr. penis, if we know that 100 girls wanna get with us, we're gonna take that offer instead of just 1 girl... girls are pretty naive. there's a billion guys out there that probably want committment. but u know what? if u go out with one of these guys, and something goes wrong, u mite change his thoughts on what he wants. i know i got scared off from committment for a while because everytime i tried to tell a girl that i wanted a committment, she said ok, then screwed me over later on.... the committment type guys are usually the shy dorky guys, because they pretty much know that they're not gonna do much better, so they take what they can get. it's sad, but true... i was there....... the problem i had was that i got cocky when i finally found a gf, and after going out with her for a year or so, i realized there were other girls, and i could probably get with them... one thing about relationships is you usually build up your partners' confidence by saying nice things to them. it's kinda shitty when they turn on you, and use that confidence against you... personally, i want to commit to a girl... i really don't have much of a problem with dedicating myself to someone, especially if i had strong feelings for them... i've never cheated on a girl, and i never will... it just doesn't make sense to me why someone would do something like that... not like i'm the most trustworthy guy, but inside i really am sincere... it just doesn't come out of me right, and i often get girls thinking i'm cheating on them... it's my fault, so i can't complain...... i can't find a girl that wants committment. no, actually i probably could find a girl that wants committment, but she just wouldn't want it with me... Last edited by bob; Oct 26, 01 at 09:07 AM.
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Oct 26, 01
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*applauses bob*
word me on the other hand, Im not ready for a relationship period. :) hehe My life is too busy life = sit at home, touch dink, spin records, play cs. err actually its not. work is really busy too. I dont think I can keep a commitment, Im too young, for a commitment, plus after you have a commitment and what if you break up.. then ya both feel like shit for a long long long time, I've tried it before and it just hurts, never wanna do it again. - SoniK man, that was hard to write, im sure half of it doesn't make sense :P
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Oct 26, 01
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well, instead of the guy having a problem committing, it used to be me...
i just didn't want to settle down, because i always felt like something better was gonna come along, and i didn't wanna miss out on it. I always felt like if i settled down, into a serious relationship with someone, that i would meet someone else and like them more, and then i'd have to hurt the first person, and make a descision, and so on and so on... that went on for at least 2 years, until i met vince, and i still felt like that at first.... but i settled down. i think it's just a stage that boys go thru, and then grow out of. it's the "cool stage"... heheh jk... no generalizations.
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Oct 26, 01
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Re: Re: Re: Guys & Committment Issues
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i'm sure YM did an expose on it, read that. ask a dumb question, get a dumb answer. r.
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Oct 26, 01
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NO WHERE did I say that all guys have committment issues. Always out to pick a fight *tsktsk* Maybe you should try getting a life and then you'd know what it's like to have problems! argh!
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Oct 26, 01
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It's hard for someone like me to make a commitment.. I have to feel really really comfortable with the girl first... then if i get this feelin of goodness like it's gonna last then i'll commit.. but if not then we become friends.. which is good, right?
well .. hmm... Sm;)e Cinto :262: Malicious Recordings PS.. I need someone that won't hassel me for being on my PC when i'm working on a new trak... GRRRR.. to those ones...! haha :snyx:
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Oct 26, 01
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***** title: Guys & Committment Issues What's the deal boys? I'm sure all of us girls would like to know! Discuss. ***** i don't see the word 'with'. perhaps you missed the class where they explained the usage of the word 'and'. i also see you directly asking the male gender. then you relate youself with the female gender. its basicly a reverse sexist remark. looks pretty straightforward to me. Quote:
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Oct 26, 01
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I don't really know what to say except....I think it swings both ways regarding the issue of commitment. I just think that generally guyz mature slower and aren't ready to give up their "childish" ways at such a young age. Also, the guys that seem to be looking for commitment are not the guyz that approach you and are not the guys that are easy to hook up with....most of them seem kinda shy and withdrawn (my opinion).
*Jen*
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Oct 27, 01
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i think its becuz ur looking for a commitment that u can't find one...u wanna know why...becuz the fact taht ur looking for it only makes u more prone to thinkin its there when it never was in the first place....
im guessin that u posted this after u realized a guy u were with wasn't as commited as u wanted him or as commited as he said he was....but u have to learn to read between the lines...its not jus what he says.....anyone can say things....but actions speak louder than words...... most players are smooth with the vocab and know the right things to say...... i know ALL the right things to say.......but ill only say them if i mean them.....not all guys are the same.....some guys know what it takes to get in a girls pants and they'll exploit it cuz girls are suckers.........thats why u have to be careful.... ive only had two serious relationships.....the second one im still in.....im 100% commited to making it last as long as possible cuz i care for her so much...but i dont' say anything to her i don't mean.... learn not to be so trusting right off the bat......make them earn it..... corrie
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Oct 28, 01
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That could be true, but in my situation it's not. I actually wasn't really looking for commitment in the first place, it just kinda happened. Quote:
It's a long confusing drawn out drama. Yes, but I can't answer yes or no to your guess because it doesn't make any sense. There are so many conflicting events, talks, etc etc etc that I'm sure even a psychologist wouldn't be able to figure out what the hell the deal is! Quote:
Thanks for the constructive input =0)
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Oct 29, 01
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i have no problem with comitting
i am curently in a relationship and i love BB to death so i dont see what the fuss is all about guys comitting really if u love your mate /partner/love one/sex toy/gf/bf/bitch well maybe not bitch then u know your ready for a comittment no biggy
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Oct 30, 01
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hhehehe
if guys were meant to be irresistable.. god would have made them all into puppies.
........................................ ........................................ ..................... if you don't want to be serious........ why play with someone's mind.. or heart. ........................................ ........................................ ..................... Guys if you don't want to be in a relationship tell a girl straight up you know there are the kinds of girls out there that are also into the one night stand thing. if all you want is sex. and some girls just want some fun. But don't ever play with a girls heart or mind without letting them know what you are really reaching for. even if it's down their pants
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Oct 30, 01
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BB i believe that we call those kinda peepo hookers correct me if im wrong am i?
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Oct 30, 01
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Re: hhehehe
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couldn't have said it better mahself some boys...*shakes her head*
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