Why Did I even Bother.... uh!!!

Shemsija · #1 (**permalink**) Jun 19, 04

You know what sucks? Is even bothering trying to make something work, when the guy is such a fuck up that he doesn't care when i'm there for him, but the second i'm unavailable he's all up in my business and suddenly cares? Hi, my name is INDECISIVE. One second it's "i love you" the next its, "oh by the way its 4 in the mornin and i'm drunk, OH and did i mention i cheated on you twice while we were goin out"??? The next mornin, "hey, so wanna hang out?" whaaaaaat the hell buddy? Pretty obvious you're jelous and insecure when you get all jelous of guys in my life while we're not dating, but then turn around and lemme know about how you don't give a flying fuk and you got all dees chicks that want you. I was completely loyal and faithful to you throughout; all i wanted was some lovin in return but instead i was replaced with a bottle o corona.

Next time Im just gunna go with my gut feeling, thats the best thing you've got.

Shemsija · #2 (**permalink**) Jun 19, 04

SO anyway, i met this totally HOT GUY and then we started making out at the bar. I've known him since i was 15. I'm a poor, helpless, selfless, screw up.Peace.

craz_e_blossom · #3 (**permalink**) Jun 19, 04

Whoa putting yourself down ain't cool...Guys are assholes...Don't deal with them that's why there are chicks:)

Shemsija · #4 (**permalink**) Jun 19, 04

no no that last part wasn't towards me, it was my ex-bf being smart.

I have more respect for myself then that ;)

craz_e_blossom · #5 (**permalink**) Jun 19, 04

That's good...My mis understanding then...Serriously for get about guys...You know they say we play mind games...Well fuck not all chicks play mind games...Some are diffrent look at this guy you are having to deal with...He is nothing but all mind games...And I know that would straight up piss me off...Actually I am kinda in the same situation as you just basically told him to go fuck himself because I don't like mind games...

M!SKA · #6 (**permalink**) Jun 19, 04

I am assuming this boy is now the ex, and it sounds as if its for good reason. Waste of tiiime

Sykonee · #7 (**permalink**) Jun 19, 04

The thing about mind games is that they're all in our heads.

Shemsija · #8 (**permalink**) Jun 19, 04

Thats 4 sure, glad u guys understand where im coming from cuz i know im not the only one realizes he was a waste of time. Thing is , you try and try to make things work, somehow, always being there(at least trying to be) comes around to kick u in the ass. I've learnt my lesson though for future men 2 come.

craz_e_blossom · #9 (**permalink**) Jun 19, 04

^^^
I said screw men long time ago...There are only a couple I will let myslef fall for ...At this point in time there is only one...And then I back away cause I remember how they just cause to much bullshit for me...

Dj G-Style · #10 (**permalink**) Jun 19, 04

Please do not lump all us guys with this guy.
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Shemsija · #11 (**permalink**) Jun 19, 04

Oh i know there are guys who will appreciate someone being there for them, but he made me think a lot more in depth about trusting everyone!Something i will take into considerationwith my next boyfriend.

Scarface · #12 (**permalink**) Jun 19, 04

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Originally Posted by Shemsija

Oh i know there are guys who will appreciate someone being there for them, but he made me think a lot more in depth about trusting everyone!Something i will take into considerationwith my next boyfriend.

/damaged goods.

Another one bites the dust.

DJ Ponz · #13 (**permalink**) Jun 19, 04

The problem is not that guys are into mindgames - I'll admit some are - but the guys that do shit like that are usually pricks. And from my experience, chicks love a bad-boy, a charleton, a rough neck - these are the pricks that fuck with you. The only saving grace for guys like me - that is, good guys - is that MOST women outgrow their infatuation with the bad-boy, Molson Canadian drinking, truck driving momo that has become so dime-a-dozen. There are plenty of level-headed guys out there - just look for the guy not wearing the "wife-beater".