what makes a whore...a whore?

[krisamata]

i asked this quite awhile ago...im not sure if it was on fnk or ed, or xtcity..

anyways


what do u think makes a whore a whore?

is it the number of people he or she has slept with?
is it his or her attitude?
does it depend on what stds, and how many they have?

[axion]

i think it has alot more to do with someone attitude towards sex, rather than the number of people they have slept with.

i dont see it being a huge deal if someone has slept with lots of people, provided that they were in meaningful relationships with them. it's totally different if they were going out picking up random people at clubs and fucking them. what's worse is if they were going out and fucking the person so they could be accepted into a certain social circle or because they knew the person had money/status.

[Akeel]

i think the answer has to do with how many gallons of jizz she's guzzled.

[-ff-]

cash money explicitly exchanged for sexual services.

[soma]

who put the "oot" in the "sloot?"

[mapleleaf4ever]

Originally Posted by -ff-

cash money explicitly exchanged for sexual services.

Sums it up right there.

[{dC!}]

A whore is defined by how the person potrays themselves ...

If the person is selling there body and/or has a really slutty attitude towards sex ETC it is obvious!

[krisamata]

Originally Posted by {dC!}

A whore is defined by how the person potrays themselves ...

If the person is selling there body and/or has a really slutty attitude towards sex ETC it is obvious!

but what if this person has a slutty attitude towards sex...but is in a serious realtionship with someone he or she loves very much

[{dC!}]

As long as it is apparent that he/she is in a serious relationship then it is fine!

If that person duznt make it know that there in a serious relationship ...

Then theres a problem?

[krisamata]

Originally Posted by {dC!}

As long as it is apparent that he/she is in a serious relationship then it is fine!

If that person duznt make it know that there in a serious relationship ...

Then theres a problem?

so if the person doesnt come right out and say that they are in a relationship...after talking slutty and acting slutty in front of you you will just continue to assume that this person is a whore?


but if they're in a relationship and they still act the same way then they arent?

[{dC!}]

Itz hard to say ...

You dont know how other people are going to react rite?

But itz definitly true that if other people know the girl and/or guy is in a serious relationship with the other person that everyone's point of view will change!

[krisamata]

Originally Posted by {dC!}

Itz hard to say ...

You dont know how other people are going to react rite?

But itz definitly true that if other people know the girl and/or guy is in a serious relationship with the other person that everyone's point of view will change!

but whats your view on it?

[{dC!}]

I personally feel that whether it is made known to everyone else that the two people are in a serious relationship or not ...

There is still a certain level of appropriatness rite?

The two people in the relationship should know when to draw the line with sexual actz ETC.

If in front of other ppl!

[Ragga_Wh0re]

Originally Posted by axion

i think it has alot more to do with someone attitude towards sex, rather than the number of people they have slept with.

i dont see it being a huge deal if someone has slept with lots of people, provided that they were in meaningful relationships with them. it's totally different if they were going out picking up random people at clubs and fucking them. what's worse is if they were going out and fucking the person so they could be accepted into a certain social circle or because they knew the person had money/status.

i have a huge problem with what youve just said.


people liek you often dont take into consideration many different factors that detour so called "whores" from persuing long term relationship or serious relationships with others.

Have you ever stopped to think that hey, sex is good...infact...SEX IS GREAT! and some people, just want 2 experience great sex without feeling obligated to be in serious relationship or what have you.

We are all sexual beings, i mean look at how we got here?
Sex is always right as long as its safe, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with sex as long as you are safe and not harming yourself or others.

so in end note id have to say dont bash others because they like to fuck with no strings attached, it can be a beautiful thing if its done right. Different strokes for different folks, just because someone doesnt approach sex the same way you do does not mean for one minute that its wrong...not unless of course they are a child molestor, ut thats a whole nother ball park.


but yeah u get the just of what im saying :)

[axion]

Originally Posted by ~*goddessa*~

i have a huge problem with what youve just said.


people liek you often dont take into consideration many different factors that detour so called "whores" from persuing long term relationship or serious relationships with others.

Have you ever stopped to think that hey, sex is good...infact...SEX IS GREAT! and some people, just want 2 experience great sex without feeling obligated to be in serious relationship or what have you.

