Hurting someone you really care about...

Prissypants · #1 (**permalink**) Jul 10, 05

But knowing that it had to be done...really sucks... :(

frankie_V · #2 (**permalink**) Jul 10, 05

break up?

Prissypants · #3 (**permalink**) Jul 10, 05

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Originally Posted by franklin

break up?

After almost 6 years...

G3N3R4L · #4 (**permalink**) Jul 10, 05

i feel for you..

mine was last month after 5 1/2 years...

but if it had to be done it had to be done...and thats what makes it easier to deal with.

Draven GD · #5 (**permalink**) Jul 10, 05

yah if you know things have to end, then breaking up is really hurting them less than leading them on....

watch out for the rebound, you dont want to do somethingyou will regret... :P

justa~gurl · #6 (**permalink**) Jul 11, 05

i think its the most difficult thing in the world to do..

i would much rather be the one getting hurt then the one hurting

it's tough but it's all for the best right?

good luck .. they will thank you eventually

frankie_V · #7 (**permalink**) Jul 11, 05

just gotta be strong... prolly going through a lot of pain and thoughts...its just a phase...

BT- Love Comes Again! ..............

jomama · #8 (**permalink**) Jul 12, 05

aww poor tysen!

i sitll love ya!

TrixX · #9 (**permalink**) Jul 12, 05

i would feel so confused and unsure!! i can't imagine how you feel! you learn from everything though! i'm hoping you have some good support there for you!!!

IntakE · #10 (**permalink**) Jul 13, 05

I know the feeling and it sucks...but sometimes hurting someone else is a way to prevent hurting them worst or letting yourself be hurt.

~god~ · #11 (**permalink**) Jul 13, 05

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Originally Posted by Prissypants

After almost 6 years...

dude i'm sorry to hear that.
that has got to be painful. break ups in general are difficult. But after 6 years!? fuuck. I can't even comprehend that man.
I really can't.

t-skywalker · #12 (**permalink**) Jul 13, 05

sounds like you are doing what is best for you and making the choices you need.. i went out with someone for almost four years and broke up with them, so i know what its like having them hurt and feeling kind of bad....remeber the only one who makes your life happy is you.....opening and new chapter in your life can always be a good thing:)

Every story has an ending ..But in life..Every ending has a new beggining****

Prissypants · #13 (**permalink**) Jul 14, 05

I did what was best for both of us...It was dead a long time ago...we just dragged it out for awhile...We will both be happier this way and we are still great friends...

I do hate seeing people cry though... :(

LLaaUUrrYYn · #14 (**permalink**) Jul 14, 05

Thats reall shitty.. It sucks that you had to go through that.

I have a friend that is in need of a total BITCH OUT. She is seriously doing some fucked up things.. but I dont want to hurt her..its a tough one.

baby-phat · #15 (**permalink**) Jul 14, 05

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Originally Posted by IntakE

I know the feeling and it sucks...but sometimes hurting someone else is a way to prevent hurting them worst or letting yourself be hurt.

This is so true..
Though it does suck to be the one who makes the move to end the 'dead' relationship. But in the long run you'll see that thiongs will only get better. And it's great that you're still friends. :)

miss.myra · #16 (**permalink**) Jul 14, 05

6 years, that has to be tough.

I had to do that after three years and it was hard to look someone in the eyes who also was pretty much your best friend and say that it's not working out.

Jen-E-03 · #17 (**permalink**) Jul 14, 05

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Originally Posted by Prissypants

But knowing that it had to be done...really sucks... :(

awww *hugz* I know that feeling...very well. If i knew how you were feeling I woulda stayed home and bought icecream(with the visa cuz im flat broke).

SEAN! · #18 (**permalink**) Jul 15, 05

it fuckin sucks

robyn · #19 (**permalink**) Jul 15, 05

If they're not a total psycho they'll eventually understand.