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Old Jan 11, 02
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Falling in and out of love..

I just want to here someone out there tell me that they fell in love with someone along time ago but something happened and it didn't work out and they found another love. I need to believe that's possible, I want to believe that's possible and right now I don't know if it is.
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more like they found someone that was better looking, and better of a person to be around.. got bored of the old one and moved on, it happens.. in fact it happened every weekend at my school
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Old Jan 11, 02
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now now Stabby...!

SomeGuy: yeah. It does happen. I was in love once upon a time, and that sonofabitch broke my heart. I will always have a special place in my heart for him...but...I have moved on and I've found someone else. Someone who shares more similar thoughts on relationships, life, love, etc than the first guy I was in love with.

You will fall in and out of love in your life, but once you love, you will never fully stop loving that person, I can almost guarantee it. They'll always hold the key to that itsy bitsy teeny weeny part of your heart.

Good luck, and keep your head up =0)
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Old Jan 11, 02
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exactly....

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Old Jan 11, 02
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Was madly in love with my ex-girlfriend, then she moved away and we broke up. 6 months later I still love her, but it's not the same at all. Life goes on, people grow apart, and while you don't fall out of love, your love does change.
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Old Jan 11, 02
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falling in and out - is my song

<sigh> i fall in and out of love all the time-but it sucks so much

i like the guy, meh the guy, love the guy, meh..it's always back and forth..<sigh> my relationships consist of breaking up and getting back together. it's like that saying- you never realize what you've got till it's gone- yeah that's me. and yeah i miss my ex boi .. <sigh>.....but i suppose we all move on.....
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Old Jan 14, 02
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Thanks for the help and the encouragement, I fell in love and the girl never did jack all to keep it, it's funny now that I think of it, I treated her like a queen and she never earned any of it, so she lost it and yet I feel like I'm the one that lost the most. Hopefully I'll find a girl out there that I can treat like my queen and she'll treat me just the same and if not, well then I'll live my life single with music, I love music just as much as women(but in a very different way) and I can live my life with that.

thanks all..
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Old Jan 15, 02
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Teen love disturbs me. I'm starting to find it very empty. It's like when someone they "love" leaves they go right to the next person. Meh... "love" is a word. Just seems so empty to say you love someone when you can just move onto the next with little to no difficulty.

I'm not directing this to someone in particular... its just an observation I've made about a FEW people. Don't think I'm saying this about you or generalizing the whole population of teens as feeling "empty love".
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Old Jan 17, 02
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Liam I'm only 18 so I'm still considered a teen and the girl I loved/love well we broke up 8 or 9 months ago now, I don't even know when we broke up cause I never kept track of the date. But yah, you say it is so empty and I kinda agree with you but I don't at the same time, I think most young people who think there in love are just confused because they have such strong emmotions for the person they just assume it's love but in most cases after thing's break apart they realize it wasn't. It all depends on your definition and beliefs in love. I know I did truly love her though for a lot of reasons and I know some young people are actually capable of loving but I think most need to make there mistakes and learn from them.
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Old Jan 17, 02
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Originally posted by SomeGuy
Liam I'm only 18 so I'm still considered a teen and the girl I loved/love well we broke up 8 or 9 months ago now, I don't even know when we broke up cause I never kept track of the date. But yah, you say it is so empty and I kinda agree with you but I don't at the same time, I think most young people who think there in love are just confused because they have such strong emmotions for the person they just assume it's love but in most cases after thing's break apart they realize it wasn't. It all depends on your definition and beliefs in love. I know I did truly love her though for a lot of reasons and I know some young people are actually capable of loving but I think most need to make there mistakes and learn from them.
*nods* Thats agreeble... but like I said... what I said was reguarding a few people I've seen... people that only date for sex. are totally disrespectful, or say "I love you" one day and say "I hate you" the next... not that this was geared to anyone... this post just reminded me of those types of people I've observed and so I felt like it was necessary to reply...

I have experienced "true love" and I know it exists... I just haven't experienced it in a relationship...

