I'm going to miss this

CodaDrummer · #1 (**permalink**) Dec 24, 04

Sitting around with all of my immediate family, I realized how much I am truly going to miss this. The divorce has really tainted this Holiday Season and I know that the two families will drift apart after it is all said and done.

If this is for the best, I hope all this damn sorrow is worth it.

stephen_c · #2 (**permalink**) Dec 25, 04

a lot of things in life u cannot control.
parents divorce is one of them.
make the best of this holiday season for yourself and your family.
i wish you a peaceful and merry christmas.

Cdn_Brdr · #3 (**permalink**) Dec 25, 04

I'm 27 now and my parents split like 2 yrs ago... this is the 2nd split christmas. It's an odd feeling but it's something you'll have to get used to though. The real tough thing is making time to see both parents and trying not to let either one of them feel left out.

I know that my fiancee's family is split and they use to make it a real argument about who she spent xmas with. She hated the holidays for that one reason. I finally stepped in and made her realize that they split and it's their problem. You shouldn't have to stress about the holidays and such because they did it to themselves.

Do your best to see them when you can is all I can say and as stupid as it sounds.... don't forget that just becasue they don't love each other anymore doesn't mean they don't love you!