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Old Jul 13, 06
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long distance

My best friend lives in Kelowna and my boyfriend lives in Florida. It can be really tough at times, especially when I'm having a bad day/week and would REALLY like to be able to hang out and relax, BUT it's sooooo incredibly awesome when I DO get to see them!

My boyfriend comes to visit on Monday for 10 days, and I am more excited than a 7 year-old at disneyland!!!!
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Old Jul 13, 06
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I talk long distance on the phone ALOT...

I'm scared of my phone bill that's coming in soon...
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Old Jul 13, 06
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in case you don't have a card..

dial 10 - 10 - 925

http://www.yak.com/en/1010_home.php

pretty cheap rates.
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Old Jul 13, 06
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woot! have fun starting monday and for the 9 days after that!
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Old Jul 13, 06
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^ Thanks, lady! I will!

As for the phone rates, my honey and I talk for literally 3-6 hours each day.
I use Bravo phone cards - I get 1111 minutes for $10, plus it comes with a free bonus 60 minute card. Definitely makes the long distance thing A LOT easier when you can talk ALL THE TIME :)
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Old Jul 13, 06
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wow. I don't talk to anyone for that long each day
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Old Jul 13, 06
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^ Thanks, lady! I will!

As for the phone rates, my honey and I talk for literally 3-6 hours each day.
I use Bravo phone cards - I get 1111 minutes for $10, plus it comes with a free bonus 60 minute card. Definitely makes the long distance thing A LOT easier when you can talk ALL THE TIME :)
BIG HELP thanks :)
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Old Jul 13, 06
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^ Hey, no problem!
Like I said, sooooooooo much easier. I get them at a little corner store on Robson, but most privately owned convenience stores have them! I don't know about 7-11 tho.
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Old Jul 13, 06
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hey at least I know what I'm looking for <3
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Old Jul 14, 06
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When Scott was living in Calgary we'd talk on the phone at least an hour a day which for each of us would equal a return flight every month or two :P

Yeah when he'd come visit for a week I'd be sooooooooooo excited. The visits were always rad. A week off work and with my #1...it'd be soo sad when he left everytime though :(

The shittiest part about distance is really wanting that person to be around so bad when you need them or even when you're having a good time somewhere and you wish they were there too.

I totally know how it is. I feel really really really lucky he's living in the same area code as me.
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Old Jul 14, 06
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I had a long distance relationship with my ex and he lived in Calgary, I lived here, it was so hard, we would always count down the days and buy phone cards. I got a long distance phone plan so that I could tlk to him more, MSN helped too because you could use webcam. LEaving was always the hardest
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Old Jul 14, 06
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Originally Posted by galaxie
My best friend lives in Kelowna and my boyfriend lives in Florida. It can be really tough at times, especially when I'm having a bad day/week and would REALLY like to be able to hang out and relax, BUT it's sooooo incredibly awesome when I DO get to see them!

My boyfriend comes to visit on Monday for 10 days, and I am more excited than a 7 year-old at disneyland!!!!
How did you guys meet?
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can't do the LD romance thing. did it once and it sucked for many unfortunate reasons.

tho LD friends are easier to maintain, with the innernet and all. but its pretty hard to open up w/ ppl on the web IMO.
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How did you guys meet?
We met in Cancun.
I was working doing the AE Spring Break Rep thing I was selected for, and he was there with a big group of friends. :)
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i think its something like 2 or 5 cents a minute
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^ cheaper w/phone cards

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I use Bravo phone cards - I get 1111 minutes for $10, plus it comes with a free bonus 60 minute card.
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Old Jul 14, 06
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i kno this guy from Toronto..
he's gorgeous, portuguese, a stoner and the biggest sweetheart..
im in Toronto right now visiting my dad..
and we've been chillen.. and it sucks so bad becuz of the distance :(
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Old Jul 14, 06
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How do you do it!? I've tried the long dist. before and it's been very difficult for me. Being able to talk on the phone for that long definitely makes a huge difference, but for me it just doesn't replace physical contact enough. Just being able to see my boy on a daily basis makes me giddy, even if we don't actually spend that much time together it is a major asset.

Congrats though for making it work, I bet the 10 days will be amazing and just fly by!
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Props if you can do it.

I tried long distance, couldnt do it.
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I live 15 min away
I give GREAT hugs
I love food/coffee/apps/drinks
I listen well
I am good on roadtrips
I LOVE YOU!
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Old Jul 14, 06
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long distance reltionships can be so hard :(
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Old Jul 15, 06
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I live 15 min away
I give GREAT hugs
I love food/coffee/apps/drinks
I listen well
I am good on roadtrips
I LOVE YOU!
I love you, too :)

When I stop being so busy with getting ready for Tim to get here, we will spend lots of time together! I can't wait for you guys to meet him!
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Old Jul 15, 06
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^ cheaper w/phone cards
you should try SKYPE (www.skype.com)
cos my parents are in the UK, and my friends are in Australia
kinda like MSN - as long as you are both contacts, and you have a microphone and speakers (or a headset)
it's totally free to download, sign up and talk, so no more phonecards or anything
whenever your online and they call it your computer sings to you :)
plus, calling within North America from your computer to a phone number is free
SO.... if your man is in Florida, you can call his phone from your computer and talk for free
i know, not the same as them being there, but still, a money saver
:) hang in there, i've totally been in your situation before, and definitely know the feeling of not having your close friends around you
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Old Jul 15, 06
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^ Right on! Thanks :) I'd still have to use phone cards b/c a lot of the time we're both no where near our computers, but that would be a great idea for when we are!

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Originally Posted by Disco_Whore
How do you do it!?
Honestly, I dunno.
People ask me this all the time, and all I can say is "he's worth it". It's true. I mean, we know that it's only a matter of time before we can be together. It's not like it's one of those LD relationships where we haven't discussed the future, so I think that really helps. Knowing that we have a plan and that both of us are doing everything we can to make it work keeps my mind at ease. It also makes it easier that we've always lived apart. I'm sure it would be 2374325745820 times harder if we had lived in the same place and then one of us moved away. Like I said before, the only times that it's REALLY hard is when I'm having a bad day/week and just want the comfort of him being around!
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Old Jul 15, 06
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Originally Posted by galaxie
I love you, too :)

When I stop being so busy with getting ready for Tim to get here, we will spend lots of time together! I can't wait for you guys to meet him!
Wonderful :)

I can't wait to meet him!!!
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