to get the love of your life back

[Discord]

nothing.
you cant get someone back if they dont want to come back.
you can only let your feelings be known. if they come back its worth it.. if they come back cuz you bagged or made them feel pity... then its not love.

[neoh]

^ yeah, what she said.

[Heffy]

Originally Posted by Avana

If you love them,
Set them free,
If they come back, they are yours to keep.

I agree.

BUT

Holy cliché Batman!

Those of you who don't think "love" exists, I both pity and envy you because you have obviously never experienced it.

I am still a bit fucked in my head from my last relationship, was it love? I think so, only somthing as emotionally elusive as "love" could cause people (myself included) to do the types of things that are done in the name of "love". I lost mine. Would I do anything to get her back? Maybe. But I know that she doesn't love me anymore and has literally turned into a different person so whats the point?

There is no point to trying to get back the love of your life if he/she isn't still in love with you, and if he/she was, then you would be together.

The person the coined the phrase, "tis better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all" obviously never had his heart trampled.

[Bevvy Swift]

Originally Posted by Ragga_Wh0re

...ever heard that saying that goes "everything happens for a reason"

seriously, where do you get all your love cliches, "chicken soup for the soul?

remember that these are written to ease the pain of those who are sobbing and at the end of thier rope, and are not necessarily true. sometimes circumstances dont allow two loving people to have a healthy relationship, so they break it off, and upon changing of said circumstance, can get back to having a happy and healthy relationship. and quite often time apart allows for individual growth as well.

that said, go back to your whining, cliche-spitting support group.

[scue]

You must spread some Karma around before giving it to Cheez again.

[Ashley*Dawn]

If you love them,
Set them free,
If they come back, they are yours to keep.

that's pretty much it.

[Ragga_Wh0re]

Originally Posted by Cheez

seriously, where do you get all your love cliches, "chicken soup for the soul?

remember that these are written to ease the pain of those who are sobbing and at the end of thier rope, and are not necessarily true. sometimes circumstances dont allow two loving people to have a healthy relationship, so they break it off, and upon changing of said circumstance, can get back to having a happy and healthy relationship. and quite often time apart allows for individual growth as well.

that said, go back to your whining, cliche-spitting support group.

awww,dont have a tantrum sweety just because i dont agree with people lying to themselves:)

everything does happen for a reason,and id really love to hear a valid arguement that proves otherwise...

you can beleive what you want,and Ill beleive what I want.You dont need to get your panties in a wad because I disagree.And the support group remark??Hardly,if anyone needs a support group itd be you my friend.Youre a sour little bitch.

[ebbomega]

so, if everything happens for a reason, why exactly are you a condescending bitch who can't seem to think she's ever anything but right?

[Ragga_Wh0re]

simple.

birth defect.

;)

[!jess!]

wow didn't expect all this

[Lenny]

Originally Posted by Avana

If you love them,
Set them free,
If they come back, they are yours to keep.

not true

[Bevvy Swift]

Originally Posted by Ragga_Wh0re

awww,dont have a tantrum sweety just because i dont agree with people lying to themselves:)

everything does happen for a reason,and id really love to hear a valid arguement that proves otherwise...

you can beleive what you want,and Ill beleive what I want.You dont need to get your panties in a wad because I disagree.And the support group remark??Hardly,if anyone needs a support group itd be you my friend.Youre a sour little bitch.

maybe, but honestly, its just that sayings like "everything hapens for a reason", and "those who make you cry aren't worth your tears" and all that just make me sick to my stomach. love is about more than affection and happiness, its also about endurance, and forgiveness, and empathy.

[Ragga_Wh0re]

^we could go on and on about what love is and is not about,and I could both agree and disagree with what you think it may or may not be.But truth is,even though they make you sick to your stomache...that all those lil cliches I say...is just that.Truth.No matter how much you hate them,one thing remains.The truth of the cliches.

anyways,stop being so god damned sour!fuck I thought I was a miserable wench but you really just take the cake sister;)

[ebbomega]

cliche's aren't cliche's because they're untrue.

they're cliche's because they've been said so often there's no real point in saying them anymore. all the truth you're trying to convey is lost because it just gets filtered by that little noise-reducer in our brains called the thalamus.

pick a different way of saying the same thing and maybe you might actually be listened to.

if all you're speaking is stuff everybody already knows, it's really just a waste of breath.

[fable]

love is not in a humans ability to fully comprehend. As it is an ideal, and all we can hope to do in our life time is use our inadequate means to comprehend and immerse ourselves in it to the best of our ability. Perhaps we may foster a love so great that it will continue into following generations, empowering another individual or group to further expand on it.

If you want the "love of your life back" then work for it, fight for it, and never have any regrets about not trying. But understand that it may bring more pain than you could ever imagine, and in this truth is the bitter sweetness of life, love and loss.

regards,
hallmark

[ebbomega]

love is a word.

that is all.

[fable]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

love is a word.

that is all.

wow, profound.

no wonder most people seem to stick to cliches.

[Ragga_Wh0re]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

love is a word.

that is all.

maybe you should reference youre above noted tripe about cliches bud before you go open up your mouth and have a serious case of foot in mouth disease!

just a lil heads up.

[Bevvy Swift]

im not going to say that there's no truth in cliches like those, because usually, it becomes a cliche because many recognise it as true. but the problem lies in people using them as words to live by, like it's gods law or something, but its not always the case.

and ill try not to be so sour.

[Ragga_Wh0re]

^keep me updated on your progress;)

[Bevvy Swift]

sheeit im not sour, im just testy

[Jeaninah]

Buy her a pearl necklace. The bitches love that.

[ebbomega]

^^ They also like it when you say romantic nothings like "Grab your ankles bitch, it's ass-riding time!"

[LLaaUUrrYYn]

I once considered catching a flight to Toronto to try to work things out with a boy (who at the time I thought was the love of my life) Too bad he was getting married in 4 months and she could kick my ass.

[Lil Jenna]

Tell him how you feel and wait it out. If you want him back its his decision whether or not he comes back to you. If he is happy then leave him alone and move on.


I have the love of my life back :) I just had to wait a long time... I hope everything works out for you miss pink.