Sorry if I in anyway sounded bitter...
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Old Jan 19, 02
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Love comes around once in your entire life... if you fall out of love then you were never in love in the first place... you can think you're in love and you can practice being in love and you can say i love you as much as you fucking want, but true love, as in loving someone from the deepest part of your fucking soul only happens once and it has to happen from both parties or again you are fooling yourself... fuck i wish there was another fucking word... i mean the word "love" has been run to the ground... the word is almost meaningless at this point... i think the term "having a connection with someone" describes a better relationship than "being in love with someone" does. Anyway im off topic a little here... what i'm trying to say is love in the meaning of the word today can exist many times, but the inseperable link between two souls only comes once. Keep your eyes open, and keep your mind open even wider and make sure you understand the difference between attraction and connection. Those are my thoughts anyway.
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im sick of all you teenage fucks saying you fall in and out of love all the time.... im sorry but hearing 14, 15 year olds squeal to their lil groupies of how they lost their virginities to this 19 year old that they have been dating for 3 weeks and are obviously in love is sickening..

wait, this has lil to no referance to the subject.. either or, love is just a word, its not even an emotion.. ppl get too worked up about it.
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Old Jan 20, 02
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Originally posted by stabmyhead
wait, this has lil to no referance to the subject.. either or, love is just a word, its not even an emotion.. ppl get too worked up about it.
next time just leave it at that.

heart 2 heart
not mace 2 heart

although you make a good point, it doesn't have to come out like that. some ppl don't like being called "teenage fucks".
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Old Jan 20, 02
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next time just leave it at that.

heart 2 heart
not mace 2 heart

although you make a good point, it doesn't have to come out like that. some ppl don't like being called "teenage fucks".
why bob? are you still in the category of people who could be refered to as "teenage fucks"... aren't you 18 or somethin now?
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random rant about this whole "love" issue

i think its stupid when people think they are in love with someone they have never met, for an example, an idol, the new pop star of the week or whatnot.. or even that nice girl in your chemisty class that asks to borrow a pen that you are too shy to talk to but you love her because she seems so nice, pure and beautiful.

it is mearly infacuation you fecalpeebrain! how can you feel so much for someone who might not even know your name!! in psychology, they say love/connection comes in three levels:
-physical
-emotional
-mental/spiritual

physical is your basic, "oh tommy looks good in that shirt, i want to do him"
emotional goes a lil beyond that, "i really like tommy because he and i get along and we're happy together"
mental connection goes a lil beyond that and is moreso hard to achieve, in fact i rarely find anyone i can even remotely "connect" to.

whatever.. ill let those bastards think whatever they want to think is love, in my opinion, its only a state of mind, its all in your mind.. love is mearly a word. emotions exist, whereas "love" does not.
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Old Feb 01, 02
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IMO

It's possible...happened to me! Another thing, "nothing is impossible!"
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Old Feb 01, 02
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I fell in love and the girl never did jack all to keep it, it's funny now that I think of it, I treated her like a queen and she never earned any of it, so she lost it and yet I feel like I'm the one that lost the most. Hopefully I'll find a girl out there that I can treat like my queen and she'll treat me just the same and if not, well then I'll live my life single with music
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I think most need to make there mistakes and learn from them.
Why do you feel like you lost the most? You did the breaking up, it was choice.. and really.. why not? You knew you could do better.. you were told that you could do better so really what was to stop you? sure it wasn't all sugar for you but what could you expect?

and you're right.. she never earned any of it.. but like you said.. most need to make their mistakes too learn from them.. i know yo'uve learned some from all that happened.. and i know.. she.. did too.. but you can't always get the first time right.. so it's not too much of a surprise..

and i know you'll find someone out there better.. who'll treat you better.. and it'll mean alot more.. and it'll be better then it ever was.. you will.. and it's not too hard cause you and i know.. there's alot better girls out there then she was..

but you're happy now.. so it's all good..

btw tho.. in case you haven't figured it out.. i know who you are now..
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Old Feb 14, 02
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im sick of all you teenage fucks saying you fall in and out of love all the time.... im sorry but hearing 14, 15 year olds squeal to their lil groupies of how they lost their virginities to this 19 year old that they have been dating for 3 weeks and are obviously in love is sickening..

wait, this has lil to no referance to the subject.. either or, love is just a word, its not even an emotion.. ppl get too worked up about it.
no shit.
fuckin buddy boy is probably just trying to find some little girl that he can hook up with and fuck you know? this Someguys posts are starting to piss me off with their sappines...but then again i'm drunk so maybe it's the alkihol typing right?
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Old Feb 14, 02
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There are lots of guys out there that are in it for the game and what I mean by that is that they actually prey on little girls
some girls just can't see what those guys are doing cause they have this way of talking to them to kinda make them think they are in love with them.. once they get it then they want to move on


well..
SomeGuy: It really depends.... but I can tell you that you can move on. Because there is always someone out there looking for you too. Just got to know where to look
want to hear my story? well...... haha message me and I'll tell you.
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