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Originally Posted by tiedye
The worst is "oh, I know exactly what you mean" because it always leads to them relating a past problem which, in reality, doesn't make them come off as any more understanding or compassionate. Venting should be one-sided. Otherwise it's just circulation.
But that's just.. well you know.. my opinion.
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To an extent I agree, but I think it is healthy for venting to start 'circulating', I am so thankful for all the times I've tried to vent to people and they've called me on my shit and made me think about things from a different perspective.
Opinions are like assholes after all, so only vent to people whose opinions and perspectives on things you value.