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Jul 23, 06
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sometimes intrests change, and you just dont fit so well together anymore.. I've gone through these drift apart friendships that come back together after months of being apart and turnout better then they ever were before.. I hope it all works out for you. 
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Jul 24, 06
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people mature or find new interests, it's just part of life.
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Jul 24, 06
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you find bigger and better thing and move on. it's a part of reaching the next level in your life.
sure things may suck right now, but over time you will realize that you made the right decision in the long run. and who knows, maybe over time those same induviduals will decide to travel on the same path that you have chosen, and you'll find them along the way. cheer up, you are now entering a very happy and prosperous chapter of your life. so you may as well make the best of it. good luck! =)
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Jul 24, 06
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This feeling totally sucks! What sucks even more is when you try and try everything and anything to stay friends with that person/persons and the only effort is from your side of things. I've been trying for months to hang on to a friendship with someone that has lasted 18 years and all it does it hurt even more. I just keep telling myself that it's their loss.
Also on a cheesier side of things, I've realized that ppl come and go for reasons. They may have been there to cheer you up on a sad day or help you through a rough time, or to lend you something. Everyone that comes in and out of your life has a reason for it. That person's time may be up now. PS - Muffy I <3 you.
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Jul 24, 06
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I still love you, even though I never get to see you. :) *hugs*
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Jul 26, 06
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why would you assume you did anything wrong? or anything at all?
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Jul 27, 06
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People come and go, and sometimes a depature is really tough on one party more than another. As your life changes, so must those who inhabit it with you.
I wish I could see you more than I d, but I know that you are my friend for life even if we can't always hang out. And for any real friend, you will have that feeling....but, you will always be popular at raves and in the heart of nerds everywhere. PS_ you don't do things wrong, so it must have been them!!!!
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Jul 28, 06
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I've moved from town to town, school to school, and have had numerous friends come and go, both close and by association. I've found there are so many folks in the world I can get along with that if some of my older buddies fall by the wayside due to drifting interests, it's not that big of a deal.
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Jul 28, 06
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Dont jump the gun. Ive been amazed how easy it is to fade away from your friends, but then years down the road you happen to run into each other again and you get right back in. Its really hard when you watch it happen, but I guess its just the way things work. Dont give up hope and dont think its done for good. :317:
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Jul 28, 06
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It never gets easier, it never gets more comfortable and its next to impossible to "prepare for it" Grin and Bearing it sounds just about right. But also remind yourself that in this crazy fucked up world we live in, that beautiful things like close freindships are not eternal, and nor should they be. Sometimes the pain and eventual dull ache that are hearts face, remind us how fucking awesome things can be. Keep yer head up, but even if you cant, you will again eventually! If you're stong in heart, kind and loving, then you're bound to attract new amazing people in your life. pc/ez
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Jul 28, 06
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Im disconnected from all my friends now that Im a mom.
I guess its mostly due to my new responsabilities,and thier lack of.
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Jul 30, 06
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The world moves forward and people... move forward too. Some of your friends - if they aren't close-minded, will move foward with you for a long time to come. However, if they like to stay in their current comfort zone forever, then those are the people you will start seeing less and less cause they aren't moving forward with you.
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Jul 30, 06
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"And the reasons?... well.. there ARE no reasons." /trainspotting
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Jul 30, 06
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Last edited by dabbler; Jul 30, 06 at 12:22 PM.
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Jul 30, 06
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Its also hard when you are just developing a friendship then all of a sudden you never hear from the person again.....what a tease....all your left doing is wondering if you did something wrong......I soppose there really are alot of sketchy people....
It hurts for a bit but the confussion passes....and I bet just when you have forgotten about that person they call you up.....
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