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when you accidently meet the "other girl"
from the beginning:
I was having sushi when the cell phone rang...i reached for it to answer his phone, i say, "hello" and it was a girls voice. She was asking if the two of them could hook up that night to hang out as she was going to be in town.... [just to clearify, in this situation, when i mean the other girl, i mean a female friend he has had for 6 years and i never got to meet her but i met her a 100 times in my head and i already knew i hated her, no matter how innocent their relationship was, her name, is phaidra.] Anyways, i go to Panchos, as much as he would like me to stay home, and he could not attend with me as he worked at 8:00am the next morning. i go to panchos, he gave me a ride there. Im chillin with Subrina and Kim and they are so drunk they start to make out, and i am sitting accross from this girl with BRIGHT PINK HAIR and we are both watching in pure envy of their satisfaction, so we decide we can also do the same. she stands between my legs and we cuddle, fondle and little and make out as well. after a few situations of this escipade, we introduce ourselves, before we got REALLY SURREY. she holds out her hand and says, "Hi! im Phaidra." i look at her dead in the face, look around to see if this was a sick joke/set up and i ask her, "is John bowman here?" she throws her head back laughing, "i wish!" then as the realization struck her like cast iron frying pan to her face, "omg, are you Crystal?" i have never felt so utterly confused in my life. we met on the terms of fully hooking up, only to find that we were the missing pieces of eachothers lives. i took her home with me. we cuddled, talked, i showed her pictures, and stories, everything i had collected over the past 3 years that i was with her and my, john. it was so wierd. we finally fell asleep around 6am, and i awoke around 10am made us some tofu quasidillas and we proceeded to get ready to head over to the Brick where our man in the middle works. it was definantly a spectical of sorts. i dont think he could have looked anymore shell shocked, as though two of his worlds had just randomly and uncannily collided. it was priceless. we had plotted all the different role plays we could have junctured up to make it even more hillarious on an evil aspect as far as toying with his emotions, but we kept it quite tame. we held hand, walked around the store looking at furniture until he noticed us, and then he just couldnt say anything. it was golden. phaidra and i are now really good friends, we bonded or something, but i just had to share this little piece of odd occurence with you, as i myself found it to be quite entertaining... could be a profitable skit |
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thats crazy.
the other girl thing has always been an insecurity for me in most every relationship i've been in, which turns into a hatered for girls i never meet\never know and its completely stupid. i realize now, how stupid it is, but only in the relationship i am in currently, and it took me awhile to get over this insecurity. the whole thing is stupid considering one of my great friends is male, and i'm the other friend\girl there, you'd think i'd be able to accept these things... ahhh jealousy. kudos for meeting a new good friend. |