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It definitely works for some people, I can say that much.
However, personally, I would never be able to do it. To me, intimate sexual encounters need to involve loving (or developing) feelings - and that would never work in a fuck-buddy situation because feelings would just complicate things. |
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Fuck friends would totally not work for me. I need a commited and a loving relationship in order to sleep with someone, personally I've never seen a F't'F(Friend to Fuck) relationship workout. A couple of my friends have tryed it, but one person alway's becomes emotionally attached and then everything goes south. But I do believe if two people consent to having casual sex there should be no problem with it. You just have to make sure and set out rules and guidelines before this special FRIENDSHIP begins.
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No matter how hard you try this never ends well. It seems like a novel idea in the begining but eventually fuck friends rarely remain friends. Sex just creates this invisible field that creates awkwardness. Fuck Friends will never remain strong friends in the long run. This is from my experience anyways.
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I think its a good idea for people who dont want to 'COMITT" yet...i had a fuck friend for 5 years , and we had really strong feelings for eachother but we still saw other people...i have a good bf now and im comitted to him ..and the other guy im still aquaintences with him but its just weird seeing him with my bf ..or him with someother girl...sooo i guess in the end it does kinda ruin a good friendship we had...but i still do care about him...
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A question for those who say they can not have sex/get physical with a person they do not love. Do you not have feelings of love and respect for people other than your significant other? Maybe its specifically important to you to have that "classic' romantic love to be able to have sex with someone, and I agree that certain type of love makes for a certain type of sex (and making LOVE love is great, I'm certainly not belittling its importance). But in my opinion, caring, respect, honesty (among other things) no matter what type of love or caring it is, is what I feel is needed for a strong foundation of a sexual relationship.
Another thing, I'm starting to wonder if I'm one of the only people around that believes that 'getting physical' (in a romantic context or otherwise) doesn't always mean having intercourse. There are millions and trillions of sexual actions and experiences that can get you off just as well and as often as the actual act of sex can. It sure as hell isn't the be all and end all of a sexual encounter(s) and/or relationship, with the right mindset (and/or lover!) you can even be satisfied WITHOUT "getting off" or finishing. I've only recently (in the last 2-4 years or so) become more open, aware and "unconventional" about sexuality, but i think having a proper and functioning sexUAL relationship with a friend could be a very rewarding thing if approached properly. Exploring someones body and vice versa is a wonderful thing, I think that the right people could learn alot about themselves, their sexuality and others by exploring it with someone who respects and cares for them. Doing that without romantic feelings could give you a whole different perspective on sexuality, or alllow you to do or notice things you normally wouldn't if you were too hung up on your "romantic" feelings for the person. Last edited by MistressSpankME; Jun 16, 04 at 05:03 AM. |