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a friend's gf...
so right now I'm on msn... A friend of mine comes online who I havent really spoken to in awhile cause he's a work-a-holic.
I msg him. Its not him. it's his new gf. now she's like asking me 8937593665 question about him.. cause she wants to find out 'what she's dealing with' and I'm thinkin.. why dont you just ask him. I told her to do so. but she's like 'i don't know' Aslo.. I find it quite rude that she's doing this while he's asleep on teh couch. I know if I knew someone was goin through my msn, msg my friend with out my premission to find out shit in a distasteful manner I'd be pissed. Also, I don't think she's that smart of a girl.. at first I thought I was dealing with a youngin.. but she's 18... she's just stupid I guess. especially since she threatened me if 'I've ever done anythign with him' that she'd hunt me down. wtf?! but now I'm wondering.. do I call him and say your gfs being an idiot on your msn, or do I jsut leave it be. hrmmm.... Man the thing she says.. makes me wonder how she made it past the age 10. |
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could be harmless.
he was asleep, maybe she got bored. you sent message, she replied. only thing you two have in common is guy so she started talking about him. the threat could easily have been a joke. kind of hard to read someone's tone, especially someone you've never talked to before. |
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....but if the same thing happend to me id be pissed and i would for sure tell my friend about what the bitch was doing...and i know if i was in his situation and a bf went on my msn id be soo choked:( |
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so. pretty much, u never kno... just hit up ur homie and be like yo.. i dunno but ur girl was askin me some shit, jus thought maybe you should know... but make sure to not sway the tone.. as miska was talkin, cuz if it seems like ur tryin ta persuade him to think somethin (which im sure ur not...) it might be weird. *shrugs* |
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depends whether u care more about breaking the female code of honor, or seeing your friend get possibly hurt.
If shes already starting off a relationship with him questioning things like that, and theres already no trust, then wahts the point. I know if i found out everything about a guy right away id be BORED right away. Thats the fun of dating is gradually getting to know things abuot each other and in the end if theres more you like than dislike then it will last... she shouldnt be rushing things. I say, rat her out! |
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if you sound like you're trying to influence (not saying you are, just saying) him it could go so very very wrong. it's a sticky situation. |
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My ex boyfriends gf messages me not too long ago on his msn and was saying "WOW isnt he a stud in bed" (never slept with him) And going on about all this shit.. mostly trying to make me jealous. Then a week later she adds me on msn, so I message her and she replies with "WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU CARE!?" Crazy 18 year old bitches.
I would let him know she was on his msn and asking questions..but maybe he really likes the chick so throw in a "she seems really nice!" |
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What that "bitch" is doing comes from self insecurity, i would be kinda curious to find out some stuff about a girl that i am dating, yet keeping myself inline and the ways that i would obtain my info would be very different, what she is doing is kinda rude and she is invading his privacy, yet she is probably just scared and paranoid. She should lay off or either talk to him more because it doesnt sound like they have a secure relationship, or not yet at least.
Last edited by xxViceRoyxx; Apr 01, 05 at 03:54 PM. |
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