|
|||||||
| Mind and Body Ask for advice or offer some. Keep it work safe clean. |
 |
|
|
LinkBack | Topic Tools | Rate Topic |
Sep 01, 04
|
|||
|
|||
|
stupid boy
how do you tell someone to fuck off in a nice way? this guy keeps annoying me.. i hung out with him a couple times and all of a sudden he assumes we like eachother in a bf/gf way and he pays for me for everything when i tell him not to!. wtf who does that. so i never answer when he calls and say no when he asks me to do things but i made the mistake of talking to him on msn a few minutes ago. hes like im gonna call u at 2 tomorrow so u should answer. uhhh ok? i know it doesnt sound that bad but things seem to be annoying me today. seriously tho he knows i love someone else to! and i know hes not just being nice cuz he talks about making out with me and comes to my work and talks to me for a half n hour.
|
|
Sep 01, 04
|
||||
|
||||
|
Quote:
|
|
Sep 01, 04
|
|||
|
|||
|
Quote:
there is more humiliation involved.
|
|
Sep 01, 04
|
|||
|
|||
|
Quote:
|
|
Sep 01, 04
|
|||
|
|||
|
Quote:
yeah, do this. or the laughing at his dick thing.
|
|
Sep 03, 04
|
|||
|
|||
|
Quote:
Tell him flat out that you are only interested in being his friend and nothing more.
|
|
Sep 03, 04
|
|||
|
|||
|
Quote:
totally agree with u ...leading him on is the worst thing u could do! I'v been in this situation..and i actually posted something like wat ur saying.. everyone said the exact same thing jus tell the guy to F off in a polite way..i was kinda scared to cuz i didnt wanna seem mean...but really its the only way...jus do it quick and get it over with before this goes on any further!
|
|
Sep 03, 04
|
|||
|
|||
|
Quote:
|
|
Sep 03, 04
|
||||
|
||||
|
Quote:
Yah hopefully that works for you. I know it didn't really for me. I explained I wanted to be friends still but whenever we would hang out. He would call me later and tell me he still thought maybe there could be something more. Even a year or so later. The problem was in the begining it wasn;t me so much leading him on but his friends. saying shit like "im sure she is interested" " you should totaly go out" it just made things so much harder. But lucky for you, you have another guy in the picture. (your bf???) So that helps if he just doesn't get it. But be straight with him. Then it's in his court to let it go, and you have done what you can. Nip it in the bud!
|
|
Sep 03, 04
|
|||
|
|||
|
wow.. some guys will never give up eh? if he knows your in love with sumone else and is still trying to get with you, odviously he likes you A LOT, and you prolly dont wunna break his heart... but the faster you tell him, the faster his heart can heal
|
|
Sep 03, 04
|
|||
|
|||
|
Quote:
then in this case if you know his friends...ask them to cut it out as well, explain that you're just not interested in him and start to cut him off all together after the talk you have with him becuase then he should really get the idea,
|
|
Sep 03, 04
|
||||
|
||||
|
Quote:
Well I did when I found out what they were doing. I was indicisive for a while. And just didn't have that spark happening. But the whole time they were telling him to go for it. Eventualy they blamed me for leading him on. Untill I exlained it to them. Then they stopped. But I mean it was all him after that. I explained that I only wanted to be friends. I didnt even chill with him for months. Then I did one time, and he said he wanted to know if there was a chance. So I did what I could. But sometimes people just don't let go very easy.
|
