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Nov 09, 04
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Infatuation
Well i did it again.
Fell way too hard for a girl i just met, got way too idealistic, and now i'm stressin about how stupid i was. fuck 
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Nov 09, 04
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These things happen.
Not always over, though, yeah? Has she specifically given you the "I'm really not interested in you in that way" schpiel yet? If not, best to get confirmation from the Objet d'Infatuation (or ODI) before you completely give up (I almost did once, and that would have been a mistake). If the reason is "boyfriend in existence", don't necessarily let that deter you... Just don't fuck with crew (your friends), and don't fuck with predators (the people that pay you).
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Nov 09, 04
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InFATuation = falling for a fatty.
That'll teach you for wanting to pork a porker! No seriously though, if you really like her but you're not sure if it's mutual, you have to act fast. What you have to do is find out if she has any pets (if no, then younger siblings will do), then you kidnap them and tell her that if she doesn't put out, she'll never see her precious cat, hamster, sister again. After a few dates, give her back her pets and she'll be so glad to have them back, that she'll forgive you for taking them in the first place. Trust me, I know bitches!
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Nov 09, 04
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hahahaha least ur takin it like a man!!
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Nov 09, 04
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this girl confuses me. i don't know why i got so attracted to her but i did. i just found out she has a new bf now but even a few days ago i hung out with her for a while after class, just got that feeling something was there... then i find out theres another boy who she appears to be getting quite comfortable with.
in the end it really was infatuation. i'm a lil annoyed she didnt tell me but whatever. now i feel like shes been using me like her bitch since i've been pretty damn nice n generous to her. i see her tomorrow in class so we'll see how that goes.
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Nov 09, 04
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I feel kinda crappy about it, but go out to the bar and party with friends and life was once again joyous. The next week, over ICQ, I get this message... EQJ: "So I talked to [mutual friend]." EbboDave: "Yeah..." EQJ: "Basically she told you about Jay, right?" EbboDave: "Yeah..." EQJ: "Good to know." I dunno how to read this, I assume it means "just let you know, I'm spoken for"... So I go to Fiction as it was a Tuesday night... feeling like crap, and Wildcard Mike gives me the understanding of crew..... 1) Do you know this guy? no. 2) You ever plan on meeting this guy? no. 3) You expect any friendship with him? Not really. He is therefore not crew. Therefore, she's all game. It's her fucking choice in the end, isn't it? If she wants to be with her boyfriend, then so be it, at least ya tried... If not, it's really not on to you to worry about his feelings... Just don't fuck with crew. Bro's before 'ho's or something like that. Not worth it. Hooking up with your friend's gf (of course, only if they have a problem with it) is pretty uncool. Same goes for the boss. Don't fuck with the boss' wife.
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Nov 10, 04
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You could just turn into a complete robot- then you won't stress about how 'stupid' you were, you'll just dwell on the 'coulda' 'shoulda' & 'woulda's for awhile.
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Nov 10, 04
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i'm liking the advice here... its making me think alot more positively on this matter =)
i dont wanna give up thats for sure. she didnt show up for class today and i'm kinda glad. i tried to calm myself but i couldn't help but feel this mix of humiliation, anger and frustration. over the weekend i couldn't stop thinking about her and when i found out shes starting up with some dude it kinda crushed me. i know its totally useless to get shit like this stressin me out but i'm strugglin to ignore these feelings. a part of me has been telling me shes just the girl i need and another part is telling me i'm challenging myself too much.... there were times over the last month she seemed to be avoiding me. and other times it seems like she wants my attention. when i heard about the new boy it made so much more sense. but she never told me. so yeah it goes pretty much parrallel with what ebbomega is saying. well it is up to her. if she tells me straight up shes not interested so be it.
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Remember, after this whole incident it was, in fact, nearly a month (and that's of pretty consistent hangout time between the two of us) before we actually started dating....
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Nov 14, 04
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Well atleast you tried. Now go find a rebound crush and get some play! Remember those that get the most action get denied the most too. It's a lottery game, just be you and whip it out once in a while for good measure.
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