Suicide

deathbitch · #1 (**permalink**) Feb 24, 02

And Have U Ever Thought About It? :043:

Have you ever felt that you didn't wanna live anymore and wanted to just end all the pain, etc. :034:

How did you feel? How did you over come all of this?

I just thought I'd share my thoughts with everyone...cos I felt suicidal at the age of 13 (one year ago) and it was cos of everything basically. I used to be bullied at school, people used to call me ugly and used to say other nasty stuff to me. My parents and I didn't get along either. My mum used to shout at me for little things and used to make me cry every night. My dad used to be at work most of the time and he didn't make things any better. I was really frustrated because even my friends weren't being very nice to me. :219:

I guess I kinda wallowed into self pity those days, and even went into self harm and stuff...

I dunno how I overcame my problems really...But I'm glad I did.

I just thought I'd let you guys in on this...I dunno why. It's not nice to be told you're ugly, or to be told to fuck off by your own friends. :( But suicide and self harm is not the answer...and I'm glad I learnt that.

lol...sorry for such a depressing message..I'll be more cheerful next time :184:

Let me know if any of you want to talk or let your feelings out...Cos I know how you feel :039:

Anywayz bubyez.

Suicide Is A Permanent Solution To A Temporary Problem

~lazee_grrl~ · #2 (**permalink**) Feb 24, 02

i think everyone's had the thought of suicide at one time or another..i went thru that phase a couple of times..but as the coward i am..u can see i'm not dead..pretty alive actually..failure everytime...heh..ah well..guess its for the better...glad u got outta ur suicidal state..~

Peter Pan · #3 (**permalink**) Feb 24, 02

the most dangerous thing in the world is a man who believes he has nothing to live for, and nothing left 2 loose.

I say if ur thinkin suicide, then ull have less inhibition, so do something extreme, like base jumping.. and who knows you might find meaning in that

SoniK · #4 (**permalink**) Feb 25, 02

never thought of it

and for people that do think about it.

I say.. go ahead, stop crying for attention.

Krusha · #5 (**permalink**) Feb 28, 02

but if you're being serious then I got some simple advice.

Don't *make things worse then they already are

Don't *feel sorry for yourself (there are a million people out there that have it worse then you... just the fact that your typing on a computer says that)

Don't *Hold it in ... if you feel bad find a way to express yourself (ART & MUSIC)

and if it helps I felt pretty shitty at 14 too

I think it is very common for a teenager to feel depressed ... it's the whole end all be all! Be popular ! Do drugs ! Fuck as many chicks as you can ! If you're fat or poor or get zits then FUCK OFF!

Yeah man being a teenager can suck ... just don't let it get to your head, cause eventually you'll grow out of it, and then you will see there is a lot that life has to offer. =)

Cheers

redrum · #6 (**permalink**) Feb 28, 02

Quote:

sonik:
and for people that do think about it.

I say.. go ahead, stop crying for attention.

ya man, positivity will survive! ppl who commit suicide are stoopid man, just taing the easy way out instead of facing their problems. Plus they give their loved ones grief...think about it, its not worth it ..

Joanne · #7 (**permalink**) Mar 01, 02

I personally think suicide is kinda selfish.

just because a person doesn't realize their instrumental value, they forget to realize their extrinsic value... suicidal people don't realize that there ARE people out there who care for them and love them a great deal.

I always say.. when things seem like they're the worse they could ever get, it only means that it can only get better...

--Joanne :P

Breezy · #8 (**permalink**) Mar 01, 02

I think many teens have thought about suicide... we all go through hard times and at the time it may seem like they'll never end... when really we all live thought those times and eventually (be it a week or even a few years) we will get through it!.. But it's really such an awful thing... I had a very close friend who committed suicide and it hurt a great deal for all of us when she left, and it's like she could only see the negative in her life... sure she didn't have a perfect like (who does?!).. but there were those who loved her alot (me being one) and her parents really cared about her as well.... You can never change the past, and I think that many people who have killed themselves, if they had jus thought for a moment what they were about to do they would never have made that choice... There were people there who wanted to help, who she could have talked to.. it's not always a cry for attention.. people are depressed for a reason and there's help out there~... It might be helpful to find an outlet where you truely feel happy, it'll help make life feel worth living~ surround yourself with close friends, take up a sport you like, draw, write poetry.. it helps get ur mind off the negative things in life... if u live with a positive attitude it'll help u thru life's obsticles (like joanne says:)

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Originally posted by bananasinpjs
I always say.. when things seem like they're the worse they could ever get, it only means that it can only get better...

--Joanne :P

JEN!!!... ur not a coward~ u didn't go thru with it so u didn't fail.. if u had THEN u'd b the failure!! :p

I could never kill myself tho... I've had times where I've thought about it... but I love life, both the good and the bad...I would never want to cut it short no matter how tough it gets!

~breezy

yoko* · #9 (**permalink**) Mar 02, 02

good points there...

no matter what emotion it is whether happiness or sorrow, when you got a lot of it many of us tend to get caught up in tunnel vision where one can only look ahead not around them...

it is in many ways selfish, but I think that for some people, their intentions were not meant to be that way. some may think... "oh but i don't want to be a burden to any one any more.. my existance is pointless i only serve to bring people down...better off for them that I disappear.."

and about "having some one to talk to", again, the tunnel vision thing... it becomes hard to see things in a different way. I guess pessimism eats away at everything that could be possibly good.. and the minor bad things just naturally come to cancel out all the good...

so... i mean.. in a way I can't "blame" or... it's hard to come to "hate" or "accuse" those who have committed suicide, they don't MEAN to be depressed... Imagine TRULY believing., like HONESTLY believing that there was NOTHING to live for, I think that I'd be inclined to do something drastic too..

y' know? It's hard for some people not to let pessimism erode the best of things, but people are made differently and some are naturally more able to maintain mental stability. Every one has their way of coping with different situations, so.. just because one has been blessed with being able to welcome life with open arms, it's in away unfortunate to take that quality for granted..

yetty333 · #10 (**permalink**) Mar 05, 02

yaaaaa..........Alot of ..shitty thing.happened suddenly and ..is so hard 2 face it..

dj4mula · #11 (**permalink**) Mar 30, 02

Like breezy said, finding an outlet to your problems is the best way. Something that gets you away from the problem. I suppose this is something easier said that done.

dj4mula · #12 (**permalink**) Mar 30, 02

Like breezy said, finding an outlet to your problems is the best way. Something that gets you away from the problem. I suppose this is something easier said that done.

Like the girl who commited suicide on the island from being bullied. I couldn't imagine being her, being scared to go to school. Mind you, i've been bullied a few times, but I've never been afraid to go to school.