N E 1 in love? fer real? what's it like 4 u?

dapimpstress · #1 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

I KNOW I'm in love *heart flutters*
I know it because I can feel it in my belly. Every once in a while, I will just be looking at him, and I get this feeling, and I just have to say 'I love you' cause i FEEL it. :) Makes me so so so happy. I know it too because I leave for not even 24 hours and I already miss him. When I get back its like I been away for longer, and I'm so happy to be with him again, and we're so stoked to see eachother. He is the most rockinest-mad-wicked-savage-fresh-man around. my sc. and MAD WERD to that. hehe. *giggles*

penguinabc123 · #2 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

im in love, omg am i ever. always together and loving it, we got in a fight and broke up and neither of us could stand it for more than a day and we both beged for each other back. doing the simpelst things seem like an event with her. everytime i see her i know things will be ok no matter whats going on in my life, ahhhhh....

Akeel · #3 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

love is such a complex emotion...so hard to discribe with only words...how do you describe a feeling like that...if i had too...i guess i would say...

MAD WERD!!!!!!!
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dapimpstress · #4 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

thats really cool, like i have been with this guy fer 3 months or so, which is not that long u kno? but we are living together, and we got a kitten (he named her bella) and i am loving just being together! waking up together is the best, i spent the night at my parents the other night, and it was sooo hard to get up! lol... its great to hear that you are enjoying the excitement of love as well. its the best feeling, and makes me wanna smile just thinking about it!

dapimpstress · #5 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

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Originally Posted by Akeel

love is such a complex emotion...so hard to discribe with only words...how do you describe a feeling like that...if i had too...i guess i would say...

MAD WERD!!!!!!!

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

wow u get MAD points fer that :) :)

sweet~kandy · #6 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

Youve only been with the guy for 3 months and your already in love, I dont think so. I wouldnt be surprised if in a couple months you guys wernt together.

As Akeel said, love is such a complex emotion...so hard to discribe with only words...how do you describe a feeling like that?? I dont think anyone can.

Akeel · #7 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

^
i did discribe it.

i said 'mad werd'

dapimpstress · #8 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

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Originally Posted by Akeel

^
i did discribe it.

i said 'mad werd'

ahahahahaha... yeah WUT
and look, just because you ARENT in love, doesnt mean you gotta hate on me. There is a difference you see between being IN love and loving someone, love is forever, being in love can sometimes only last for a short while.. even if you think its not love, its something wonderful, i know it... thats all i care about :)

and you are CERTAINLY not one to say who is or who isnt in love. you dont even know me. like, wtf right?

PokemonMasta · #9 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

love is gross

dapimpstress · #10 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

why for? *giggles* it makes u giggle!

sweet~kandy · #11 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

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Originally Posted by Ashes

ahahahahaha... yeah WUT
and look, just because you ARENT in love, doesnt mean you gotta hate on me. There is a difference you see between being IN love and loving someone, love is forever, being in love can sometimes only last for a short while.. even if you think its not love, its something wonderful, i know it... thats all i care about :)

and you are CERTAINLY not one to say who is or who isnt in love. you dont even know me. like, wtf right?

Its funny how you say this like I have no clue what ur talking about. I was once in a relationship were I thought I was gunna get married to this guy, things change im time, and so do ppl, so I dont think its right to put a name on a 3month relationship when still youve hardly gotten to know the person (in a relationship kinda way not frienship). Yes being IN LOVE and LOVING someones is totally differnet and no Im not hating on you at all. I just feel that you may be getting ahead of urself a little bit. I can see you going out with this guy for year you saying that your in love with him, but after 3 months it sounds fake.

dapimpstress · #12 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

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Originally Posted by sweet~kandy

Its funny how you say this like I have no clue what ur talking about. I was once in a relationship were I thought I was gunna get married to this guy, things change im time, and so do ppl, so I dont think its right to put a name on a 3month relationship when still youve hardly gotten to know the person (in a relationship kinda way not frienship). Yes being IN LOVE and LOVING someones is totally differnet and no Im not hating on you at all. I just feel that you may be getting ahead of urself a little bit. I can see you going out with this guy for year you saying that your in love with him, but after 3 months it sounds fake.

you are talking to ME like I dont know what im talking about. I too have seen a few relationships over time sweeti and i know people change. i am not making ANY statement that it is going to last forever or that i will marry this guy, because i probably wont. but i am enjoying what i have right now. and i said that i have BEEN with him for 3 months, i have KNOWN him however for about 8 or 9. so i do understand about being friends first. it may sound fake, however, i do not feel that it is. i dont care what it sounds like its just how i feel. i am not so the relationship noob u seem to think i am.

sweet~kandy · #13 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

I wasnt at all stating that you were a relationship noob, you seemed to have put those words into my mouth.

