Friendship

Mr Ektion · #1 (**permalink**) Jan 20, 05

i think friendship is when you miss someone in their absence. it could seem like there's nothing to salvage because the good times were in the past; but sometimes you just can't help but miss old friends. so many of you say 'find new friends' but how do you just choose new friends from anybody else when you're so used to hanging out with people who are one of a kind.

sincerity IS friendship - and losing that sucks

blahhhhh

miss.myra · #2 (**permalink**) Jan 20, 05

If you lose it, how is it true? How is it sincere?

ppcock · #3 (**permalink**) Jan 20, 05

who needs friendship when you a have a fantastic singing career?

krisamata · #4 (**permalink**) Jan 20, 05

i know how you feel, i miss someone right now, but i dont think theres much to salvage except for maybe an understanding that we can be in the same room as each other, and not make others feel uncomfortable. i wish it could be different, but for right now i dont think it can be.

im not gonna find a "new friend" ... that sounds like im going to replace the one i just lost.

but i have to agree with myra... if u lose it it must not have been that sincere..
thats the question i had to face...and i realized i guess it wasnt sincere...it didnt mean the same to my friend as it did to me.

Bitchin · #5 (**permalink**) Jan 20, 05

I know what you mean.

I miss certain friends right now.. havent seen them in ages... try and see them... but no cigar.

Kinda hurts to realise some of your friends dont feel the same way.

Made some new friends.. but jsut isnt that same

atleast I saw one of my closest friends last night.. Brought a smile to my face.

[It's odd.. Iwas thinkin the exact thing too when I was on my way home on teh bus today]

Lady Dame · #6 (**permalink**) Jan 20, 05

The most discouraging part of it all, is all the effort you feel that you have wasted. The time it takes to make someone a friend, is more then just, what's your favorite colour and food.
I know what you mean too.

and sometimes you look back and think, and it makes your heart hurt. But dont look at it as loosing a friend, look at what you have gained from having them as a friend.

krisamata · #7 (**permalink**) Jan 20, 05

^^^ ya that was my problem last week...just thinking of everything that i had put into the friendship...

and it hurt even more that i wasnt appreciated for it

:(

grr

Lady Dame · #8 (**permalink**) Jan 20, 05

black and white retro love story movies, 2 boxes of Kleenx and a tub of cookie dough ice cream...

even though times like these call for rocky road.