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Jun 23, 04
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As for topic, run all the options. If he still "pussies" out, kick his ass to the curb. ;)
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Jun 23, 04
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No excuse at all....
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Jun 23, 04
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its not an excuse.. the guy jus dosnt like the taste or maybe he's jus afraid he'll suck at it!
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Jun 23, 04
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1. Does your bf smoke? cuz if he does, he's full of shit concerning the taste buds and smell.
2. God knows i was nervous the first time i went down on a chick, not really knowing what to do. Luckily, i had a patient partner who was more then vocal enough at expressing her pleasures and dislikes. 3. If your willing to show him the ropes and he's still not reciprocating. hit him in the face bar of soap inside of a sock. then dump his selfish ass. 4. if you think your cooch is a little oderous, showering before sex would probably benefit you both. cleanliness is godlyness <--not a word. but it works. Last edited by Goat; Jun 23, 04 at 02:24 PM.
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Jun 23, 04
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Jun 24, 04
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2. lucky you! 3.great idea! 4. he has this thing with germs so he makes me shower before we see each other. I keep myself very clean and that pineapple juice does the trick for the most part (at least i thought it did) Godessa- i think i'm gonna take your advice as well. I think I should find someone that will go down on me....any takers :hehe:
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Jun 24, 04
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I agree with the verdict, it probably is bullshit (ESPECIALLY his supposed reason for not "being able" to go down on you, and knowing that he smokes should prove that for you). Whatever the real reason behind his unwillingess, he does sound like a sexually selfish person. If you mean enough to him, then he should be willing to try for you whether he's had a bad experience or just flat out dislikes it.
He may just need to get the hang of it; alot of my male friends have mentioned that because of bad experiences, the stigma surrounding it, or just the fact that they don't find it appealing, they tended to avoid eating a girl out; but they say after trying a while they LOVED it. I have been told on more than one ocassion that I have gotten a boyfriend or two addicted to the taste the feel and especially the results. Goat made a good point too, he may just be scared he will be horrible. You need to tell him that if that is what he is worried about, he doesn't have to be. Make him beleive it too. Joke about how you were awful at giving a handjob, or oral for quite a while (even if you weren't) and that all it takes is a patient, understanding partner they are comfortable with (that being you hopefully) , some practice and a little instruction. Assure him that you're expectations are not that he gives you the best damn head yo've ever had, or even anything pleasurable at all. But that all you expect is for him to TRY and to listen to what you do/do not like and what he does do well. And MAKE HIM REALLY KNOW!! One of the most sexy, confident boosting things is when you see and feel the results. Suprisingly, alot of men get extremely arroused by making a girl breath hard, moan, squirm or all of the above and it might take seeing for him to really believe in his skills. Last edited by MistressSpankME; Jun 24, 04 at 07:52 AM.
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Jun 24, 04
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^SEE! There sure as hell isn't a lack of boys who love to do it, so send him on his sorry way if he won't co-operate!
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Jun 24, 04
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^ Then it's time for the Lysol! Clean yes, Germs no!
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Jun 24, 04
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I'm kinda confused as to why this dude is getting bashed so much... Some girls dont like giving head, shouldn't guys be given the same right to not enjoy it? I personally have no problem the the activity in question. But since when has oral sex become an essential part of a relationship? Maybe I'm just missing something here. I know his strong senses reason is prolly some bs, but maybe he just doesn't wanna come straight out and say "I dont like doing it" I personally see no valid reason why I would dump a gf on the sole reason that she wont give me head, so why should it be any different with the genders reversed?
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Jun 24, 04
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Well... he could at least be honest and say that he doesn't like to do it. If a Girl tells me she doesn't enjoy going down that's fine. But to come up with some lame excuse is pretty stupid IMHO.
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Jun 25, 04
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The fact that he has a germ problem would turn me off not that there is anything wrong with having a phobia like that but it doesnt exactly come off as manly to me and thats how i like guys. This is a tough situation, if i was you i wouldnt want to be with a guy that was grossed out by any part of my body. Some girls (mabey a few) dont care if their boy goes down on them so he should be with someone like that. You like gettin mowed just like me so you need to find a boy that thinks your coochie tastes sweet just like my boyfriend.
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Jun 29, 04
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If you can have sex with this guy then you should be comfortable enough to talk with him. Ask him exactly what about giving you head turns him off. If it's the taste flavoured lube can change the taste. If it is genuinely a smell problem maybe a doctor visit is in order.
Honestly though, I think it's just a lame excuse. You can do better!
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Jun 30, 04
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It goes both ways, always.
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Jun 30, 04
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Honesty is the key here. Last edited by pussemeoww; Jun 30, 04 at 02:43 AM.
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