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Nov 16, 04
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Help...
okay.. wow.. i dont even know where to start.. :S.. k.. on friday i was at my girl friends house.. pre drinking.. i had about 3 drinks.. so thats at least 3 shots.. we decided to go down to crush night club.. so on the way there i mixed us a drink wich had like.. maybe 7 shots.,.. i shared it with 2 other girls..we went and i had one drink there.. a cooler ..it was gay so we decided to leave.. cuz everyone was old.. at this time im buzzing.. we decided to walk down to Capris.. we make friends with this bowncer.. his name is JEFF.. he gets us in no cover.. no coat check.. once we get inside he buys us a drink.. we were all just dancing.... jeff gets us another drink.. another cooler.. we r all dancing.. i dance with jeff for like a second.. he then grabs my hand and we start walking away from everyone.. we end up in a hall way.. a dark hallway.. im trying so hard to remember more.. i dont really remember him kissing me.. or like him taking off my clothes at all,.. next thing i know.. hes fucking me and im completely naked.. i think in my head.. what the fuck is going on!!! ,, but i still dont say anything.. he finishes.. not in me tho.. i dont think.. we get up.. he gives me my clothes and we walk back to where ppl are.. i just run to my friend.. and not even say anything to him..
and now.. i dont know what to think... was i just really hammered?.. what happened.. like if u knew my values.. like.. i havent had sex for like 5 yrs now.. i just choose to not have sex..as lame as it sounds.. like ive had long term relationships and havent had sex with them.. ive been hammered with hotties.. and have never like even thought bout fucking them.. i know that i sound like a fucking retard the fact that i dont have sex.. but i just choose not to..what should i think..like ive been hammed on a bazzillion occasions.. but i dont understand how i cant remember him taking off my clothes or anything.. WTF should i think?!?!?!.. seriously,,, 
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I think you should stop drinking if this is your first post.
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im having a hard time knowing whether ur a man or a woman...at ur girlfriends house? fukd by a dude? hmmm... i HOPE ur referring to ur "girl friends" house as ur friend who is a girl.. i'd have to agree with hammered on this one.. ur FIRST post?!
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Nov 16, 04
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I should think you need to monitor your drinking habits and keep out an eye for such sexual preditors. If "Jeff" walked you in, bought you all this booze, you should wonder maybe something is wrong? You had never met him.
Also, did this happen at the Club? Was he a bouncer? If so, you should definatly consult someone of authority at Capris. Such behaviour is unacceptable. You should have delt with that after it happened. If you need to talk your free to msn me, snyx@fnk.ca Something is definatly wrong here.
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Nov 16, 04
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Myles sorry about the random response to his post ... ^
I did not read it clear enough and therefore did not type an acceptable answer. The situation is afterall more serious than when I originally scanned the message in the first place :(
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Nov 16, 04
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STFU and give her the benifit of the doubt even if it is a troll she may be embarassed...
HOLY FUCK YOU INSENSITIVE PRICKS people react diffrent when it comes to something like this... just because you would do somethign diffrent under the same circumstances doesn't mean you can scrutinize her. Help her... don't criticize her.
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^ like dave said, gamma hydroxybutyrate.
honestly, i would never trust someone with drinks like that. you have to be careful. if someone wants to buy you a drink, they can do it at the bar, where they'll make the drink in front of you. never just take a drink. (and i'm just assuming that's what happened here, from the way you described it) and what's up with your friends? they don't care when you wander off with some guy that none of you really know at all? :\
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Nov 16, 04
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1. if you're not on birth control go see your doc...if you cant remember what happened who's to say he didnt cum in you. you dont wanna be pregnant with this guys kids
2. go get a std test done. once again you dont know the dude...and chances are there was no condom but the sounds of it. 3. did u say yes??! did u want that to happen? if not contact the police right away...thats rape....and dont be scared and try to convince yourself its not. 4. ask your friends to tell you how you were acting that night...if it was different from previous times of being drunk...he may have slipped something in your drink
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sounds to me like date rape.
i would get a blood test done asap, then contact the club and find out who that guy is. odds are if he did that to you, it may be a habit for him. im sorry for your shitty experience, but you have to be careful when out. there are predators everywhere. and ya,it sounds like your friends are chumps.
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Nov 16, 04
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blood test asap
the chems r only detectable in ur blood for a acouple of days afterwards. report this 2 the police if it is sumthin more sinister than booze as i'm sure u won't be the 1st & last gurl bein taken advantage of by the guy.
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Nov 16, 04
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if you kno his name
go talk to the club asap even if u just kno wat he looks like me and a friend got are drinks "spiked" at a club by a guy there.... luckily are experience wasnt that bad, we honestly dunt recall anything... i got a drug test then reported it to sumone who worked at the club they kno who he is now but since theres no 100% proof that it was him or his friend, but he keeps an eye on the guy if he sees him there.... he came back once when we were there and they asked us if we wanted him out or not
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go talk to the club this sounds like date rape to me.... because obviously u weren't shittered drunk it sounds like..... so u should remember even pieces of everything.........
and all of a sudden waking up in the middle of sex..... for sure sounds like date rape and him brings u drinks, dont know the guy, keep bringing the drinks more than 1 time, and mysteriously u have sex with him....... that is bad news
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I call bullshit because a bouncer which is working that gets you in is buying you drinks? Dancing with you?
I find that hard to believe and I know a lot of bouncers/door staff.
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Embarrassing as it maybe, (as mojo already mentioned) "odds are if he did that to you, it may be a habit for him". It would be in her best interests to attempt stopping this from happening to any other girls.
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Deff best to contact the Authorities!!! Things like this aren't matters to dilly-dally about, get tested ASAP and get some action going to make sure it doesn't happen to others!
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