We are all sexual beings, i mean look at how we got here?
Sex is always right as long as its safe, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with sex as long as you are safe and not harming yourself or others.

so in end note id have to say dont bash others because they like to fuck with no strings attached, it can be a beautiful thing if its done right. Different strokes for different folks, just because someone doesnt approach sex the same way you do does not mean for one minute that its wrong...not unless of course they are a child molestor, ut thats a whole nother ball park.


but yeah u get the just of what im saying :)

fair enough. for once im not gonna jump down your throat because i fully understand what you are saying here.

my point in my last post was more or less that i think a whore is someone who uses sex as a means to an end, ie: to make money, gain social status, ect.

but, out of curiousity... do actually think there is such thing as sex with 'no strings attached'? i know im gonna get lots of people who disagree with me on this, but i dont think there is such thing as 'no strings attached'. whether you notice it or not, there is always a emotional price to pay for sex. if it's not apparent on a conscious level, then it's there subconsciously (sp?). i know this all sounds flakey but consider what im saying for a second. i think it's impossible to say that something as mentally and phsyically intense as sex can't require some sort of emotional involvement. think of it this way, it's along the same lines as doing drugs, just because of the intensity of the experience. no one will argue that doing drugs doesnt affect a person emotionally, and we know for a fact that chemically what happens during sex is along the same lines as doing certain drugs. anyways, i dont have any real psychology education so i have no idea if what im saying is accurate or not... just something to think about i guess.

[Ragga_Wh0re]

^i understand what youre saying, and i can only reply from ym personal experiences.

I am able to separate sex...from love and or strong feelings.I do not confuse the two, i go out...i get a nut, i come home...and life is good. I do not care abaout him, i care about his cock, usually i cant even stand to be around the guys i fuck:)I know i have a healthy lbido, i know i have to fullfill it,so i fuck...with no strings attached.

BUT BACK TO YOUR THEORY:

Sure endorphines and what not get released into your brain while fucking, but the same happens when youre doing any physical activity,so basically with your theory thhere is an emotional attachemnet to anything youre doing that involves physical activity.

so youre theroy kind of conficts itself based upon what little i know about the brain and shtufffffffffffffffffffff.

[axion]

true enough. but for instance, the amount of endorphins released during doing something like jogging doesnt compare to something like having an orgasm. i dont think there is a single person in this world who gets more of a rush from going on a run than they do from busting a nut or getting high. i think that whether you have an emotional attachment depends on the intensity of the experience.

[Ragga_Wh0re]

^ i agree and disagree with having emotional attachements to people and having intense sexual experiences.

ive been on both sides of the spectrum,and with that said ive had some pretty dope sex boning people who i have no emotional attachment to, and with thatt said ive had some pretty fucking incredible sex boning people who i do have an emotional attachment to.

but thats not what this topic is about, its about whores.

[Undecided]

I'll tell u what makes a whore a whore, when it takes more then ur own fingers and toes to count ur partners

[Joanne]

Originally Posted by axion

true enough. but for instance, the amount of endorphins released during doing something like jogging doesnt compare to something like having an orgasm. i dont think there is a single person in this world who gets more of a rush from going on a run than they do from busting a nut or getting high. i think that whether you have an emotional attachment depends on the intensity of the experience.

it's not only endorphins that are released, there is also a hormone called oxytocin that is released after someone orgasms. some scientists consider it somewhat of a 'love hormone', playing a role in bonding between couples as well as mother and baby, as it is also released while a mother is breast feeding.

--Joanne :P

[trance4life]

Originally Posted by ~*goddessa*~

We are all sexual beings, i mean look at how we got here?

i was actually born in a lab, true story
ya this post is off topic cus i dont have anything good to say

[Ragga_Wh0re]

Originally Posted by Undecided

I'll tell u what makes a whore a whore, when it takes more then ur own fingers and toes to count ur partners

shit im a whore 6 times over then

[Akeel]

Originally Posted by ~*goddessa*~

shit im a whore 6 times over then

6 times over....carry the one....


out of curiousity is it really around there?

[.anya]

"whore" is just a label like many other words. people use it (myself, included) with often automatic and rash judgements on someone. there's not really a set criteria which defines ya to be a whore. you're always going to be gauging that by your own standards, and who are you really to judge the value (or lack thereof) of someone's sexual past?
[that, of course, is the rational part of me speaking. i call girls 'whore' all the time with no objectivity attached! mueh.]

[MissBehavior]

Being a "whore" or a "slut" is just a label and a matter of perception. Anyone who has a more liberal view to sex than one's self could be viewed as a whore for moral reasons.

The best quote I've ever heard on the subject is from Mean Girls: "And you’ve got to stop calling each other sluts and whores. It just makes it all right for guys to call you that."