and they call you your best friends.....

[*PooKie*]

dont you love it when you finally find out who your real friends are and who your fake friends are....
i thought i got over that finally finding my true friends....

well..... guess i was wrong about that one....

i was always told your real friends will stay with you forever, and the rest, who cares.... i'll stick to that....

[{dC!}]

Finding who is truely your friend and who isn't is seemingly a never-ending task throughout life. Friend's who you thought were faithful to you end up back stabbing you over nonsence, while people who you thought you would never end up getting along with in the first place become really close to you. It's really wierd how it works some of the time.

[*PooKie*]

yah shit happens in life.. nothing you can really do about it..

[{dC!}]

Correct. Just like we can't control the weather or get mad at death's in the world based on a natural disaster. It's hard to control your friend's and whether or not they will stay with you ...

[*PooKie*]

yah im not gunna try to control them..... i guess there's a bigger story behind it... its hard, but i'm gunna talk to them tomorrow, if nothing comes of it, then odviously its not worth crying over.... everything happens for a reason right?

[{dC!}]

Once again, correct. The reason may or may not be clear. Although it is still there in one way or another. Trying to control other people is not worth your time in general. Just go with the flow and talk to your 'friend' and see why things are happening this way!? There has to be a reason.

[*PooKie*]

ohhh i know the reason... and its not just one friend.... its ALL my friends... except few who think the others are nuts

they just all want me to move to Alberta... bcuz i was thinking about it,bcuz of my boyfriend(whole other story) and i didnt want to bcuz of my friends and i didnt want to leave, you know, "my crew", now... supposibly every one of them just cant wait for me to hop on a bus and make little ass over there.... there's my story... in short form

[LeeBrat]

Originally Posted by {dC!}

Finding who is truely your friend and who isn't is seemingly a never-ending task throughout life. Friend's who you thought were faithful to you end up back stabbing you over nonsence, while people who you thought you would never end up getting along with in the first place become really close to you. It's really wierd how it works some of the time.

very very true...good friends are very few and far between...but i hope everything works out alright for you

[{dC!}]

OhH my, ...

Are you going to move to Alberta?

[dabbler]

yeah i've had this happen a few times in my life, where an entire circle of friends turn out to be not good friends at all. it really sucks

[~lazee_grrl~]

Originally Posted by *PooKie*

they just all want me to move to Alberta... bcuz i was thinking about it,bcuz of my boyfriend(whole other story) and i didnt want to bcuz of my friends and i didnt want to leave, you know, "my crew", now... supposibly every one of them just cant wait for me to hop on a bus and make little ass over there.... there's my story... in short form

i don't know the full situation but is it possible that your friends want you to move to Alberta because they think you might be happier over there?

i would hate for any of my friends to move anywhere..but if i knew that it would be good for them..then i would encourage it~

[Bitchin]

As long as I got Nicole, Cerah, Mikey, Max, and Erin...

I dont care about the rest....... these are like the only ppl that have proven thier friendship to me.

I'm sick of wondering what the fuck is goin through the rest heads... I want no more mind games n shit.

the fewer the friends/aquaintances.. the less trouble n broken hearts.

[Erin]

True Friends:










Without them I couldn't breathe.

[Bitchin]

I love how you put up the worst pictures of us.
But I still love you!

[*PooKie*]

yah.. i dunno if i'm going or not, havent talked to anyone yet, my best friend says i'm crazy and they have no problem... and i dont think they want me to go cuz i'll be happier, that not like them... they dont even like my boyfriend that much... it just feels so different around all of them now....... but i'm not gunna dwell on it.. just think for a while, then i'll make my choice final if i'm going there or not...... we'll see how things work out

[Varney Rae]

Originally Posted by *PooKie*

yah.. i dunno if i'm going or not, havent talked to anyone yet, my best friend says i'm crazy and they have no problem... and i dont think they want me to go cuz i'll be happier, that not like them... they dont even like my boyfriend that much... it just feels so different around all of them now....... but i'm not gunna dwell on it.. just think for a while, then i'll make my choice final if i'm going there or not...... we'll see how things work out

Your saying your friends cant wait for you to move away. That sounds like it means your growing apart? Its good your not dwelling and falling apart, but you might want to be blunt with confronting them. If they are supposed to be your "best friends" than why would they WANT you to move away, especially if the reason they want you to move isnt related to your happiness. They dont sound like very comitted people.

[Erin]

Originally Posted by Bitchin

I love how you put up the worst pictures of us.
But I still love you!

Yeah, I knew what I was doing...

[mikey]

^^^

even @ 9am, i'm pimpin !

Mmmmm bacon...

[Erin]

^You be p-i-m-p!!

[cinist]

i'm bored so ill do the picture thing aha... the fab 5 !

[*K*i*t*t*e*n*]

In the last 6 months ive lost so many of my friends that I thought I was really close with and they dont seem to care in the least. its soo shitty but thats life... Finding out what your friends are really like is one of the worst things ever though, I hate it!

[IntakE]

dont you love it when you finally find out who your real friends are and who your fake friends are....
i thought i got over that finally finding my true friends....

well..... guess i was wrong about that one....

i was always told your real friends will stay with you forever, and the rest, who cares.... i'll stick to that....

I know exactly how that feels.
and it really sucks thinking you have a really good friend,
then somehting happenes and then you find out the hard way that they shouldn't even be called a friend at all
I think everyone goes threw that few times in there life

[mystique]

Im thinking about doing a little "spring cleaning"
I def. know I have a few fake friends who have worked their way in to my life that need to be cut loose.

[TrixX]

and what happens when all your friends are the 'spring cleaning' type???