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Nov 23, 05
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^^^understandable, but if you dont asses thoes feelings and find where the problems are, you can still suck it up and move on, but in the long run, it will hurt you more, if someone has a issue that they need to deal with then let them, if they need a shoulder, then be there, have compassion and understanding, not a "i told you so" for them
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Nov 23, 05
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^^ Part of fixing things is accepting and moving on. Too many people drag out this process and whallow in misery. My point was we all do stuff we don't like because we have too. Sometimes you want to stay in bed and not talk to anyone but you have to get up because of responsibilities. It sucks but thats life. How cynical of me haha.
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Nov 23, 05
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no yer not cynical, everyone has different opinions, i thank you that your isnt similar so some (fable), but yeah after the root of the unhappyness is sought out, it can be fixed, it takes time, all depends on the person, for some its a few days for others its a lifetime, but everyone needs to realize that the "get off yer ass is very negative", if someone has a problem they know what it is and are tryin to fix it, give em props dont scold em on there time usage, everything takes time
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Nov 24, 05
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what you say is all very true, but before you jump the gun.. take a breath girl.... being that i live out in the boonies, where the only place walkable is my current job.. what would you expect me to do before i get my lisence and am able to drive myself to civilisation? no one else is going to do it for me, so im managing on my own the way that i know how.. i'm not complaining.. i'm just doing what i gotta do
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Nov 24, 05
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^I grew up in abbistan,even though i grew up in a suburb if i walked for 10 minutes itd all be country,with that said most of my friends were deep in the country,so I know where youre coming from,however its still no excuse.
I kicked my drug habits,dealt with being raped,dealt with my best friend dieing and did what I had to do to better myself and not let bad things hold me down. You seem so content making excuses,and the truth is youre going to continue making excuses until a)you die or b)accept your faults and change them. as for paininyuranus,I have feelings we all do,its what you do with those feelings is what matters.You can either be proactive and make the right choices,or make excuses&bad choices and be destructive. Its all about choice,dont even argue that fact with me and quit giving me lame ass rebuttals because you know Im right.Not to be conceited or anything but someone try to give me a legitimate arguement as to why life is not about choice? I thank you.
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Nov 24, 05
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i didnt say that life isnt about choices, people do need to make the right ones, and when they dont it takes time to fix them, playing the victim card dosent help, but i can see that it dose lighten the load, if everyone that goes to therapy and takes anti-depressents were told that there lazy and that they are useless cuz there not runnin their life the way they "should", there would be a higher suicide rate...then there already is im not saying your right or wrong, im just saying that theres no need to downsize others, just because there going through a rough time, when you went through all that shit, did you sit at home by yerself like nothing even happened?, or did youhave friends and family to help with yer grief?, cuz the way yer talkin its you against the world, and honey your not the only one
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Nov 24, 05
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With all that being said, I am not so much unhappy as displeased with where I am currently. Life-wise I am happy with almost everything, but not with where I live. And my choice is to move the hell outta here as fast as possible- but that can only come when I can afford to. That's pretty much all I was saying. Also, I'd like to go to school but money-wise it's not an option just yet.
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Nov 24, 05
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k sorry if i didnt candy coat what I had said to make it easier for others to swallow.Im not about that bud, I give it straight.Go cry foul elsewhere pussy.
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Nov 24, 05
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Nov 24, 05
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oh oh wait...i forgot my feeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeel ings:004:
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Nov 24, 05
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chris has been wanting to come out here, but i have not heard back from him as of late, so you know that the room is yours if ya want it. getting out of van really gave me some perspective, and i think ity did the same thing for erik. so if ya want to acompish something, come out here. it really does make you realize how much potential you really have. :)
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Nov 24, 05
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your not taking her andrew!!
you'll have to fight me for her... don't make me..i'm warning you... i have a good evil eye! *evil eyes*
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Nov 25, 05
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buddy andrew, if my shit aint figured out by dec. 1st im on the next plane.....but this whole no window thing...... i aint feelin it.........
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