having your life flipped upside down

[charly]

despite the good things that can possibly come out of this, it's really not what i wanted right now.

i had things figured out. i had goals. a loose plan. now everythings changed, and i don't know where i stand.

stress = :/

[Bitchin]

Baby Steps Cheryl :)

I know you'll find a place to start...And pull thorugh.
You always do <3

[Prissypants]

The best precursor to creation is destruction.

[Hot Karl]

Originally Posted by charly

despite the good things that can possibly come out of this, it's really not what i wanted right now.

i had things figured out. i had goals. a loose plan. now everythings changed, and i don't know where i stand.

stress = :/

plans are overrated

[charly]

Originally Posted by Hot Karl

plans are overrated

why?

i had goals. things i wanted to do. thus, they constructed a loose plan. goals aren't overrated.

[mugsy]

my long term goals change all the time, and my short term ones change frequently as well.
embrace the change, even if it is awful, its enevitable (or is it?) and you just gotta run with new ideas and new goals. look at is as exciting?

[Hot Karl]

Originally Posted by charly

why?

i had goals. things i wanted to do. thus, they constructed a loose plan. goals aren't overrated.

goals are fine, i say plans are overrated because so many people i know had "plans" and very rarely have they panned out.

sometimes you just gotta go with it.

life's about adapting to the situation you have. plans are just novel ideas that often get screwed up.

*course i don't know what caused your problem

*you're still young don't freak out about it if your life isn't "where i wanna be at 20, 22, 25" etc

[charly]

^ i see where you're coming from.
i don't have these "this is where i'm going to be in 5 years" kind of plans.
i meant goals and such for the next year/few months or so.

i know i just have to just go with it. that's what i've always done. i also know there's good that will come out of this all too. but for now it's a big fucking mess and i'm overly stressed and just ughhh.jk.fjdslkfjs;fe

[veN]

I have been there and it's really hard. I nearly lost it in some sense. But, you'll get thru it. It will just take some time. Once you've got a starting point, it can only go up from there. Good luck!

[diva]

Seems like you're pretty stressed out, Cheryl.

Things always seem worse when you're on the outside looking in. When you get over whatever crisis you're in, things will seem...well, not better, because i can't say that for sure...just not as bad as they seem at this exact moment in time.

I've learned that plans have to be adaptable and things change. And it's important to flexible and have contingency plans, otherwise you'll never make it out of this life alive.

Anyways, I hope things work out and aren't as bad as they seem right now.

[Jeaninah]

ahh time for my overused saying.

The only place to go when you hit the bottom is up!

(even if your stuck in the mud for awhile you still gotta go up sometime)

[StiDzOfReNiA]

shyt can ALWAYS get worse.... i didnt think my luck could get ne worse... then my house burnt down 3 days b4 xmas on dec 22nd... the next day, 1 of my best friends was found murdered in his bathtub shot 2 death...

R.I.P. Kyle Demsey

[TheCooker]

With time everything well be revealed, and you'll be like "WHOA"! That's how life is, questions, struggles and the time that passes by.