helpless...

[miss.myra]

You've all probably seen me post about my most special friend in the world on here, cos I have more than once.

He had to move back to Calgary for awhile to get some stuff sorted out after he finished school.

Anyways, he got in a car accident last night. Three of the people inside the car got injured, but he's okay. That is so fucked up.

His birthday is also tomorrow :(

This really sucks. All I want to do is be there for him, and I can't, and I feel so helpless. He's also just not doing well in other areas of his life, so this can't help.

I feel really sad, I hate feeling this helpeless and far away from him :(

I also kinda don't know his full condition, because all I got is a brief sketchy phone message.

I hope he's okay. I hope he knows how much I love him...


:/

[wundergirl]

you should email him the link to this thread. it'll no doubt make his day.


hope everything is cool :(

[krisamata]

myra...im glad to hear your friend isnt injured.

im sure he knows how much you love him...dont forget to tell him though!!!


as for feeling helpless i feel the exact same way as you right now.... horrible things seem to be happening to everyone around me...and i just dont even know what to do or say anymore...i drove around for 2 hours tonite just thinking and crying and feeling completely lost.

you just have to be there for the ones you love... i wish i could just take all their pain away.

*sigh*

[Ree Fresh]

I know what its like to be that person far away and could really use someone. It amazed me when I was probly at one of my lowest points while traveling alone. Then out of no wear a phone call from a friend back home made it a night ill never forget and really energized my spirit :)

If you can... try to send a written letter or somthing tangable. Its just a bit more warming then an email. Almost like you can feel their pressence in a none creepy way. Be creative and try making your own stuff like cookies or a drawing (so kidish) but really thoughtfull and im sure it would mean the world to them :)

[mojo]

i wish you the best, and your friend. sounds like they could use your presence right about now.

i am driving to edmonton this weekend with my best bud. hes moving home to get his own life sorted out.: ( im not looking forward to his absence in my life.

anywyas, keep smiling: )

[miss.myra]

Originally Posted by mojo

i am driving to edmonton this weekend with my best bud. hes moving home to get his own life sorted out.: ( im not looking forward to his absence in my life.

Yeah, that's the same reason my best friend moved back to Calgary! Though everything is not working out as it should, he was supposed to be back in December/January, but it's realllly not looking like that now :(

It's really really hard not having him around, and don't even get me started on my cellphone bill!

[dapimpstress]

At least he's all right babe...
I dont know if you saw my post a couple months back but abunch of my friends got into a car accident, and one died, and everyone was seriously injured and had to go to the hospital... It really awful and tragic when people get hurt, but at least the are going to be okay...

I know kinda how u feel htough, and it's rough seeing your close friends co through so much pain... Best wishes to him...