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Originally Posted by Courtney
^, ok then she really is just stupid.
so...basically jen-e,you've been to japan..loved it, but don't want to go and live in a place that you loved because of your bf??? how old are you??
18??? wow...I don't get it. You're bf would have been here when you got back(if he really loved u that much) but that amazing oppurtunity is gone now!! too bad.
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Where did this come from??? I didn't read anything about a bf in her post unless there was an edit?
Anyway regarding a majority of the people telling you your stupid for passing up this job. fuck em. They have there own oppinion and don't have the right to tell you that you didn't make the right decision for yourself.
Yes you have been to Japan and yes you loved it. But if you feel this is too big a step for you at this age and that you feel a little underqualified to be teaching just yet then go with your gut.
If your not ready don't send yourself over seas untill your sure. Life is an adventure and I love to travel, but Im still not ready to just leap right in untill I know I can handle it. I just got back from europe after a 2 week trip. My sister is going for 3 months. Right now I wasn't ready to go for much longer then that, although I wish I did now. Your still young, you have your whole life ahead of you to go and teach in Japan. Im sure when you are ready (maybe even next year) you will be able to get back there and make some money.
Anyway good luck, and just sit down with your grandma and just tell her all your reasons for not being comfortable with going over seas at this point. Im sure she will understand. People can just push a little hard when they think they know the best opportunity for you and fear you may be letting it pass you by. :)
lol I hope that all made sence.