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Apr 04, 02
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Just friends..
When your just a friend to someone but you want to be so much more, it's really hard to see them, hold there hand and know you want to be with them, but your too scared to say a word. I have a friend that I don't see that often, but whenever I do see her she makes me feel so good. I'll run into her at a club, or downtown or anywhere and we'll talk, just sit there and talk about anything. When I went ice skating for my friends b-day this girl was there again, so as usual, we started to talk and we were skating around when she grabbed onto both of my hands and we went skating around together. When I talk to her, I don't feel like I'm talking to just anyone, it's a totally different type of conversation, one where so much is expressed in such few words. It all hit me while I was skating with her, I like her, I'm interested in her, I have nothing in common with her, no interests, were so different, she's so calm, so down to eath, such a good person. what do I do? I can't just call her out of nowhere to talk, or can I? I don't even know what's happening, was what I felt mutual or was it just a dream? Just something my mind made up in it's lonelyness. I guess we'll see in time, who know's maybe I didn't imagine it.. it just feels nice to know that I can still get interested in a girl, I don't meet many that are too interesting these day's..
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Apr 04, 02
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do what your heart tells u to do
but dont wait too long or else u might regret waiting call her up right now and ask her out hehe j/k
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Apr 04, 02
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ok now you're pushing it someguy
why don't you just change your name to "mr.niceguy" people here haven't been buying any of this crap since the beginning, and i've tried to keep them under control, but i really don't care now. flame away ppl
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Apr 04, 02
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just out of curiosity...
is this someguy really how you are in real Life? or is someguy just some sort of personality you step into when you come Here?
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Apr 06, 02
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Apr 07, 02
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awww..u guys..be nice..
someguy seems like a nice guy... and someguy..be more optimistic..and just go for it...if u wait and linger...then u lose..and then u regret...~
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Apr 12, 02
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ok here is a serious answer... i dont usually post on f&k.. but this is my second one today!! wow!! hehe...
ok here goes... i always like to think in analogies... like a baseball game. it's always better to step up to the plate, swing, then strike out, than to never step up to the plate at all. if u do nothing... u will only nothing out of it. but if u try and make a move, there is a chance u will fail, but another chance u will succeed. so take the risk. F.D.R. once said, "there are many ways to move forward, but only one way to stand still." so i guess the moral is... take some action!! Robert Kennedy Jr. (or whoever... dunno) also said, "only those who dare to fail greatly can achieve greatly." so... the lesson is: take a risk!! the above would be my philosophical approach... now for something more specific. the next time u see this girl... try ur best to make it so that she is having a good time with u. it is always good stuff when the two of u are having lots of fun together!! then say something like, "hey, i had a good time with you today!! we should hang out more often... i'll call u sometime." hehe... then call her up.... and have another good time!! and let her get to know u... make urself attractive to her, both inside and outside :) if she ever calls u instead of u calling her... that is always a good sign!! u also said, "what do I do? I can't just call her out of nowhere to talk, or can I?" i always find that it makes things easier when u have a reason to call... so just come up w/ an excuse to call her up every time!! like, "yo... wanna come watch a movie w/ me?? i really wanna see *blank* and i dont wanna go alone :)" well... personally i think movies are weak excuses to call someone but its just an example off the top of my head... good luck!! hope this so-called serious answer is helpful... post again about how things are working out.... peace ken
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Apr 22, 02
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Just call her, ask her to hang out n'stuff... Get to know her better and everything and take it slow... cause its not exactly a 'just friends' situation... :)
I'm in a 'just friends' situation.... were we both admittted to liking each other but right now were not going out.. were 'just friends' and it REALLY bites... I want more.. but he wants to wait... It's hard....
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