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here i am
so my ex tells me she loves me one day and dosent care the next. i call her while im onvacation and sometimes she misses me and others she dosent. idk ihave strong feelings for her still and its killing me she can let 2 years go by so fast. Maybe i just need to forget about everything as best i can but its so hard. oh well ill live anyone else been in a situation where its love hate, it drives you mad.
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awww sweety you and megan broke up?! thats brute!!!!
Im sorry:( In a situation like this its just best to walk away, its going to be fucking hard as hell to do it but it needs to be done. The healing process cannot start until you cut all ties. The more you talk to her etc,the more you are rubbing salt in wounds. with time all wounds heal JUST DONT RUB SALT IN THEM! good luck!:) |
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The only thing you can do is move on....seriously. She is obviously not ready to be in a relationship and you will only get hurt. The sooner you break out of the cycle the better, trust me or it will go on for years and that is a horrible situation to be in.
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you may be right myra...maybe not hate...but i deff want to know how it is that he can write things to others but not come to me and talk to me about it all.
it hurts to talk someone after breaking up with them and living with them for almost 2 years. we went through SO fucking much together...and yes, hell yes i love him. hes my world. but we both agree that the way things go between us is not cool. its a passionate love-hate relationship. i love you chris...ill never stop. yes i thought we would be together for the rest of our lives. you have to understand how hard this is on both of us. it hurts when you call me up and tell me your cant see me anymore...and then you fuck with me more by calling me the next day...i dont know what to think anymore...espcially when things go like the morning to you left for NY. next time you have a problem...please call me...dont do this. |
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best of luck man
ive been in a situation similar. i know everyone will tell you this, but all you can do is give it time. eventually things will begin to get better. dont get bitter either man. that doesnt benefit either of you. think of it this way. its what, a few months out of your whole fucking life you will feel like ass? thats nothing. chin up |