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Oct 29, 01
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I really like this guy on f&k but...
There's this guy on f&k that I really like, and I am so sure that he feels the same way about me BUT he's kind of creepy.. He's been sending me PMs that are saying how much he likes me, even though we have never met before.. He says he thinks about me all the time.. I know that I should be scared of this, but I can't help but feel somewhat flattered of all this... my bestfriends are telling me to give it up, that this guy is a creep.. what should I do?
He thinks that his ex gf is bad mouthing him to me, but she hasn't said a thing... I don't want her to think that I'm saying stuff about her? But I think she will realize that I'm not in this thread.. I just don't want to make enemies with anyone... Lately, I've been avoiding the internet because I'm too shy to say anything to him.. What should I do?? AHHHHH... Please help.... Love, sweetAZNbear ~ 
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Oct 29, 01
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Buy a stun gun and some mace if you intend to meet this 'fellow'.
OR! Set the guy up, have a couple of dozen of your friends beat the crap out of him and he'll leave you alone. Other than that I'd suggest that you forget about it all, grow up a bit more and move on. Think about it, how can someone like you if they never met you? Typed words that express emotion are about 1% as real as the words said in person. These are not bitter words, just advice from someone that has seen too much crap so far in his life and knows better. I have references if you want them. :c-tard:
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Oct 29, 01
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okay my oppinion... fuck talk to bob about it yourself.. it may just be me but i'm sick of hearign this.. and yeah it kinda obvious that it's him and yeah his x could that be ... oh my gosh stabby... no this info isnt; too obvious.... and he's gonna read this so yeah grow up and just tell him don;t make a big soap opera outta it...
but this just my oppinion... sketchy sketchy sketchy... :msPiggy:
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Oct 29, 01
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why would i make enemies with you if i dont even know you?
and fuck just tell him yourself. stop taking up f&k space, oh and aimee, i dont know if you know that im dating max right now and there is no way in hell i'd ever go back to *shudder* bob.
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Oct 29, 01
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How about you TALK TO HIM about it!
If you think he's creepy online, whatever! People aren't the same online as they are in person! Set up a meeting or something...next f&k meet maybe you two can meet. There's nothing wrong with liking someone's online personality, but you can't base your feelings on just that. I mean, hello! You've never met in person, there has to be some sort of physical attraction to have ANY sort of relationship, and by physical attraction I don't mean "ohh I saw his pic, he's a cutie!" I mean like chemistry in person...without that you're SCREWED! So yeah, that's my advice. If you wanna talk more feel free ICQ 10879115 Good luck =0)
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Oct 29, 01
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Re: I really like this guy on f&k but...
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and uve been avoiding the internet!?!? WTF IS WRONG WITH U!??!?! omg what the hell is wrong with ppl these days?!?!? :219: ~elmar
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Oct 29, 01
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werd natalie. i actually wouldn't mind meeting her now that i think about it.. she seemed to of sparked a few ppl's interests.. ha. yes aznSWEETbear come to the next f&k meet.. im dying to meet you and see what you're like in person.
then again, i think elmar is so right..
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Oct 29, 01
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stabby..yeah i know and i didnt; mean to says that you would go back to him sorry if it seemed that way .. it was just liek hmm this is way too obvious... it just ahhh bugs me... why try and hide who it is ... like it's just stupid.... :msPiggy:
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Oct 29, 01
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But yeah, F&K MEET!
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Oct 29, 01
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You F&Kers are pretty mean... I mean what gives you the right to yell at me and flame me because of how I feel? It just isn't fair..
As for meeting some of you, I was at Spoooky and I saw some of you but chose to avoid most of you because you guys flamed me last time for posting in this section.. I guess I got a bad impression from most of you... As for physical attraction.. I am not into him because of his looks.... I just think he's really intense and real about his emotions.. even though they seem a lil too serious... but whatever.. When is the next f&k meet?
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Oct 29, 01
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First you say that you feel awkward about this situation, people tell you to forget it all and drop it then you get upset because you don't get the nice response you wanted, then you say that we F&K people are mean and you got a bad impression and now you want to know when the next meet is? UNBELIEVABLE! Can I assume that you are not old enough to buy alcohol right now? I'm just asking this so I can gauge your age without asking.
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Oct 29, 01
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wtf ms.piggy?
and winston, aparently she's 20, 21 or something like that.. i find it hard to believe that she isn't like 16... no offence on the youngin's on here..
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Oct 29, 01
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look girl... we're not mean... ur just getting flamed bc of these pathetic things that u say....
come on... look at what ur saying! theres better things then falling 4 a guy on the net that uve never met.... i think its time to grow up and get into the real world.... and everyone has real emotions..... its just everyone deals with their emotions differently.... so yeah come to the next f+k meet.... we'd like to meet ya ~elmar
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Oct 29, 01
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I am almost afraid to meet you guys.. I don't go on message boards much and when I do, well on f&k.. I get flamed.. this isn't the site that I heard the kids talking about now is it?