Im happy for you that you have found someone who you can say u love. However 3 months is a short period of time.....

galaxie · #14 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

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Originally Posted by sweet~kandy

Its funny how you say this like I have no clue what ur talking about. I was once in a relationship were I thought I was gunna get married to this guy, things change im time, and so do ppl, so I dont think its right to put a name on a 3month relationship when still youve hardly gotten to know the person (in a relationship kinda way not frienship). Yes being IN LOVE and LOVING someones is totally differnet and no Im not hating on you at all. I just feel that you may be getting ahead of urself a little bit. I can see you going out with this guy for year you saying that your in love with him, but after 3 months it sounds fake.

How close-minded of you!

She could be in love after three months, or she could THINK she's in love after three months, but it's not your place to define her feelings in her relationship. Just because you didn't know how to properly place YOUR feelings doesn't mean that she doesn't!

My boyfriend and I told each other we loved each other before we were even together for two months. We spent just about every waking moment together when we weren't at work, and we knew (and still know) each other inside and out. It's been almost a year now, and my feelings have only continued to grow and become stronger. It's definitely POSSIBLE to fall in love extremely fast - just because you haven't experienced the feeling doesn't mean it's not possible!

cubed · #15 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

In the quarter century that is my life, I've only said those three words to one person. Those are words that I've felt have been tossed around far too loosely. I always told myself that when I say those words it will be forever and only to the one person that truly deserves them. True love is all consuming, it turns it's blind eye to all the faults in that person, and that is why you love them. True love means you love the person for all that is wrong with them, and all that is right with them, no matter what the circumstances. Love isn't something that comes along when you're getting to know someone, that's infatuation. It takes time for love to develop, to say that you're in love after a short period is just a misconception of what love really is.

galaxie · #16 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

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Originally Posted by sweet~kandy

Im happy for you that you have found someone who you can say u love. However 3 months is a short period of time.....

wow don't backpedal too fast, you might hurt yourself!

dapimpstress · #17 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

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Originally Posted by sweet~kandy

I wasnt at all stating that you were a relationship noob, you seemed to have put those words into my mouth.

Im happy for you that you have found someone who you can say u love. However 3 months is a short period of time.....

i know its so crazy, im not tryina put words in your mouth, im sorry for that, it was just how it seemed to me. but i know its a very short time, which is why its so hard for even me to believe... i mean i think theres only been 3 -4 days this whole time when i havent seen him. :)

galaxie · #18 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

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Originally Posted by cubed

It takes time for love to develop, to say that you're in love after a short period is just a misconception of what love really is.

But Jim, everyone has a different conception of what love '"is".

dapimpstress · #19 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

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Originally Posted by galaxie

But Jim, everyone has a different conception of what love '"is".

werd girl, i completely agree... love is not something any body of people can agree on, it is simply a word for something that cannot be defined nor described.

Akeel · #20 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

i love cheese cake.

now...did i love it from the first time i tried it? or was i just infatuated and it took time for my love to develop for cheese cake. regardless if i ate too much cheese cake i would be sick of the bitch and wouldnt love her anymore.

cubed · #21 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

go back to the beginning of my post.

we've been brought up in a society which has blurred the lines of love for years.

until you have been with that person at their worst moment and at their greatest, it's pretty hard to tell if you truly love that person for every bit of them.

like I said before it gets tossed around way to lightly same goes for the word hate.

dapimpstress · #22 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

tru that cubed.... however, why spend all your time wondering if its love? why not just enjoy whatever it may be that you are feeling so strongly?

galaxie · #23 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

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Originally Posted by cubed

go back to the beginning of my post.

we've been brought up in a society which has blurred the lines of love for years.

until you have been with that person at their worst moment and at their greatest, it's pretty hard to tell if you truly love that person for every bit of them.

like I said before it gets tossed around way to lightly same goes for the word hate.

True.
But some people have the intuition just to "know". This is not a good thing, nor a bad thing, it just is.
I'll use my personal experience...I had seen my boyfriend at his greatest moments, and I loved him, after that, I saw him at his most weak, most vulnerable, and I still loved him. But before either of those moments, I already knew I loved him, and I told him so. So, for me, I will not say "I love you" until I know that no matter what he does, or how strong or weak he is, I will still love him. He could cheat on me, and I would still love him. I would not be with him, but I would love him.

I agree with the word hate being tossed around just as freely. Everyone uses it in a joking way (I'll be the first to admit that I do), but in my life, I have only said it and meant it once.

Liqwid · #24 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

Yeah...and i am leaving to ontario with him

yay

~Dalyn

cubed · #25 (**permalink**) Sep 29, 04

I never said to sit and wonder whether it's love or not.

I merely reserved for the only person I could ever see myself growing old with.

That was the only person ever deserving of those words from my lips.