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Aug 05, 02
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Guys who Hit Girls
Something has been scaring me lately.... my b/f has over the past few months been kickn at me and shit more and more when he gets mad at me. Once he even picked me up off a chair, threw me against the wall.. then threw the chair at the wall right next to me..He's always telln me bad things bout myself... and I'm started to feel scared around him when we are fighting... like i'll get up to walk past him but won't because I'm afraid he will hit me. I know i say stupid things and that is why he'll hit me... but i don't know what to do.. cause when i just don't speak he gets pissed too..
I'm so sick of this lame shit. Fuck Jolene come back :( 
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Aug 05, 02
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umm.. no, dont tell him to fuck off. Just leave, get a restraining order and charge him..
DUH
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Aug 05, 02
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Come on, thats just not right no matter how much a guy could be pissed off at a girl. Its just plain respect, I mean doesn't he even feel bad about it after doing it, and whether he does or not he shouldn't be doin it in tha first place. Its a tough descision especially if you really care for him but like I always say, you gotta do whats best for yourself in most cases, so just leave him. You gotta be considerate about other people's feelings but.......hes hitting you damn it!
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Aug 05, 02
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yeah it is..
and i know it's stupid that i just don't leave.. but it is so much harder than u could imagine. I mean.. I treat him badly.. he has always treated me badly... and yet no matter what i do i can't make it end.. it's just never gotten to the point where i was afraid of him...not like now
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Aug 05, 02
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this isnt directed towards anyone in particular, but some girls just need to be smacked sometimes
john 2899131
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Aug 05, 02
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^^^^^NO, nobody needs to get smacked. (well except for overly e-tared ravers). Boys who hit girls are just insecure people who like having power over others. Wow he hits you ay, then he must really love you. Nothing shows love like inflicting pain. Get out of that one while you can!
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Aug 05, 02
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It's understandable that you might want to try to hold something you once had. But, no matter how sweet he gets or however apologetic he will be. The fact remains is that NO MAN should hit a girl! If you need some support and encouragement or someone to bitch to, you can totally icq me (11739980). I'm like Dr. Kay :) But, you really need to think about your safety first.
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Aug 05, 02
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just leave.. and if he hits you again... I'm sure some of us will be over there with bats... cause thats not fucking kewl!
if a my bf ever hit me... lets just say he wouldnt ever be able to hit up a girl again! cause, I wouldnt want him to treat a girl the same way he treated me!
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Aug 05, 02
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^^^they're all right. Don't stay with him.
I was with this guy for 2 years, on and off. I really loved him, but he turned our relationship into a fucked up headtrip. He played all sorts of head-fuck psychological mind games with me, and eventually it came down to the time he hit me, right in the face, snapping my glasses in half. I knew then that it was time to stop worrying about "us" and start doing what was right for ME. It was awful, ending something that once meant so much to me. I had to really accept that it was never going to be what it used to be. Making that decision to take care of myself was one of the hardest as well as one of the smartest things I've ever done. Don't stay with someone you're afraid of. You deserve more respect than that. I have a feeling that we are all saying what you expected us to say, and that's why you posted this. You just wanted to hear what you already know is true: You shouldn't be with him. ~take care of YOU~ and if you need someone to talk to, pm me or email me prozac@junglist.com -jessica.
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Aug 05, 02
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i hate guys who hit girls... it sok to hit a girl... once shes beating the fuck outta you bad.. cuz you dont just wanna stand there and get beat down.. but ya... if anyone hits a girl.. i bet there will be tons of peorepl with bats and sjhit to fuck him up
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Aug 06, 02
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Lynda!!!
This is Cheryl...dude man seriously if this is what's now going on, it's not worth it and, u should get out while u still can. U can do sooo much better then that, not 2 mention, u deserve much better then that.
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Aug 06, 02
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I agree with John actually.. sometimes, some girls really do deserve to be slapped and beaten.
Damn double standards... A girl is allowed to beat the shit out of her bf and get away with crying that it was in self defense, but the second a guy raises his hand even towards a girl, he gets into all kinds of trouble. The moment she cries "MY BF HIT ME", all her lil posse will be there to cause a riot and destroy. Women always whine about how things aren't equal, but they can't handle the negative equal treatment that comes with being on the "same level". I say if a girl hits a guy, he has every right to hit her back. Then again, that's just my opinion. Do as you may, whine to all your friends and get other people tracked in your own garbage. This is an issue between you and your bf, it's not some stupid teenage popularity contest in which you go and try to see how many of your friends or his friends you can get against him.
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Aug 06, 02
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john 2899131
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Aug 06, 02
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um, LEAVE, NOW!!!
trust me, it WILL NOT get better, it will only get worse. i know it's hard to leave, but once you do you will feel a thousand times better. and no matter what bad things he says about you, you have to believe they're not true and you don't deserve it. "saying stupid things" does not make it okay for him to be abusive to you, and it is definately not a reason for him to hit you, it's just his exscuse. the longer you stay, the harder it is to leave. best of luck.
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Aug 06, 02
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especially when it comes to EQUAL RIGHTS... if a girl is gonna hit a guy, i think she should be prepared to take back what she dished out... even if a guy can probably knock a girl 10x as hard, the girl should have enough sense to know that in advance and be prepared to accept what she's asking for. if a guy is abusing a girl for no reason, that's a different story. like if he's just beatin' on her cuz he's one of those angro jealous possessive assholes whose mind jumps to conclusions, and beats a girl just cuz he thinks she's lying to him or something... that's wrong... but it's the girls' own damn fault for not getting out of the situation. it's really pathetic when a girl has to ask all her friends what to do. if you can't think for yourself, maybe you SHOULD let your bf beat some fucken sense into you. cuz obviously you can't grasp the concept that there IS a front door to walk out of. there's probably a back door too, and windows, and a fucken doggie door if you're lucky... fuck, climb out the chimney if you have to... i think anyone who hits ANYONE should be knocked the fuck out and have their hands and feet cut off or something... i don't even condone guys hitting guys. abuse is abuse, and that's the bottom line. if you don't want it, you don't need it, don't take it.
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Aug 06, 02
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I've never hit him. I've only ever done what he has wanted. I only have like two friends now because of him. The rest took off because they realized that I was listening to him when he told me that I shouldn't talk to them. I've always helped him out as much as I could. And I never asked anyone what i should do. I was venting. I know by now that it comes down to what i want and what I have to do... not what other people say I should do.
And how is this a popularity contest in my case. I know like two people on here. He has no friends for me to turn against him or take my side, and i have like two who voice their opinions but would never get involved. And Cheryl.. hey :) remember when i was drunk.. i kept sayn that u were 2 cool and we just have to hang out :) Anyways yeah.. i think my main problem is.. i don't wanna be alone.. and i don't wanna hurt my b/f... cause i know he's had a fucked up life.. blah.. this shit is drama and draining.
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Aug 06, 02
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Yes he's had a fucked up life... and guess who he's taking it out on? I'll give you a hint luvs2slut, it's you.
For someone with a nickname like luvs2slut, you sure sound devoted... very pathetically devoted. I'll also tell you this much, it's not love. Being with someone because you pity them or you don't want to be alone, it's insecurity, it's immature, it's a sign a person is not emotionally mature enough to be able to stand alone. You feel validation and important to be needed by somewhat. You are not some supreme god to help him through his fucked up life troubles, he has to sort them out himself... just as how you have to sort this out yourself. Whether you know two people, or everyone on here... chances are if your bf is beating up on you, people are going to take your side no matter what.
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