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family
why does family have to be so confusing and painful and wonderful at the same time? i hate how, at least in my family, there are always hidden layers of emotions and grudges and hate mixed with love.
i hate how everything is always so hard and everybody talks about everyone else, but never talks to the person they should talk to. including me, because we're all too scared of making the other person angry. as usual, my feelings are a mixture of some sort of strange sad love. |
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keep this in mind:
the people that love you the most are the ones that are gonna look you straight in the eye and tell it like it is,regardless of how you`ll react,or wether or not its something you really want to hear.Honesty is admirable,implement honesty into your every day life and you`ll reap the benefits. Maybe once your family sees you doing so they`ll follow suit. Nothing risked is nothing gained. |
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i know...the problem is, it's not like no one has tried the direct honesty route. it's been done in my family...i've talked to my mom, my sister told them how i feel, but no one listens. no one wants to admit they're own faults. it's always someone else's fault...and unfortunately for my dad, it's usual him they choose for the blame.
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