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Dec 09, 01
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life-what the fuck...
well... i just spent the last 10 minutes writing out all the problems in my life.
And then deleted it. I was never really one for sharing my feelings anyways. but now I feel somewhat obligated to post something... so... Question: when does life actually start coming together? Is there an age? A certain obstacle that has to be overcome? A certain experience? Because whatever it is... I want to get it over with cause I'm fucking frustrated as hell with how my life is going... 
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Dec 09, 01
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things will start coming together when you ditch all the questions about life and just fucking live...
i'd like to have all the answers, but i don't... i'm still stuck in pretty much the same hole as you are, it sucks, but who cares... there's only 1 way out of it... DIG TIL YOU HIT CHINA... standing around and asking questions ain't gonna get u anywhere... and letting someone else answer them for you will only lead you down someone else's path until you reach the end and you realize you don't belong there.
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Dec 09, 01
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But how do you stop yourself from asking these questions?
The thing is, a lot of the time I have the answers myself, on how to solve many of my problems. But I mean, I can't force motivation. I can't stop my procrastination. And I have no idea what to do with my life/future. fuck... china is so far away...
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Dec 09, 01
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Dec 09, 01
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coffee is a good motivator. 3 cups and you'll think you can do anything. then again, a couple points of jib will probably bring you the same results and you won't have to pee so much. peeing always gets in my way to world conquest. you're still young yoahoao, high school even! don't stress yet, you'll have completely grey hair before you're 30. i know gr. 12 is hard cuz u actually have to make a decision on your life for once, choosing your own path. but i dunno... keep your thoughts simple. if u can't get rid of them, then drown them out with other stuff. keep yourself busy and don't give yourself time to stop and think... but that's only a short term solution, and it'll catch up to you eventually. hmmm.... yea just go with the smoking crack idea... maybe you just need something to inspire you. you'll find it when it's ready to be found, don't stress over it.
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Dec 09, 01
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*addy*
Life starts to come together when you feel that you're happy with yourself. :)
Sorry to burst your bubble, but the *questions in life* are continuous, and they get more difficult as you get older. But along the path, you grow stronger and smarter and they're easier to handle. :375: I know you're frustrated... but just focus on what exactly is the problem, find a solution, and try to pave your way there. It's hard, I know, but it's better to deal with it, than turning your back on it. :355: Sometimes dealing with it maybe just *HELL*, but it's better to do so, cuz it'll ease your mind, and then you can move on to answering one of the other questions that's lingering in your brain... Good luck babe :Kimmie:
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Dec 10, 01
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when life hands you lemons, make lemon meringue pie... and invite frogprincess over....she loves pie.
:Kimmie: :Kimmie: :Kimmie:
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Dec 12, 01
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Yeah.. the crack sounds good bob:)
Today was awesome. I had to write an in class essay, and I just couldn't do it... nothing was coming to mind, possibly because it was so cluttered with other stupid things... So while my class was completely silent.. I just look up, and I yell "FUCK IT!" and just hand it in... with like... only a horrible intro done... Just went on strike. feels good to fail. Cece: i know things will get worse, and my problems at present are nothing on contrast to the problems to come. But I just don't know what to do anymore... I'm just struck. Frogprincess: pie sounds damn good right now...
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Dec 12, 01
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*argh*
So, I guess you didn't write it out and read it like a robot? :035:
Is it worse than you hoped it would be? Or just getting to that point where you wanna push your face into your hands and cry miserably? :043: Call me, k? :Kimmie:
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Dec 12, 01
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Awww hun! I know how you feel and don't give up! Things may seem tough right now and there's no sight of the end of the tunnel. However, it will come! Things will pick up and get back on track! Believe me, I've been stuck in that damn tunnel for a while now...finally getting out of it! All I can say is that there will always be obstacles and situations that will drive you nuts...however, it's how you handle them, that makes all the difference! Best advice, turn to your friends hun, trying to deal with somethings on your own, only make it worse! We love ya! :) Don't let anyone or anything get you down either, because in the big scheme of things, they aren't that important! Good luck! Keep your chin up and be proud cuz ya kick ass!
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Dec 13, 01
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Question: when does life actually start coming together? Is there an age? A certain obstacle that has to be overcome? A certain experience? Because whatever it is... I want to get it over with cause I'm fucking frustrated as hell with how my life is going...
[warning: whut you read below are just athenaz opinionz] life comez together when you feel content with your life, and everything surrounding it. there is no age, and life does not always 'come together' as we wish it to. every experience contributes to this, and it could all dissapear in seconds. things come together and fall apart everyday, minute, year .... its all in the frame of mind.
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Dec 16, 01
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Dec 28, 01
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Hmmm... I'm hearing some bad suggestions here! Don't think? Well, if you're happy living your life in ignorance then by all means... but if you ask these questions and let life answer them for you, you'll end up following your path in life AND you'll discover certain truths to life that make your world a lot more secure and safe.
You'll learn (and are probably learning, hence the questions and confusion) that the world we've created is fucked up more than you might ever imagine. Remember though, that it doesn't have to be that way, we're also capable of creating and being more than you might ever imagine. You'll (hopefully) discover who you are and in what way you can be fulfilled and content while contributing to whatever greater good you think there might be. But you gotta ask the questions. They'll confuse and anger you now, but soon things will start to become clear, and you'll be eternally glad that you decided to take charge of your life. Good luck to you. Pat :135:
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Dec 30, 01
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yeah, I *heart* Azim.
*groans* Hooj
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Dec 31, 01
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i don't think you ever stop asking questions, but the questions you ask change. priorities shift, things that weren't important to you before might matter, and things are important to you now, might not. i now it gets frustrating and you think "what the fuck is going on!? why am i here!?", but it's good to question life and things that happen. it means you're thinking, and that is good. just make sure that when you look for answers to your questions, whether it's in yourself or around you, that you're open to answers, whether you like them or not. don't worry SO much about the future, it's unpredictable, enjoy life now. you'll find what you want to do, or it'll find you. hope i made some sort of sense:089:
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