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[quote=galaxie]
- has direction in life (ie. going to school or intends to go to school or has gone to school) QUOTE] ^ That's probably my biggest criteria, unfortunately most of the guys I meet seem to lack any sort of drive or motivation. I'd like to add: -honest -intelligent.. can hold a conversation with me about anything from religion to hip hop to literature and so on... -caring (as in will return phone calls and make the effort once in awhile to call just to see how i'm doing) -good looking (not so much model material but well taken care of) -hard working -good sense of humour -loyal -can appreciate me for me.. I won't lie i'm not the easiest person to get along with.. i'm pretty high maintenance along with other things, so I need a guy who can appreciate those qualities in me. -will buy me extra hot, extra foam soy chai lattes when i'm sad (just jk :)) He also has to be willing to have sex anytime and all the time, I can't stress that enough. |
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what is all this talk of sex??? girls dont like sex! unless its really good sex. then its all good. but if its bad sex, then keep that shit away....shudder. i dont wanna have to fake it all my life.
we want someone who will listen, or at least pretend to. someone who does all the unexpected just because things that knock us off our feet. not the big things, the little things. someone who isnt a total loser (aka, i dont mind paying for myself, but i dont wanna spend all my hard earned money on you all the time, so dont be a total scrub). treat me the same (or at least close to it) when youre with the guys. backrubs. let me cry when i feel like it, without making me feel like the weepy female i know i am. make me grilled cheese sandwiches. candles. dont wait for me to call. call me. snuggling on the couch watching movies. hold a decent conversation, act intelligent, but not condescending. hell, the list really could go on and on. mainly, dont be a complete jackass, and you'll do alright and big fat juicy cock is always appreciated. really. as long as its good. |
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girls just want to be treated with respect, and if the guy cant do that, then he can just fuck himself.... i want:
a sweetheart but can stick up for himself too holds me when i need to be held i can have a good conversation with that isnt in it for just sex (sex isnt everything, but i admit it is a huge factor) pretty good looking, i dont really care cuz i'm not high maitnance someone whos understanding i would really like to be able to trust the guy, even when he's around other girls... i'm not a very jealous person, so i dont care if the guy hangs out with other girls just as long as he's not fucking them someone who has a future, or is willing to create a better one for themself yeah... thats about it i guess |
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But gawd damn it! I'm getting good sex! I just need more of it. . . *shakes fist in boy's direction* |
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^ I couldn't agree more. Both sides have their issues where they don't see eye 2 eye and have certain uncertainties/concerns which follow suit. Best is to recognize that and just find someone that will share your interests and qualities. Everything else will fall into place eventually as long as both sides are willing to fix, if not, meh, whatevs, next please :) As hard as it is, its well worth it. Patience is a virtue. :y:
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[quote=LadyShades]
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I think alot of the girls who want this kind of guy aren't looking in the right places, or they overlook guys they think aren't there type by meeting them once and never getting to know them. |