online personaliy VS. actualy personality

Bitchin · #1 (**permalink**) Nov 29, 01

ok, yeah, I know you shouldn't judge a person by their online personnality and all..but I'm really confussed about something..

There's this girls I know. I don't exactly know how I met her but whatever.. that doesn't matter..Atleast I don't thing it does.. but anyways... When ever I see them post or anything online and it's towards me, it's as if they have something against, or something, though, I dont know what it is. There just mean n' shit. But when I see them in person, they're all nice and all. Like even when I'm walking some where with a friend they come and say 'hi' even if I didn't notice them.. I just dont get it..

I don't really care.. but it's caught my attention, cause either they are my friend or they aren't... I've asked one frined of mine if they have something against me or hate me, and they say that they, yet, they're are still a bitch towards me.. I dont get it...

I don't know how to go about of findin out what they think.. it's really mind bogoling.. But if they hate me they hate if they dont they dont.. whatever.. I'm just sick of this... ugh..

what to do, what to do...

Starberry · #2 (**permalink**) Nov 29, 01

For some reason a lot of people differentiate their online personality from their real life personality....maybe because they don't like their real personality?!

I don't know....ask the person. That's the only way to find out. Ask them IN PERSON though.....

For me, I'm keep everything REAL. I'm the same online as in real life.....a girl with a realistic view on life.....:Kam:

*Jen*

*addy* · #3 (**permalink**) Nov 30, 01

If everyone acted in real life like how they act online...
especially the way they act on this board?

i'd fucking run around punching everyone I swear...

there are far to many people on this site who just SHOULD NOT have access to computers...

~lazee_grrl~ · #4 (**permalink**) Nov 30, 01

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Originally posted by jovi_is_me
When ever I see them post or anything online and it's towards me, it's as if they have something against, or something, though, I dont know what it is. There just mean n' shit. But when I see them in person, they're all nice and all. Like even when I'm walking some where with a friend they come and say 'hi' even if I didn't notice them.. I just dont get it..

jovi..i had that prob before..i'd much rather be told sumthign about me rather then read it up on a msg board..first off..its hurtful..and secondly..why are u bitching to the world about me on a msg board when u know i go there and its obviously directed to me..it is frustrating..and then when u go ask them about it..they say..oh..its nuthin sorta thingy....grrrs..hate that!!..hope ya figure it out with her..~

actual personalities vs. online personalities..
sumtimes it bugs me that people act so different online when i know they aren't really like that..i mean..its sumtimes like two different people?...i found that more people are more outgoin with their online personalities when in reality..they are really shy and untalkative..??..i guess its easier to do things while hidden behind a screen..~:184:

Bitchin · #5 (**permalink**) Nov 30, 01

Well I haven't talked to her in awhile.. ugh.. whatever, if i see her, i'll ask her, til then, who knows.. ugh...

but you would think that a persons online personality would be simialr to their 'normal' personaliy...hmmm...:\

KrAzYRiCeBoY · #6 (**permalink**) Nov 30, 01

I have no idea why people have 2 personalities in the first place...On REAL life and 2nd ONLINE life...It's as if you have a slit personality or something...:(

Anyhow...I personally am who I am...Either it be talking to people on ICQ or in person...I act the same...Talk the same...No diff :)
That's the way things should be I would say...Why be 2 diff people? Be yourself...Be who you are...Why a REAL life person and another diff person!?

**sNyx** · #7 (**permalink**) Nov 30, 01

im a asshole on here, im a asshole in life

bob · #8 (**permalink**) Nov 30, 01

hahaha snyx ain't lyin' there!

hey myles remember those chicks on the skytrain? "i got what i wanted" ... "huh?" ahahahahaha. .. perfect timing, that was GOLD man...!

me, i'm a crazy sonofabitch on f&k... and i'mma crazy sonofabitch in person... anything i say on here, i mean.. if i say i'm gonna go burn cheezies in the middle of the freeway, i'm already halfway there by time i post it... i BE that... but i'm a pretty moody person, my mood swings are OFF THE CHARTS! so i can be all down on here, but in person i'll be a weirdo still... or vice versa...

i ain't got nothing to hide behind this computer screen... i've been sitting infront of it for so many years, i've just combined both worlds... i can't even tell the difference anymore...

