"Time Peroid" for Calling Someone

[cutienikki]

This is in regards to my other thread i made "when you meet someone..." How long is the "waiting peroid" before you call someone after you have spent the night with them? i mean u dont want to smother them but then again u dont want them to think that they were just a peice of ass....so what is the time limit u give to call someone...

[mojo]

just call em when you want. fuck all that waiting nonsense.

[Cdn_Brdr]

Exactly.... there's no formula. Call when you want to call.

How much you willing to be that they're on the other side thinking the same thing?

[zarlon]

^ exactly hehe i bet when you call they will be relieved that you want to talk to them too. :)

[Grapes]

Like a good friend of mine once said:

"Just remember that you both want the same thing".

[cubed]

~ So how long do I wait to call?
~ A day.
~ Tomorrow.
~ Tomorrow, then a day.
~ Yeah.
~ So two days?
~ Yeah, I guess you could call it that, two days.
~ Definitely, two days is like industry standard.
~ You know I used to wait two days to call anybody, but now it's like everyone in town waits two days. So I think three days is kind of money. What do you think?
~ Yeah, but two's enough not to look anxious.
~ But I think three days is kind of money. You know because you...
~ Yeah, but you know what, maybe I'll wait 3 weeks. How's that? And tell her I was cleaning out my wallet and I just happened to run into her number.
~ Then ask her where you met her.
~ Yeah, I'll ask her where I met her. I don't remember. What does she look like? And then I'll asked if we fucked. Is that... would that be... T, would that be the money?

[DefJef]

Originally Posted by cubed

~ So how long do I wait to call?
~ A day.
~ Tomorrow.
~ Tomorrow, then a day.
~ Yeah.
~ So two days?
~ Yeah, I guess you could call it that, two days.
~ Definitely, two days is like industry standard.
~ You know I used to wait two days to call anybody, but now it's like everyone in town waits two days. So I think three days is kind of money. What do you think?
~ Yeah, but two's enough not to look anxious.
~ But I think three days is kind of money. You know because you...
~ Yeah, but you know what, maybe I'll wait 3 weeks. How's that? And tell her I was cleaning out my wallet and I just happened to run into her number.
~ Then ask her where you met her.
~ Yeah, I'll ask her where I met her. I don't remember. What does she look like? And then I'll asked if we fucked. Is that... would that be... T, would that be the money?

classic movie

[ebbomega]

Originally Posted by cubed

~ Yeah, I'll ask her where I met her. I don't remember. What does she look like? And then I'll asked if we fucked. Is that... would that be... T, would that be the money?

~ You know what Mikey? Ha ha, but if you don't wait long enough you could scare off a pretty honey who's looking to party.
~ So how long are you guys gonna wait to call your babies?
~ Six days.

Silliness,
Dave "Bastard beat me to it" Leckie

[cubed]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

~ You know what Mikey? Ha ha, but if you don't wait long enough you could scare off a pretty honey who's looking to party.
~ So how long are you guys gonna wait to call your babies?
~ Six days.

Silliness,
Dave "Bastard beat me to it" Leckie

we'll watch swingers tonight when you get home from work.

[galaxie]

Call whenever you want to call.

That being said I'm a loser and I'd say 2 days.
If you call the next day you seem desperate, if you wait 3+ you seem like you're not interested.

OR, my favourite...send a text message day one saying something along the lines of "you should call me tomorrow"...shows that you're interested but you want to be sure that they are, too.

[robyn]

Originally Posted by Grapes

Like a good friend of mine once said:

"Just remember that you both want the same thing".

Nooooo, what if they just want a one time hump?

ps - Am I the only one who likes it when they call right away?

[baby-phat]

Originally Posted by robyn

ps - Am I the only one who likes it when they call right away?

I like it alot when they call right away too. :)

[galaxie]

I like it when they call right away.
It's flattering 'cause they obviously can't stop thinking about you.

On the other hand, I wouldn't want to look desperate so I probably would never call the next day unless he said "gimme a call tomorrow".

[robyn]

Yeah, I'm kind of a hypocrite cause I've never actually called.

[Grapes]

Nooooo, what if they just want a one time hump?

God, stop being so bloody contrary.

[Gusto]

she's right though. the idea that both people want the same thing, as a general rule, is bullshit, haha.

[galaxie]

^ True story!

[Bevvy Swift]

dont call. hell just end up breaking your heart anyways.

[robyn]

Originally Posted by Grapes

God, stop being so bloody contrary.

There's this cute little expression 'fucked and chucked' which was invented for a reason.

[miss.myra]

Originally Posted by robyn

Yeah, I'm kind of a hypocrite cause I've never actually called.

God. Who calls anymore? I know I don't.


Oh, and if he calls the next day I'm not flattered, I'm thinking 'OH MY GOD GIVE ME SOME SPACE'.

[Bevvy Swift]

Originally Posted by miss.myra

God. Who calls anymore? I know I don't.


Oh, and if he calls the next day I'm not flattered, I'm thinking 'OH MY GOD GIVE ME SOME SPACE'.

hahahaahaha

we love you myra

[ebbomega]

Originally Posted by robyn

ps - Am I the only one who likes it when they call right away?

That's just the point of the wait-a-couple-days. It builds up the tension. Ever see Tao Of Steve? THREE STEPS TO PICK UP A WOMAN:
1) Be desireless, because nobody likes a horny asshole.
2) Be excellent, because you've gotta catch her attention SOMEHOW
3) Be gone, leave them wanting more.

This falls under number 3. Don't call back the next day. You let it draw out, if the person liked you, this gives their minds a little bit of time to build up the fantasy, thus ensuring more likelihood of a second encounter (and also bringing the likelihood of scoring closer to 1).

Evil little design, ain't it?

[ebbomega]

Originally Posted by cubed

we'll watch swingers tonight when you get home from work.

Awww, sweetie, you totally know the way to my heart.

[cubed]

I get to spoon tonight ok?

[Goat]

Gotta play the "Call me, sometime" card. Thus negating all responsibility and putting the ball in their court.