Who is the one person you couldn't live without?

**MC Hammered** · #1 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

I don't know why this thought came to pass in my mind and it did deeply disturb me.

I thought what I would do if my sister passed away in an accident.

I don't want to describe the twisted emotions that I went through but I realized just how much she does mean to me and how much I took her for granted for being there.

So I ask you... who in your life are you taking for granted being there that you couldn't be without.

Give it some thought and share if you can.

InSoMnIaK* · #2 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

It would be my parents, they have supported me in every way they can, now that you mention it, I forgette somtimes just how much they love me, and I think I take advantage of them sommtimes, last night at my grad ceremony was like a kick to the teeth for me, they were so proud of me for finaly making it through school, and It was a day I will never forgete. so people take a moment and think about your parents, think about all the things they do for us rotten kids, go tell them you love them, and that you apreaciate all the things they do for you, because they probably dont hear it as much as they would like to

peace for now

MissBehavior · #3 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

I can't think of ONLY one person. My whole family is very VERY close (extended maternal side included), and I don't know what I'd do if I lost any of them. I love them all, and they've always been there when they were needed by ANY of us (especially us kids). I also think my life would be over if I lost my boyfriend. He means as much to me as my family does.

soma · #4 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

my dad

Goat · #5 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

My older brother, Leo - he's the only one who had my back growing up. we raised eachother.
My younger brother, Ben - I'm glad he didn't have to go through the shit we did. He's gonna turn out the most stable out of the lot of us.

neoh · #6 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

my mother.

galaxie · #7 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

my Mom...I already lost my Dad, and if I lost my Mom I wouldn't know wtf to do =\

my brother...even though he's a spoiled brat sometimes, man I love that kid

Belms · #8 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

My mom. She makes my life alot better.

ulala · #9 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

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Originally Posted by galaxie

my Mom...I already lost my Dad, and if I lost my Mom I wouldn't know wtf to do =\

Exactly the same here. Losing one parents hard enough, if I lost my mom I dont know what I would do.

junglequeen · #10 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

my roomie - hes my family and my best friend all in one - hes been there when no one else has been

and then my family

SEAN! · #11 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

my drug dealer

InSoMnIaK* · #12 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

^ya that too

desiRAWR · #13 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

My parents. My sisters <---for sure. Even though we very different I couldn't handle losing them...My ex boyfriend lost his little brother (who I was also close friends with) a year and a half ago...not only did that open up his eyes as to how important his bro was to him...it opened up my eyes as to how important my sisters are to me. and I also miss my friend who died...I don't know how any of us live without him :(.

I also couldn't live without my boyfriend. <3.

Or my Oma. I don't want my Oma to get older. Maybe I can find the fountain of youth just like Tuck Everlasting so my Oma doesn't get older <3. She's the only grandparent I have left...

Max Lazarus · #14 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

Nobody.

People die. It's awful, but you have to learn to live with it, because a lot of people you know and are close to will die before you do.

Someone dying should just make you live harder.

miss.myra · #15 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

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Originally Posted by Max Lazarus

Nobody.

People die. It's awful, but you have to learn to live with it, because a lot of people you know and are close to will die before you do.

Someone dying should just make you live harder.

Max, I definitely agree with you on this.

I've had a lot of people that I came to depend on pass away- father, grandfather, close friend in highschool. It's hard to imagine life without these people because you've grown to really rely on these people for so many different kinds of support. Death is not an easy thing to deal with it, but you learn from it and become a much stronger person. I find it hard to imagine living day to day without the really important people in my life, but death is a reality, and it's something that you will have to deal with.

Someone dying should make you live with more purpose, and not take the wonderful people you're so lucky to have in your life for granted.

heatherness · #16 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

probably my mom and my bestfriend

bebu*funfun · #17 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

definately my parents of course.

and next to that would be my closest friend... he's the first person i run to when anything pulls me down, and he's also been there in the shittiest times of my life....he's always the one with the mature advice and speaks the truth no matter how shitty it may be. definately a true friend.

you really dont understand how important some of ure friends are til u sit back and think about it.

ebbomega · #18 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

Hyperboles aside, most important person in my life is easily my girlfriend.

I could live without her, in a literal sense. But it definately would be a crushing blow.

mugsy · #19 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

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Originally Posted by miss.myra

Max, I definitely agree with you on this.

I've had a lot of people that I came to depend on pass away- father, grandfather, close friend in highschool. It's hard to imagine life without these people because you've grown to really rely on these people for so many different kinds of support. Death is not an easy thing to deal with it, but you learn from it and become a much stronger person. I find it hard to imagine living day to day without the really important people in my life, but death is a reality, and it's something that you will have to deal with.

Someone dying should make you live with more purpose, and not take the wonderful people you're so lucky to have in your life for granted.

DING DING DING! i agree too.

Rhianna · #20 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

No way I could pick. But the top 2 would have to be my mum and my brother. I don't know where I'd be w/ out them.

My whole family is very very important to me and so are my best friends.

mystique · #21 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

my MOM i could not live without her

Silverwinged · #22 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

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Originally Posted by ebbomega

Hyperboles aside, most important person in my life is easily my girlfriend.

I could live without her, in a literal sense. But it definately would be a crushing blow.

Amen to this post.

People who get themselves into a mind-set where they figure they could not litterally live without their girl/boy friend are doomed to failure.

Well, maybe not everyone. But plenty of people that I have seen, myself included.

I could not live without myself. My freedoms and my own mindset. I like to think that I am strong enough that during the worst times, I'd still be okay on my own.

cerah · #23 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

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Originally Posted by ebbomega

Hyperboles aside, most important person in my life is easily my girlfriend.

I could live without her, in a literal sense. But it definately would be a crushing blow.

<nods>

I agree. I mean I'd live and I could move on but fuck would it suck to lose the boy.

yoko* · #24 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

i couldn't live without my parents and their ancestors before them,
if it weren't for them having sex I wouldn't be alive.

**kiMMie** · #25 (**permalink**) May 30, 04

There are four special people in my life right now. They know who they are... couldn't live without them. I can't even imagine my life without them.