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Valentines *a little long*

so we have a family friend who's about 22 years old, socially awkward, not too bad looking, but she has trouble making friends and has never been on a date. she goes to my parent’s church and so we've been acquaintances for a few years. :)

anywho, before i met my gf my mom tried to hook us up but i wasn't having that. she's very friendly, just not my type. to be nice i almost considered taking her to grad, but didn’t.

so valentines is rolling around and the church makes some festivities out of it and we decided to send a Valentines to said girl, along with many others addressed to her (to neutralize mine), as an appreciative gesture, since she works with the kids all the time.

this afternoon I got my own hand delivered Valentines card that was in a wicker basket with all kinds of origami and chocolates and other handicrafts. it was actually quite elaborate, and was way out of proportion to my "have a happy holiday" card. She told me not to open the letter until later. In it she wrote that was glad that we were "special friends" and she always felt this way and recounted all the times we showed up to the same social functions (picnics, potlucks, etc). she also invited me to her house to watch Finding Nemo.

so uhh… what’s the best way to get away from this?


Cliffs: gave out a valentine’s card and now I’m scurred.
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aww...that sucks...just tell her you have a gf, and your spending time with her. and the card was mearly a friendly gesture.
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ya....ur fucked. tell her to her face next time you see her or she might kill herself. or something

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it was meant for wum, but you outposted me :(
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i used to browse loungex and then they got shut down.. and then i found this place :)
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aww...that sucks...just tell her you have a gf, and your spending time with her. and the card was mearly a friendly gesture.
i think she knows i have a gf.. and she doesn't really have any friends her own age.

i dunno. minus the gift-giving, watching a movie with her won't be so bad.
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about 2 years ago regularily, but i went to spooky last year
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about 2 years ago regularily, but i went to spooky last year
what fnkers do you know?
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no one. i talk to dj markpaul on msn sometimes but that's it.
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where are you from?
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interior. Penticton.
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what is this, a first date?
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umm no!

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wellllll, i think it was really nice that you gave her a card. but yeah, just tell her that you already have a girlfriend, but maybe you want to be friends with her? i mean, she might not be your type for girlfriend material (if you were single) but maybe she is good friend material?

she sounds like she's just lonely and needs a friend. just make sure she knows that's all she's going to get.
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wellllll, i think it was really nice that you gave her a card. but yeah, just tell her that you already have a girlfriend, but maybe you want to be friends with her? i mean, she might not be your type for girlfriend material (if you were single) but maybe she is good friend material?

she sounds like she's just lonely and needs a friend. just make sure she knows that's all she's going to get.
ya, i'll see how it goes
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Ohhhhh, now I get it!
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that might work on you but i'm trying to spare feelings here
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