did i do that right thing? - Page 3

galaxie · #51 (**permalink**) Sep 30, 04

Let me put it in to perspective for you:

Where do you think you have a better chance of being jumped, robbed and beaten?

a) In a dark alley, in an unsafe, shady neighbourhood, with no one around and no one who could help?

OR

b) On a busy street in a nice neighbourhood with lots of people around, so almost inevitably someone would help you?

Obviously, you have a better chance in option a.

Now, if you decide to take option a over option b, you are setting yourself up for a possibly dangerous situation. Sure, you could walk down the alley, and be totally fine. But, on the other hand, you could walk down the alley, and be jumped, robbed and beaten.

I don't know about you, but I'd rather take the route doesn't lead me to potential danger.

Undecided · #52 (**permalink**) Sep 30, 04

I think you r all being a little hard on little miss fairy here she clearly feels very bad about about all of what happened and wants to know if coming clean was a good thing to do which I think it was honesty is always a good policy no matter who it hurts I'm mean everything else about the night was fucked but I think she did the best to fix it so I think we should not be so hard on her

Akeel · #53 (**permalink**) Sep 30, 04

Everyone is neglecting the fact that the exbf didnt even get off.

We all know thats the most important thing...so for next time let him cop the feelies and go down smilin'.

Rhianna · #54 (**permalink**) Sep 30, 04

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Originally Posted by Undecided

I think you r all being a little hard on little miss fairy here she clearly feels very bad about about all of what happened and wants to know if coming clean was a good thing to do which I think it was honesty is always a good policy no matter who it hurts I'm mean everything else about the night was fucked but I think she did the best to fix it so I think we should not be so hard on her

Yes but she wouldn't even be in this mess if she had stopped and thought "Hey, maybe getting in to bed and cuddling w/ my high/drunk ex boyfriend isn't the best thing to do right now. I'll wait until we all come down off of this plur."

Oh wait.....she's 16. Never mind, 16 year olds are all about learning fun new lessons of life.

dapimpstress · #55 (**permalink**) Sep 30, 04

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Originally Posted by Rhianna

Yes but she wouldn't even be in this mess if she had stopped and thought "Hey, maybe getting in to bed and cuddling w/ my high/drunk ex boyfriend isn't the best thing to do right now. I'll wait until we all come down off of this plur."

werd werd.... MAD werd

meth0dical · #56 (**permalink**) Sep 30, 04

^you cant honestly tell me you've done something stupid in your life. i dont understand why you feel the need to cut people down for making mistakes. you should try offering some advice minus the bitch attitude and the sarcasm.
edit; for rhianna

dapimpstress · #57 (**permalink**) Sep 30, 04

thats true.. and i didn't kno this chicky was 16 duuuuude... thats like... rough u kno? but i still dont get how it wouldn't be common sense to think getting in bed, with ur ex-man, while his new girl is there, or at all if he has a new girl, could be a GOOD idea in any way...

meth0dical · #58 (**permalink**) Sep 30, 04

they were fucked up on x and drunk. i make stupid decisions when im sober, im sure the inebriation had something to do with it...
plus from what it seems they both have feelings for each other. then again im no dr phil, and i could just be talking out of my ass.

Rhianna · #59 (**permalink**) Sep 30, 04

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Originally Posted by meth0dical

^you cant honestly tell me you've done something stupid in your life. i dont understand why you feel the need to cut people down for making mistakes. you should try offering some advice minus the bitch attitude and the sarcasm.
edit; for rhianna

I don't recall saying I was perfect. I said 16 year olds fuck up. Including 16 year old Rhianna. Me pointing out her age was my way of saying "we all fuck up at 16". Anyway, she'll get over it.

I will never get rid of the sarcasm but thanks for the tip.

Rhianna · #60 (**permalink**) Sep 30, 04

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Originally Posted by Ashes

thats true.. and i didn't kno this chicky was 16 duuuuude... thats like... rough u kno? but i still dont get how it wouldn't be common sense to think getting in bed, with ur ex-man, while his new girl is there, or at all if he has a new girl, could be a GOOD idea in any way...

Common sense is very tricky for most people.

galaxie · #61 (**permalink**) Oct 01, 04

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Originally Posted by meth0dical

^you cant honestly tell me you've done something stupid in your life. i dont understand why you feel the need to cut people down for making mistakes. you should try offering some advice minus the bitch attitude and the sarcasm.
edit; for rhianna

Oh cooooooome on!
It's COMMON SENSE! Why the f would you cuddle w/your ex? Especially if he/she had a new gf/bf? IT MAKES NO SENSE! @#$%

Kraig · #62 (**permalink**) Oct 01, 04

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Originally Posted by galaxie

Oh cooooooome on!
It's COMMON SENSE! Why the f would you cuddle w/your ex? Especially if he/she had a new gf/bf? IT MAKES NO SENSE! @#$%

^^ I think Natalie is going to fly into a rage. :-p

flailin*fairy · #63 (**permalink**) Oct 01, 04

okay.. i think this should stop now haha, i screw up all the time, its a part of life... i totally understand your point of view, and it made me think a little too, both of us were fucked that night, and we both make mistakes, shit happens.... and i talked to my ex anyway, he's not pissed off anymore he said he just needs a little break... which i understand, and i feel the same way.. my ex and i have been good friends ever since we broke up, we've been ex's for like over 2 months now almost... so now we're just friends, and i'm happy with that

.muffy. · #64 (**permalink**) Oct 01, 04

two months?!

I was thinking along the lines of years
no wonder the girl was pissed

ebbomega · #65 (**permalink**) Oct 01, 04

Whether or not you did the right thing depends entirely on whether you want to be your ex's friend or if you're a complete bitch.

galaxie · #66 (**permalink**) Oct 01, 04

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Originally Posted by flailin*fairy

we've been ex's for like over 2 months now almost...

OMG THAT IS LIKE FOREVER

ahh!

charly · #67 (**permalink**) Oct 01, 04

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Originally Posted by galaxie

OMG THAT IS LIKE FOREVER

ahh!

IT IS IN 16 YEAR OLD GIRL WORLD!

flailin*fairy · #68 (**permalink**) Oct 01, 04

well, to me and my ex it is a while... and his new gf wasnt pissed, my ex was more pissed then she was, just cuz he didnt remember doing it i guess, but everythings good between all of us now, i'm just not going to step close to him when he's fucked up ever again..... but of coarse i was pretty fucked up too, i guess that was my first mistake, the second was crawling into his bed, the third was telling both of them what happened instead of just explaining it to him first.... anyways i'm done with this thread now...... people are just starting to repeat themselves now

Rhianna · #69 (**permalink**) Oct 01, 04

^Well the last thing I am going to say is that your ex's new gf sounds like a really big pushover. Either that or she's pushing everything deep down inside until she snaps.

Ha your from n.van? what highschool do you go to?

flailin*fairy · #70 (**permalink**) Oct 01, 04

no, its not that... she just values honesty... after i told her she thanked me for be truthful to her instead of just keeping it in..... which is what i kinda wish i did, but a part of me is happy i said it too

flailin*fairy · #71 (**permalink**) Oct 01, 04

i go to windsor secondary