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Feb 26, 03
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Busted For Smoking.
i was walking down the street hacking a butt..... my aunt walks past me on the other side of the street.. im thinking.. oh fuck. is that my aunt? we stare at each other.. for a good 5 seconds.. after that i knew 100% that im screwd.. after we passed i just flicked the butt and kept walking.......
what should i do? plan a) talk to my aunt and see if she's gonna tell my mom plan b) just let things flow.. and if my mom asks me if i smoke.. come clean and accept anything that happens after that im not close with my aunt.. its one of those odd - non - close relationships with family.. things are going pretty rough between my mom and me... my aunt does live with me.... they recently found out i drink..... smoking will just send things to the roof. so far im thinking of going with plan b ... hit the bottom end deep.. then after build my way back up with trust ect..... any advice would help. 
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Feb 26, 03
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advice? come clean man...let your parents know you smoke...or quit.
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Feb 26, 03
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I say go with plan b... just wait and see what happenes... go with the flow. Your parents are going to find out one day, but this way if ur aunt doesnt say n e thing, ur safe. and if she does, then come clean.
When my mom found out i smoked i thought she was going to be SO mad. She made me smoke a pack till i turned green, then after that i was allowed to smoke with her and stuff. She thought that by letting me smoke around her it would take the fun out of sneaking around and doing it. It didnt work, oh well. Just wait and see what happens
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Feb 26, 03
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yeah but ur parent smokes.. they'll get that impression.. monkey see.. monkey do.. kinda thing...
my dad used to smoke.... lots of my family members got cancer from smoking... which was a main reason why they really didn't want me to smoke.
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Feb 27, 03
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come clean and pull the stress factor into ure defence...
lol this reminds me of wett where my cousin and i bumped into each other and shared a smoke together and promised each other we'd both keep it on the d/l..that was a precious family album moment. ive been smoking for about a year and a half..and my parents dont suspect it..cuz im athletic. who knows.. if they catch me one day i think i should be okayy.. they observe the amount of stress i go through on a day to day basis and i would explain it as a once in a while/when needed kinda thing. smoking's really not that bad. come out clean.. make some stupid excuses and have ure parents know more about your life...seriously helps you in the long run. (so then next time when they do catch you doing drugs they know it worked up from a cigarette and not a sudden surprise) hey ure parents call you a disappointment? SAME WITH MINE craziness quit like me! its kinda fun..whenever you see ppl smoking you start talking to yourself and the angel and devil suddenly lands on ure shoulder and ure mind starts talking to yourself arguing back and forth..kinda entertaining actually. test your self control! its nice to have a "reason" to quit.. mine was cuz of bball.. and it ends after next week. im screwed after... Last edited by bebu*funfun; Feb 27, 03 at 12:44 AM.
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Feb 27, 03
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go wit da flow, but come clean if they ask...
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Feb 27, 03
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even though i smoke constantly.. and get busted for lighters everywhere......... my plan on telling my mom that i smoke once in awhile.. everytime that im stressed.. blah blah.. since u told me i was a disapointment.. a few days ago.. blah blah.. it broke my self-esteem.. blah blah.. made me stressed.. i had a smoke. and got busted
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Feb 27, 03
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^^^thats the way i would go.. not the BEST way to do it..but its what kids these days hafta work with. lies and more lies.
lol lighters..funny you said that.. my mom knows i collect pink stuff...so obviously i have a set of pink lighters. and my art work is all based on fire...i need something to start them. gulibleness... and i feel oh so guilty. i truly do.
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Feb 27, 03
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LOL well i hid those lighters in really sneaky areas.... and they found them!.. my parents are harsh snoops.. even though its not the best solution.. it will some how make me more of a disapointment.. but in a way as long as i don't run away from the problem i'll be fine... they can't really do anything right? they have no choice to love me? right?
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Feb 27, 03
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man if you cant tell your parents that you smoke, you shouldnt really be smoking...
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Feb 27, 03
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just divert their attention by getting a small coke habit.
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Feb 27, 03
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and then leave cocaine residue on the counter tops.
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Feb 27, 03
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^^
 I went through the same thing. It sucks not being able to do stupid shit to your body without having the rents bitch about it. Bit of advice, come clean about it. Don't try to lessen the blow by saying how stressed out you are or whatever, then they'll just think you have a weak, dependant personality. Tell them straight up that yeah, you have the occasional smoke, no one forces you to, and you like it. But keep it away from them... out of sight, out of mind. :keebler: good luck
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Mar 03, 03
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soooo far so good.. 4 days and nothing.. the only day my aunt tried to pull off something was yesterday.. she was like "hey. why are u hiding *puts lips towards mouth like cigarette* " then she starts laughing? and my parents were right there too. but they never noticed anything...... im puzzled if she's up to something... but i've just been waiting to get bitched at.. odd =\
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Mar 04, 03
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If they do find out, they'll get over it.
My mom pulled over her car on the side of the road and punched me in front of all my friends the first time she saw me smoking. I was 14. It's been 4 years now, and I still smoke. She doesn't like it, but she doesn't think I'm a failure or a disappointment....I've moved out I'm going to university, etc. It may seem like a big thing now, but looking back now I can't believe I thought it was such a big tragedy.
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