Oct 24, 02
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kidz
my niece makes me want 2 rip my hair out of my head OMMMMMMMMMMGGGGG shes such a spoiled a brat. My sis got a new job so now she has 2 work days& im stuck watching the rug rat she never listens to anything i say and she beats on me *sobs*shes a monster! I wonder if i got any rittalin or paxil kickin around?! hahahaha fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck any one got any expert advice on hyperactive defiant children that are 4 goin on 5 but have the attitude of a pre teen girl?!>!
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Oct 24, 02
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wow...devil children...they are hard to handle...but have u tried playing with her or asking her wut she wants to do..then compromise somthing?...sometimes it works...or how about bribing her?..haha..it's kinda bad..but if it will get her to listen to u?..like.."if u don't do this..u won't get to do this"..??..good luck..
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Oct 24, 02
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She's probably feeling sad and angry that her mom is working more.She may be lonely it must be hard to be babysat all the time by someone who you can tell doesn't want to be doing it. spend time doing things she likes, reading books, watching movies. the key to watching kids is putting their needs and wants first.
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Oct 24, 02
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uh dude I njoy spending time with my niece but not when shes goin psycho. I always ask her what she wants 2 do and she always refuses all of my ideas because I am her aunt and I am simply not good enough. She has even said it her self that I am her auntie and because of that I am not good enough so yah. I dont beleive in letting the tv be the babysitter. Its hard when u take her to a park and shes beating down all the kids in the park& then starts freakin out on u becuz U say no to something. Shes spoiled rotten plain and simple. I try to put my foot down with her& not give her her way all the time but then she tres bribing me she goes auntie if u just give me some candy Ill be good...etc etc etc. So yah dude dont get me wrong I love my niece but I dont love it when she acts like a prima donna
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Oct 25, 02
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obviously, you dont know hwo to handle children.
seriously..they aren't that hard to handle at all.. if you know how. just law down the law with them.. and show thems whos boss... or simply... take they're fav toy and threaten to throw it in the blender.. that one ALWAYS works :)
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Oct 25, 02
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yo dont diss!
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Oct 25, 02
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My sisters kid is the same way. She flips the second you challenge her about anything. Honestly though, it all comes down to one thing.... PARENTING.
My sister is way to easy on the kid. No matter what she does all my sister does is say 'NO'. The the kid goes and hits her and has a hissy fit so my sister gives in. Therefore the child thinks she can get whatever she wants by throwing a tantrum. Maybe you should talk to your sister and find out what kind of problems she has with the litle one. OH.... and btw.... do you really let a 4 y/o who said "You're not good enough" hurt your feelings? She just learned how to shit in a toilet and she probably still has issues with that. I don't think she's a real good judge of character on whose good enough or not. My 2cents.....
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Oct 26, 02
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my best friends little sister is the biggest brat ever!!! and i noe how it is trying to watch them and keep em outta trouble but they flip on u....and u try to punish them and they still dont listen...ahhhhh.....its brutal....gurl i feel ur pain...i say talk to ur sister about how she is...and maybe compromise on a way of punishment so its the same for both u and the kids mom....then she's know what she can do and what she cant
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Oct 26, 02
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i like kids.
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Oct 26, 02
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tim...i like kids too....but u gotta admit they can annoy the shit outta u....
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Oct 26, 02
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just look thte kid in theh closet for a minute
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Oct 27, 02
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^^^
we bought my sisters kid two fish, brought them home she fed them too much, killed them. ok next day we go buy her one more fish, she kills the fish,(again too much food) she tells me she was mad at the fish bcuz it wouldn't do any tricks. this kid is always either really really bad or soo sweet. i've raised her since she was a baby (along w my parents) and have a hard time punishing her. her circumstances are going to have her going through alot of tough things in her life and i want to keep her happy for aslong as she is not aware of those circumstances ya know? she is getting in so much trouble at school and i just want to yell at her teachers for it bcuz i know all she really needs is help and love, but she also has to have consequences or her life will be really hard! ahh confused but yeah i think kids just need alot of attention and love
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Oct 27, 02
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I LOVE KIDS!
I don't think I've ever been around a kid I couldn't handle. This one kid I used to babysit was such a brat tho. She was terrible TWO and had this wooden chair that she used to drag around on the ceramic tiles...it made the worst noise EVER. Anyways, I took the chair apart right in front of her face one night. Her parents put it back together and gave it back a week later, and she never dragged that thing again! You have to be mean sometimes, but not like yelling mean, just be firm!
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Oct 28, 02
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Oct 28, 02
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about the whole parenting thing yah my niece is spoiled she`s been spoiled since her first breath so yah. I try to talk 2 my sister&my mom about but they totally bite my head off so im fucked if i do and fucked if i dont. I locked my niece in her room on wednesday I beleive cuz she was pulling my hair and punching me cuz I said no 2 something or other....anyways i lock her in her room and she freaks out she trashes her room acting all possessed and shit AND THE FUCKIN NEIGHBOURS CALL THE COPS! hahahahahahaha fuckin people man i was so choked when the cops showed up so ne wayz i call my mom she comes over we talk 2 the piggers and they r like yah ok so i go down to the neighbours apt. and she wouldnt answer the door. then my mom goes down with my niece&my niece is still spazzin so the bitch saw what was up.
soon i will be bald
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Oct 29, 02
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i have a little cousin who just turned 3. she has a tendancy to hit her family for no reason at all. my aunt would not yell at her, she'd just be firm and say something like "tayler that was not nice. why did you hit me?" and just take something away from her such as no tv or videos. i think she's the biggest brat but then she is good some days
i guess you just have to work on her. take things away, tell her in a really strong tone of voice that was not nice or it was wrong. i don't know much about kids but it always seems to work for me when i do that to kids.
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Oct 29, 02
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done it done it done it done it nothing works if i take her stuff away she gets even more pissed off. My sister took away all of her toys except for her baby doll and her books and her coloring books and crayons and stuff. on thursday night when i was babysittin i had 2 take away her night stand becuz she was trashing that. I think alot of it has 2 do with my niece seeing my sister throw hissy fits on her boy friend if her bf says no 2 giving her money. fuck
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