the person that you thought is you best friend

nabs · #1 (**permalink**) Jun 19, 06

i honestly thought my best friend is my best friend, until like a year ago, i feel like she has been keeping things from me, and i dont feel like i can trust her anymore. i cant talk to her about anything, and its just gotton wierd between us. i dont know what it is, but it sucks, i love her and all, but its just very difficult.

tiedye · #2 (**permalink**) Jun 19, 06

you've been wondering about this for a year?

PwInCeSs · #3 (**permalink**) Jun 19, 06

You need to talk to her, explain how you feel, see whats up.
As hard and as awkward as it may be its the only way you will get real answers. Chin up, stay positive, and just go for it, its way better to know then to always wonder.

Ms.Tarantula · #4 (**permalink**) Jun 19, 06

I had someone pretend to be my best friend for a full year so she could fuck my brother...

Sometimes people just arent who you think they are.

Talk to her about it... Forgive or forget :)

yoko* · #5 (**permalink**) Jun 19, 06

I say just confront the situation. Why bother wasting time and energy wondering and worrying? Just tell her exactly how you feel and probe a bit. Ask great questions and you'll get great answers..hopefully.

gluck

diva · #6 (**permalink**) Jun 19, 06

^ Hi Yoko

nipvicious · #7 (**permalink**) Jun 20, 06

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ms.Tarantula

I had someone pretend to be my best friend for a full year so she could fuck my brother...

Sometimes people just arent who you think they are.

Talk to her about it... Forgive or forget :)

dayum she must've really liked ur bro

C_squared · #8 (**permalink**) Jun 20, 06

Quote:

Originally Posted by tiedye

you've been wondering about this for a year?

QFT.

Nabs it's always good to man up and ask a best friend what's up with their shit as soon as you think more problems may arise. There's no reason why you should have been dweling on this for a year mang. Just a thought.

t-skywalker · #9 (**permalink**) Jun 20, 06

ppl grow and change....i have alot of pass bestfriends who i would have trusted with my life and aventually found crappy things out about what they were or may have done to me behind my back....its human nature....ppl look out for number 1, you know? sad but true.

i only trust ppl so much. if i put all my faith into them then im setting my self up and putting alot of presure on them....i say love the ppl u suround ur self with, but only tell them what u can afford to "leak" out. (if it starts getting to other ppl). i have had so many of my darkest secrets told to ppl that i would never even know about.

i love my bestfriend with all my heart and we keep it simple*

ps yes im bitter about this subject sorry:(

~*tct*~ · #10 (**permalink**) Jun 20, 06

Quote:

Originally Posted by nabs

i honestly thought my best friend is my best friend, until like a year ago, i feel like she has been keeping things from me, and i dont feel like i can trust her anymore. i cant talk to her about anything, and its just gotton wierd between us. i dont know what it is, but it sucks, i love her and all, but its just very difficult.

you know, thats been happening with me aswell, when you get older things change and peoples priorties change, it sux but its apart of life

matéo · #11 (**permalink**) Jun 20, 06

Nabs everything you say reminds me of every single cuddle puddle I have ever experienced ever.

hardstylin · #12 (**permalink**) Jun 20, 06

dont have girl best friends.

nabs · #13 (**permalink**) Jun 20, 06

thanks everyone. but i guess i have to talk to her about it, but i just have to find the right time.

cutienikki · #14 (**permalink**) Jun 20, 06

i know how u feel nabs....just today my best friend told me that she "wanted a break" its hurts but i mean if that's what she really wants then okay ill give her her space....*sigh* it just hurts when the person u confide in most and trust most walks out on you even if it is for a short while...

t-skywalker · #15 (**permalink**) Jun 20, 06

no thats just weird?^^^^^ she needs some space? like u guys are dating? man me and my best friend dont see eachother for like weeks.....we wont even talk for weeks. no big deal. do u guys see eachother like every day and get mad at eachother if u dont or something? friendship is so funny sometimes. i get mad at my friends when they have been consistant in my life for like a year then just dive off the end of the world and i never hear from them untill they have nothing to do or anyone to hang out with or to talk to. thats about. if i found out my friend was talking shit behind my back id smack her upside the head verbally or physically. then give her the boot...c ya!!!

nabs · #16 (**permalink**) Jun 20, 06

same here, theres another best friend i have, and she truly is my best friend, we havent seen each other for months, but i can still consider her a best friend because that connection is always there. but about the one im talking about, i really wish we could work things out because ive known her like forever.