I want to meet some of you guys, I want to be with him, but I also am so unsure... I'm just confused and looking for some help/answers!! GOSH! Is that too much to ask for? I'm gone for the rest of the day... good bye.
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Oct 29, 01
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'He's a fucking asshole and you're a slut for thinking of going out with him' The responses to the thread are FAR from flaming and would be said in real life if it was asked. When one seeks advice it might not come back the way you expect. If you can't handle the words from another, then don't ask the questions. When I reply to a post here and in my Sex/Drugs forum, I give 100% unbiased advice and I stick by my words unless I am blatantly wrong. I'm not bashing anyone here, I just feel that things are going in pretty weird directions all of a sudden and all I can do is pop more Robaxacet.
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Oct 29, 01
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winston, i'm in 100% agreeance with you on your definition of flaming...
some of the msgs i didn't approve of were stabby's, "stop taking up f&k space". and bebe's "geeez get a life woman!" ... i know elmar has somewhat good intentions with what she said, but leslie... she means what she says... and that's not acceptable. i think you have to understand the delicacy of subjects in this section. we started this section for people to turn to when they have a problem, and want someone to be there for them. now i'm not saying that even a little negative advice is unacceptable, but i think the line has to be drawn a little sooner in this section, compared to places like the lounge, gripes, boxing ring... if you think my judgement is questionable, then we can discuss this elsewhere and "democratically". my point, and i've been trying to have this recognized for a long time now, is that sometimes people just need someone to tell them everything's alright, and give them a pat on the back. not a kick in the face. i don't think it's a waste of space for anyone to come in here and say "i had a bad day today". i'd like to encourage more people to come in here and whine about stuff that's on their minds, but then again, most people have someone to talk to, or aren't comfortable with sharing their feelings with 700+/- people. personally, it makes me feel a little better by just posting something in here, getting it off my chest. even though it turns into a huge argument later on about me whining every 5 minutes. and winston, i've read like 7 posts from u since sunday morning about you popping a robaxacet, does it work well? cuz i sleep on my couch all the time and sit at a computer all day. my back ACHES man... i think you guys think that sweetAZNbear is being stupid by posting a thread like this in a public message board when she could've just confronted the guy on icq or e-mail or whatever. perhaps you guys don't know the situation, maybe there are some factors involved, who are you to judge her? i think what she did is kinda cute. it'll be the next tom hanks & meg ryan cheesy internet relationship movie. one more thing. lately the older f&k members haven't been too inviting to newer members, unless they're friends with elders on the site. i think we need to start being more welcoming to people when they join the site (with the exception of queerduck). cuz we get lots of new members on here who post maybe twice, then leave and never come back, possibly because they didn't feel welcome or something...? everyday, this place is seeming more like loungex. *fear* Last edited by bob; Oct 29, 01 at 08:34 PM.
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Oct 30, 01
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If more information was provided maybe the answer would have been different, it may have been the same. I gave her the same answer that I would have given to my younger brother or sister asking the same question with me knowing the same level of information on the person in question. Sure, it could be the next cheezy internet romance or it could have been the next Nightmare on Nanaimo Street. For all I know we could have prevented her from meeting up with a pedophile. Quote:
Hopefully things will sway back to the way they used to be, hopefully more members will speak up and add to the growth of the board and our community. You can't expect the older F&K members to keep the place running forever as it was, that is just not being realistic.
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Oct 30, 01
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heres my opinion sweetaznbear........if you like this guy on f&k but never met him, why don't u set something up so u finally meet him and see what he's like? you said you don't go for looks but personality and that's good but falling for a guy who you have never met at all? that's just a little strange. yeah of course his feelings are real but it could be just some weirdo guy who likes to stalk ppl? just stating the obvious.
anyways......i understand how you feel about this guy and if you want anything further, then go and meet him at aleast or talk to him on the phone or something just not the net. that's my say on things hope you're doing ok
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Oct 30, 01
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people are sooooo mean
these days is it that time of month where everyone gets pissed for no reason/or gets pissed and takes it out on other people that they dont know???? people can be soooo crule
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Oct 30, 01
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i like rain
then again i like sun i like snow too??? but i hate the wind
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Oct 31, 01
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Dood.. The internet is not real life.. It's SO much easier to be someone you're not.. Alot easier to be "fake" and to lie to people about your feelings because there isn't body language/tone of voice/facial expression etc, for the other person to tell what the fuck the REAL score is.
SweetAZNbear - Hmm.. well I dunno, meet him in r/l first.. NEVER tell someone you like them online when you haven't met them in real life.. SERIOUSLY. It is a HUGE mistake to make... It's one of those things .. you know, they could be some weirdo in r/l... and then you meet them and theyre all macking hardcore but .. you're nice, and you dont wana offend/hurt them... BUT you already said how you feel.. which can change when the fact is solid.. Meh, whatever.. Those were not flames.. Shrug, MSG boards are FUNNY SHIT! that is all.
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