Sean · #9 (**permalink**) Nov 30, 01

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i'd fucking run around punching everyone I swear...

Remind me to keep my guard up next time I see you =P

Rytalin · #10 (**permalink**) Dec 02, 01

just kill her jovi!

:Kam: :Kam:

Rytalin · #11 (**permalink**) Dec 02, 01

hmm.. and since we seem to be on the topic of how we are online and in real life, I may as well state my opinion on the matter.

I really don't care how I come across online, and I'm beginning to care less about how I come across in real life as well. I recently came to the conclusion that your self image is pretty much pointless, because it is just that... an image. What you like to see yourself as. Sometimes its a good self image, and sometimes its bad. When it's good, its usually somewhat fake, and when its bad it just brings you down and makes you feel like shit.

And since I'm caring less and less about what I think of myself, then why the fuck should I care about what people I hardly even know think of me?

</quick glimpse into the infinite web of oddities that is Luke's mind>

er.. I think I've gone a bit off topic... I don't know.

I don't care either.

Bitchin · #12 (**permalink**) Dec 02, 01

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Originally posted by snyx
im a asshole on here, im a asshole in life

on here your just power tripin.. in life, hell if I know...

Bitchin · #13 (**permalink**) Dec 02, 01

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Originally posted by Rytalin
just kill her jovi!

:Kam: :Kam:

maybe!?I dunno.. she being a smart-a-lick to ppl right now..lol

Jess_C · #14 (**permalink**) Dec 02, 01

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Originally posted by *addy*
If everyone acted in real life like how they act online...
especially the way they act on this board?

i'd fucking run around punching everyone I swear...

there are far to many people on this site who just SHOULD NOT have access to computers...

I couldn't agree more addy!! Jovi...don't worry about this situation. If they are that fake towards you, is it really worth the bother? I've met you once a while back at a house party at Crumb's place...you seemed very nice. So don't let these girls get you down. Not worth your time and if they really want to be your friends, let them prove it.

Bitchin · #15 (**permalink**) Dec 02, 01

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Originally posted by Blondie_Jess

I couldn't agree more addy!! Jovi...don't worry about this situation. If they are that fake towards you, is it really worth the bother? I've met you once a while back at a house party at Crumb's place...you seemed very nice. So don't let these girls get you down. Not worth your time and if they really want to be your friends, let them prove it.

Yeah, i know hun.. it just gets really annoying.. but whatever.. seems the person has dissapeared from the scene sorta. tho they still post.. rarely...

Jess_C · #16 (**permalink**) Dec 02, 01

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Originally posted by jovi_is_me

Yeah, i know hun.. it just gets really annoying.. but whatever.. seems the person has dissapeared from the scene sorta. tho they still post.. rarely...

Eh, don't sweat it! You're a great person & much better than those girls! Keep your head high and don't let anyone drag you down.:c-tard:

rawb · #17 (**permalink**) Dec 02, 01

no one has met me, my online and real personalities are the same to everyone.

woo.

r.

**sNyx** · #18 (**permalink**) Dec 02, 01

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Originally posted by jovi_is_me
on here your just power tripin.. in life, hell if I know...

fuck, shutup. you seem to be the only one complaining, so maybe it's just your own mental deficincy causing this problem.

Bitchin · #19 (**permalink**) Dec 02, 01

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Originally posted by Blondie_Jess

Eh, don't sweat it! You're a great person & much better than those girls! Keep your head high and don't let anyone drag you down.:c-tard:

thanx jesse!! Your great gurl.. you be sure todo the same too hun! see ya around

Bitchin · #20 (**permalink**) Dec 02, 01

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Originally posted by snyx
fuck, shutup. you seem to be the only one complaining, so maybe it's just your own mental deficincy causing this problem.

This coming from the guy that -just- told me that he's messed up?!But now.. according to him, I'm the one meesed up.. Gee, make up your mind Myles.. being indiffrent about things, isn't going to get you anywhere in life:P

As for me complaining.. if yu didn't make it so easy for me to bug you, then maybe I wouldn't?Ever think of that??

heh, you are and interesting character!:P

Jess_C · #21 (**permalink**) Dec 02, 01

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Originally posted by jovi_is_me

thanx jesse!! Your great gurl.. you be sure todo the same too hun! see ya around

No prob!