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Oct 29, 04
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Comfort.
So say it's your first time sleeping with some one... Are you fully comfortable and confident when sleeping with them? Do you give it your all... or does it take awhile for you to feel completly comfortable to give 110% in bed?
Are you shy the first time you sleep with someone? Are you ok with people seeing you nakey but not ok with being, I guess you could say 'yourself' in bed? Or are you still shy to have them see you in your bday suit, tho your making boom-boom with em'? Does liquor play as a factor? Is it liquid courage for you? I know you have to be comfortable to sleep wth some one in the first place, but thats basically a diffrent state of comfort. IMO. 
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Oct 29, 04
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Usually by the time I get around to sleeping with someone, I know them well enough to feel 100% comfortable. I wouldn't be shy about them seeing my naked body, and I prefer not to sleep with someone for the first time when the both of us are all gooned, that way you will know for sure if they were any good. ;)
If your gonna do it, do it right! :026:
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Oct 29, 04
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I say it takes a while. People have different tastes, fetishes, things that get them off. It can take a while to really learn what turns people's buttons and what kind of rhythm they like to get into.
Sometimes, first time sex with a new person can be really fun, but after sleeping with them for at least a while, it seems that the sex just gets a bit better every time. Oh, and here's a tip. If you're having sex with someone for the first time, don't be on Mushrooms. Just.... bad idea.
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Oct 30, 04
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It depends
I can be really really crazy and I don't like unleashing that straight up, because it's scared people off.. I get totally stoked if I'm with someone and I'm totally comfortable enough to be completely myself right away. That is a good sign. I find that sex aside, one way you can totally know you're comfortable with someone and you're showing a lot more of yourself is if after all that, you can chill out totally naked in bed for hours..maybe even let them stay the night. I find it's pretty hard for people to make the cut to be able to spend the night (because I usually feel suffocated, I can't sleep, etc.), or hang out naked. I think in that sense you've found this whole other level of intimacy that is really stronger than with sex at times.
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Oct 30, 04
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it's alll good
normaly the only thing going thru my head is how big and if it's going to be any good i'm comfortable naked as long as there's no bright lights shining on and the liquor thing, i've fucked sober and un sober...i prefer sober on the first go when you're drunk you can't perform to your fullest, but it's ok i guess if you just wanna one night pump but it's kinda tacky if you're a good fuck, you got nothing to worry bout if you like to get a lil crazy, go for it..if the guy doesn't like it, then you're not compatible and that's that
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Confident.... yes... Comfort comes with a couple good sessions. :)
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Oct 30, 04
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hmmm...
I am always comfortable being naked with someone and the first time I am sleeping with them. I keep myself in shape and I feel that I have enough experience to be good in bed, and if I feel like I am not pleasing them, I am not shy about asking what my partner(s) like and then doing that (within reason)... The only time I feel uncomfortable is if the other person is a virgin...I don't like hooking up with virgins as it is usually a painful experience the first time...And not a good pain either...
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and for my opinion, well... I don't have sex, so that's settled, haha.
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