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Jul 19, 04
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Lifes Choices
Do you ever look at what youve done so far and wish u had done somethings different?
i was just anylizing things today and really wished i had changed some stuff....weather it be the ppl i met or the things that i have done.... i find it really frustrating when u set out to do someting and it all goes opposite of how u wished.... discuss 
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Jul 19, 04
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Yeah I definitely wish I could change some things...
I've got such a thick skin that it takes a lot to get under it, but I'm also very motherly and I hate that about myself, I just want that instinct to go the fuck away until I actually have babies...!@#$%
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Jul 19, 04
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Your life evolves around the choices you make. And in the same way, your choices revolve around the way you live your life.
Nobody’s life is as static as a linear graph. Everyone is subject to make mistakes and make the wrong decisions. He who wins is the person who learns from his faults and commits to new schematics as to not repeat them. Skepticism about this subject is good, and rather necessary. I, for one, have made many mistakes in my life; everything from doing the wrong things to meeting the wrong people. Though, I do not regret the mistakes I’ve made, for I think I’m a more sophisticated person than who I was. If I had not made the mistakes I made, how could I compare and scale the good from the bad? Read it in books? Maybe to some extent – but I like to get hands on experiences on topics I am skeptic about. So what I think is mistakes are essential to everybody’s lives –but that is a trivial. I also believe that a little too many mistakes can also account for an appetite for destruction. Keep heads up, don’t regret, and make solid steps.
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Jul 19, 04
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i have no regrets. sure there r things that i would like to erase and do better.
but then i might not be who i am today if i did that... i love you kat!
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Jul 19, 04
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Every decision you have made has molded you into the person you are right now. Only you have the power to change your future, only you have the power to make whatever reality you want to exist happen.
I've learnt recently that oppourtunity doesn't just come only once in life... it can come two, three or even four times. However, if you are too blind to see these chances and forego them for something else then you will end up where you are rather than where you might want to be. That might not make a hell of a lot of sense now, but don't regret the past as regret is only for things that you wish you could have done. Learn from it instead and then never make the same mistake twice.
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Jul 19, 04
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I find in life the things you often regret the most are the things you did not do, but wished you did.
The thing is, if we regret something we have done, at least we have gained experience, wisdom or some kind of life lesson- so often you come out of those things having been enriched with something.
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Jul 19, 04
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everything happens for a reason.
Theres alot of things I wish I could go back on, but i know i cant, and its okay. What happened yesterday created me today and is molding my future.Although ive made alot of shiesty decision, Ive learned alot from them and grown tremendously as a person because of it. I Honestly cannot imagine my life being any different,and Im glad its not. The bad decisions ive made, and the bad things that have happened to me, i over came...it took a while but it happened. I learned that dwelling on "what if" gets you no where fast. Always regreting and wondering "what if" wastes too much precious time and energy that you could be utilizing wisely by doing something positive and productive.
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Jul 19, 04
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Looking back, there will always be incidents I'm not so proud of, but ultimately each and every single experience/mistake has contributed to making me the person I am today.
I'm one of those people that just can't learn off of others mistakes, even if I know the decision I'm making will likely have a negative outcome, I have to go through it myself and learn the hard way. Obviously sometimes my logic kicks in and prevents me from completely messing things up. I didn't have an easy time during my early teens, it seems I experienced all the things that the "typical teenager" experiences through a 7 year span in one. But it's taught me so so much, and I feel more stable and content than I've ever felt in my life. Yes, I grew up too soon, maybe I should've waited until I was older to do a lot of the things I've done. But I can't live my life thinking about all the "maybe's," because I wouldn't have obtained the knowledge and experience that I have if I hadn't made mistakes.
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Jul 19, 04
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If i lived my life with regret i swear id be a dead women. I've learned that real. true love cant be toyed with, it may falter..but those that truly love you will be there after the rain, when its cloudy and when the sun shines. You need to know that life is living and learning...you make a move, but that move you were ment to make. Its our differnet walks of life that make us unique, when you meet someone and you look into there eyes and you can see all the layers of stories and memories beneath them. Live your life with your heart and feel the things within that make you happy...that complete and tickle your soul. Focus on what shakes your core and dont look back, only if you are unhappy should you look back in wonder to figure out what you need to escape, to know for certain what the demons you need to confront and release are BUT, if your happy i say what the fuck enjoy life..be happy and just focus on the love and loving those that love...be thankful..and have good karma thoughts in mind.
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Jul 22, 04
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if i could go back in my life i would change ALOT of things. theres alot of things that i would have done diffrently. but i guess thats how u learn...you learn from your mistakes. i would also go back and change things and maybe things would be diffrently right now bahhh....*stares at ground*
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Jul 24, 04
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life's full of choices, it's up to you wiether you make the right ones. me myself i have no regrets because as of right now i love my life, and if i had'nt done alot of the things i did/choose then i would'nt be here right now, instead i would still be in calgary or some other shit hole....wow...i <3 you guys...*tear* bahaha
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Jul 24, 04
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I try to never regret anything, every experiance I have been through has taught me something and always will. I find that it's a waste of time to wish you could change things just because you can't , whats done is done and all you can do is move on
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